united4Peace
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As a mom I went through depression(postpartum)...it happens...its natural but needs treated...one feels alone...no adults to talk too...espeasally when kids are too young to join playgroups...and all mom does is change diapers and breastfeed. Kids are crying...no one to talk too...
Eventually though things do change...with treatment, as kids get older, finding playgroups, etc.
A parent, a mother and/or father needs time to themselves...if married, they need time alone from everyone...including spouse, othertimes they need those dates with the spouse that they had bfore children...
If single they also need the alone time and dating time...
Then there is Family time which is also very important...
As for not having children...one could very well change their mind...however I do know many in their 30's and 40's who have not changed their minds...not saying they dont like children, as they do very much, just as long as they dont have to have them "forever"...(they just "spoil" others children, prob because they know they can return them ).
They have their lives planned around other things...nothing wrong with that at all...doesnt make them any less a woman or man for that matter
As for Drugs, there is nothing wrong with talking about drugs infront of ones child...(doing them is a diff story).
Ive talked about drugs, alcohol, sex etc...
This does not mean Im an addict or doing this infront of them...it means Im educating them...and they will be better for it...and hopefully their choices are better than the ones I made...hopefully they can say NO, or know when to phone me, or will use protection or better yet wait for marriage or a relationship that they plan on staying in forever.
Eventually though things do change...with treatment, as kids get older, finding playgroups, etc.
A parent, a mother and/or father needs time to themselves...if married, they need time alone from everyone...including spouse, othertimes they need those dates with the spouse that they had bfore children...
If single they also need the alone time and dating time...
Then there is Family time which is also very important...
As for not having children...one could very well change their mind...however I do know many in their 30's and 40's who have not changed their minds...not saying they dont like children, as they do very much, just as long as they dont have to have them "forever"...(they just "spoil" others children, prob because they know they can return them ).
They have their lives planned around other things...nothing wrong with that at all...doesnt make them any less a woman or man for that matter
As for Drugs, there is nothing wrong with talking about drugs infront of ones child...(doing them is a diff story).
Ive talked about drugs, alcohol, sex etc...
This does not mean Im an addict or doing this infront of them...it means Im educating them...and they will be better for it...and hopefully their choices are better than the ones I made...hopefully they can say NO, or know when to phone me, or will use protection or better yet wait for marriage or a relationship that they plan on staying in forever.
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