I think that I understand your view of scripture. You use it as support for what you choose to believe. And yes, unfortunately many others do the same. This diminishes scripture so that it is no longer God's Word any more than any other book we might read for inspiration.
Personally, I find this position unacceptable and offputting. As a Christian, my interpretations of scripture are through the prism of God's Love, through the prism of the creeds of the Church and the Traditions of the Church. Otherwise it makes no sense to me to affirm the labels of Christian and Anglican.
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With regard to the issue of this thread, I find your position regarding scripture a diversion and totally unnecessary. If one considers only scripture in the context of who wrote it for whom and in what language and culture, the scriptural message regarding homosexuality is quite unclear. If our cultural biases were different, I suspect that our translations would be a bit different, and our conclusions might be different.
Those who point to the clear words of the 3 or 4 verses that speak on this subject need to be clear about the meaning of the original language in the original cultural context. A literal reading is not acceptable, unless we wish to forbid our women from haveing braids, wearing gold and wearing pearls, all of which are specifically prohibit. And certainly men better not have long hair! And of course, all pastors and priests would be married as required in 1st Timothy.
For those for whom tradition is important, the much more serious issue is how Christains have interpreted the few verses over the past 2000 years. It seems that we can choose to reject 2000 years of Tradition or be very, very careful about re-interpreting scripture and changing the Tradition. All the apostolic churches are very, very careful about such changes is interpretation. They are also understandably intolerant of those who would ignore Tradition before coming to a new communal understanding.
For me, the Tradition of the CHurch is clear. From the very beginning, sex outside marriage has been forbidden, marriage has been between a man and a women, and pastor (and bishops) have been men (until the last 100 years or so).
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WHERE IN THE TRADITION OF THE CHURCH
1) is sex outside of marriage supported?
2) is marriage between other than between a man a woman supported?
3) is there support for the ordination of non-celibate homosexuals?
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I choose love and what is morally right.
Yes I pick and choose from the Bible, just like everyone else. Why you seem to think I can't do that when you do is beyond me.
Which is why I work within both just like you do.