disclaimer: Note, in this thread is not particularly meant to ask for advice, so don't be dissapointed if you give some and I don't follow it.
Okay, we all know that college is a time where meeting women is seemingly perfect. I mean with the classes that we have with them, and the fine selection inside the dorm that we live in, and other clubs, acitivities, friends associations, etc, we have a lot of access to women.
And even more so, there are thousands of them here, so the selection is enormous, and you have plenty of opportunities to meet and get to know them.
College, a wonderful place to meet women, and perhaps maybe the most wonderful opportunity in your lifetime, especially if you are a conservative Christian like me (at a Christian school)
Ironically however, I'm not sure if it is my school or my major in particular, or what, but I have absolutely NO time to meet women! I swear, I am working myself up the wall, trying to get homework done in all my classes, and even when I do take the "short, easy" way out on an assignment, it still takes the typical amount of time that the professors say it should.
So.. school already takes up more time than a full time job. Plus I'm working about 10 hours a week outside of that,
But the even worse part about homework is that although you might only actually spend 4 hours a day doing it, or whatever, you have to space it out over 6-8 hours, because your brain gets so frickin tired because the work is so dang intensive that you need frequent rests. (I swear I can only do 50 minutes of work at a time, and then I at least need a 20 minute break, usually longer)
All I am is a Psychology major and a Business minor. taking 17 credits this semester. Have to maintain a friggin B+ to maintain my scholarships to go to this friggin expensive private school (ironically a private christian college, probably is the best grounds for meeting Christian girls, even tho the cost is so dang high)
and.. quite frankly these things consume all of my time:
Homework
+Homework breaks
+Sleep (if I dont get enough of this I will fall asleep while trying to do my friggin homework)
+Time attempted trying to calm my anxieties and thinking about life and all
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= A very small amount of time left for doing fun stuff, Definately not enough time left for meeting girls or for getting into a relationship.
I somehow have a feeling that if I want to take an economically efficient amount of credits (a high number per semester, cuz this school is expensive)
then I will probably be experiencing this all the way throughout, (unless i change to a communications major or something)
Quite honestly, this gets me in the mood to quit college in general so I can finally get a girlfriend,
Or at least if anything transfer yet again to another school, maybe one a little easier and a little cheaper.
In either case what I'm doing now obviously isn't fun, and the hot girls at this school are nothing but a tease, cuz I will never have any time to get to any of them.
I dont know what it is, maybe I'm just really slow and inefficient at doing homework, maybe I spend too much time thinking about other stuff, maybe college and me just weren't meant to be, but this sucks.
Can anyone else relate to this?
Okay, we all know that college is a time where meeting women is seemingly perfect. I mean with the classes that we have with them, and the fine selection inside the dorm that we live in, and other clubs, acitivities, friends associations, etc, we have a lot of access to women.
And even more so, there are thousands of them here, so the selection is enormous, and you have plenty of opportunities to meet and get to know them.
College, a wonderful place to meet women, and perhaps maybe the most wonderful opportunity in your lifetime, especially if you are a conservative Christian like me (at a Christian school)
Ironically however, I'm not sure if it is my school or my major in particular, or what, but I have absolutely NO time to meet women! I swear, I am working myself up the wall, trying to get homework done in all my classes, and even when I do take the "short, easy" way out on an assignment, it still takes the typical amount of time that the professors say it should.
So.. school already takes up more time than a full time job. Plus I'm working about 10 hours a week outside of that,
But the even worse part about homework is that although you might only actually spend 4 hours a day doing it, or whatever, you have to space it out over 6-8 hours, because your brain gets so frickin tired because the work is so dang intensive that you need frequent rests. (I swear I can only do 50 minutes of work at a time, and then I at least need a 20 minute break, usually longer)
All I am is a Psychology major and a Business minor. taking 17 credits this semester. Have to maintain a friggin B+ to maintain my scholarships to go to this friggin expensive private school (ironically a private christian college, probably is the best grounds for meeting Christian girls, even tho the cost is so dang high)
and.. quite frankly these things consume all of my time:
Homework
+Homework breaks
+Sleep (if I dont get enough of this I will fall asleep while trying to do my friggin homework)
+Time attempted trying to calm my anxieties and thinking about life and all
--------------------------------------
= A very small amount of time left for doing fun stuff, Definately not enough time left for meeting girls or for getting into a relationship.
I somehow have a feeling that if I want to take an economically efficient amount of credits (a high number per semester, cuz this school is expensive)
then I will probably be experiencing this all the way throughout, (unless i change to a communications major or something)
Quite honestly, this gets me in the mood to quit college in general so I can finally get a girlfriend,
Or at least if anything transfer yet again to another school, maybe one a little easier and a little cheaper.
In either case what I'm doing now obviously isn't fun, and the hot girls at this school are nothing but a tease, cuz I will never have any time to get to any of them.
I dont know what it is, maybe I'm just really slow and inefficient at doing homework, maybe I spend too much time thinking about other stuff, maybe college and me just weren't meant to be, but this sucks.
Can anyone else relate to this?
