Silly Uncle Wayne
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Love is easy to articulate. "I love you so much that I have to kill myself" is also easy to articulate. What's not easy to articulate is a valid argument to justify that statement.
If a person agape loved someone else, they would NEVER just kill themselves. They might sacrifice their life to save another, but the way you have phrased it suggests that is an act of selfishness, not love. So there is absolutely no justification for that statement, nor for seeing it as agape love.
Most Christians go with your incorrect definition of "neighbor,"
Which should indicate to you that there is reason to doubt your interpretation. Indeed the whole point of the Good Samaritan story is to show that your neighbour is the person that needs your help. Every Christian would agree with that, since they are following Christ's example. So the definition as applied by Christians is the correct one. As far as I can tell your definition of neighbour is one that you have obtained for yourself and have tried to tell everyone else that they are wrong. Sorry we Christians have been believing this to be true for 2,000 years... I think we might have a better idea, even if we are not always good at applying it.
in which case I'd be a neighbor.
Not really, I do not know who you are. As far as the internet is concerned you are a masked stranger whom I am unlikely to ever meet. Even the Good Samaritan story is one of someone meeting the needs of the person they met. Now if you really want to see Christians being neighbourly go and look for the homeless in your city or watch street pastors at work, or soup kitchens or those that cross over borders to provide housing or food.
If you have food, you have shelter, then your needs are being met and you are unlikely to come across Christians at work, but they are there. If you have spiritual needs you could go to a church and you might find them met (some churches would and some wouldn't).
I absolutely do not feel the agape gushing out from Christians here. Maybe one in ten Christians express a genuine agape for me. More than one in ten express indifference, and more than one in ten express overt disgust and hatred.
Firstly there is no way on these threads that you could ever feel agape. You don't feel it, you experience it. And on these threads people can only offer you explanations when you need them... which many have done and you have rejected them.
Whether I'm an enemy or a neighbor, they should be loving me. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not crying over this. I'm just pointing out that you're wrong. And on this one, it's not your fault; you just lack the perspective of seeing how Christians treat outsiders.
They should be loving you, but they don't have to like you and let's face it you do seem to go out of your way to be unlikeable, which I actually think is quite sad.
I don't think I lack the perspective of seeing how Christians treat outsiders, I see it every day: they treat them as individuals, not as some corporate mob. That is not to say everyone does that, but that is hardly surprising. Becoming a Christian is not some magical formula where we are suddenly like Jesus, it is a process in which we are being transformed to be more like Jesus, and some are further along in their transformation than others.
If your only experience of Christians is unkindness, then I'd say you are not looking hard enough or only looking at what you want to see. Find out which churches run ministries to the homeless or provide care and protection for the drunks on a Friday night or collect food parcels to distribute as aid to countries in need. Go along to them and find out WHY they do it and then you might have a better understanding of agape.
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