The problem with romantic relationships

[Lady Bug]

When you develop a strong relationship with God everything else seems meaningless.

The things of the world are feeling more and more meaningless, I've noticed it too.

p.s. regarding having a stronger relationship with God as a single.

Ideally, the latter part of my day would consist of a hour or two of praying and reading/studying Scripture. If I were in a relationship, I would lose that precious block of time.

 

[bèlla]

I saw first hand the issues my parents faced with each other by not sharing the same faith.

venksta,

Thank you for sharing your story. It provides a clearer framework for your comments. You've mentioned an important aspect of mixed faith households that's rarely discussed. Thankfully, you heeded the Lord's call.

God has also gave me friends who are older than me by 5 to 10 years. They've all married in their mid or late 30's, and started their families closer to their 40's. This has helped me to stay patient, seeing how God has blessed them.

Many fear being left behind or ending up alone. They assume age is a barrier but it isn't. The stumbling blocks to companionship aren't wholly spiritual. Most of the nuances are behavioral with some character flaws too. Dealing with the obvious can alleviate a lot of problems.

All of the ladies I mentored were in relationships or desired to settle down. The majority were in their twenties with the youngest (and last) being 21. It was a year long process or more. We dealt with the impediments and fears that tripped them up and wounded their confidence or created problems in their relationships.

When you're on your own you need wise companions and healthy influences to help you discern the same with the Lord's guidance.

Yours in His Service,

~Bella