The Blame Game

[Rigatoni]

I like that show. I don’t want to live it! We’d better discuss that bunker.

Me either. Actually, that gives me an idea for the architecture thread.

 

[bèlla]

Me either. Actually, that gives me an idea for the architecture thread.

Ooh! That sounds good! White, mint, lots of light. Ohhh.

You inspire my indulgences.

~Bella

 

[Rigatoni]

Ooh! That sounds good! White, mint, lots of light. Ohhh.

You inspire my indulgences.

~Bella

Actually if you give me more details, I could work on some custom renders in my spare time.

 

[bèlla]

Actually if you give me more details, I could work on some custom renders in my spare time.

Wow! That’s very generous of you!

Let me give it some thought.

I’ll send a note.

~Bella

 

[SarahsKnight]

Ooh! That sounds good! White, mint, lots of light. Ohhh.

You inspire my indulgences.

~Bella

Tread carefully, Sir @Anthony7 . She's bringing out the sweet charm again. A weapon known to fell even the mightiest of ogres with one blow. ^-^

 

[Citanul]

Tread carefully, Sir @Anthony7 . She's bringing out the sweet charm again. A weapon known to fell even the mightiest of ogres with one blow. ^-^

That's not very nice of you to call Anthony an ogre.

 

[bèlla]

Tread carefully, Sir @Anthony7 . She's bringing out the sweet charm again. A weapon known to fell even the mightiest of ogres with one blow. ^-^

Sir @Anthony7 dangled his McGyverish skills before the lady.
Who could resist?

 

[Christ is Lord]

I’m very passionate about the topic of false allegations. Every since the MeToo movement we’ve taken one step forward but two steps backward. It’s good that we take allegations about sexual assault and misconduct more seriously and I don’t wish that we lose that seriousness. However, we’ve also began treating people as presumed guilty until proven innocent rather than the other way around. False allegations can result it person’s being forced by their company to step down from their position and it can ruin their reputation even after to learn that it was false.

Part of me wants to place the blame at least partly on white feminist—who can be some of the biggest hypocrites in terms of women’s rights (they sometimes forget or are obvious to other women like those or color). They take the vibe of because we’ve been oppressed for so long by a patriarchal society we should go out and be extremely aggressive in securing our rights. That mindset leads them into this assumption that very allegation is automatically true.

In terms of making myself less of a target for false allegations by advice would be the following:
- As much as possible and when appropriate don’t hang out with ladies without company (preferably in a mixed group)
- Don’t text late at night (don’t care if you’re in a relationship)
- Avoid women at all costs

 

[Christ is Lord]

I’m very passionate about the topic of false allegations. Every since the MeToo movement we’ve taken one step forward but two steps backward. It’s good that we take allegations about sexual assault and misconduct more seriously and I don’t wish that we lose that seriousness. However, we’ve also began treating people as presumed guilty until proven innocent rather than the other way around. False allegations can result it person’s being forced by their company to step down from their position and it can ruin their reputation even after to learn that it was false.

Part of me wants to place the blame at least partly on white feminist—who can be some of the biggest hypocrites in terms of women’s rights (they sometimes forget or are obvious to other women like those or color). They take the vibe of because we’ve been oppressed for so long by a patriarchal society we should go out and be extremely aggressive in securing our rights. That mindset leads them into this assumption that very allegation is automatically true.

In terms of making myself less of a target for false allegations by advice would be the following:
- As much as possible and when appropriate don’t hang out with ladies without company (preferably in a mixed group)
- Don’t text late at night (don’t care if you’re in a relationship)
- Avoid women at all costs

Also, I don’t care how rare false allegations are. Doesn’t mean we treat everyone as guilty initially

 

[bèlla]

It’s good that we take allegations about sexual assault and misconduct more seriously and I don’t wish that we lose that seriousness. However, we’ve also began treating people as presumed guilty until proven innocent rather than the other way around.

Allegations should be treated seriously, but due process can’t be set aside. Defamation isn’t justice. MeToo enabled many to employ that tactic with disastrous results.

Part of me wants to place the blame at least partly on white feminist—who can be some of the biggest hypocrites in terms of women’s rights (they sometimes forget or are obvious to other women like those or color).

They are the loudest voices and had the most to gain. Minority women didn’t have the privileges they were seeking to relinquish. The majority were co-contributors to the household’s livelihood and its domestic mistress.

They take the vibe of because we’ve been oppressed for so long by a patriarchal society we should go out and be extremely aggressive in securing our rights. That mindset leads them into this assumption that very allegation is automatically true.

If you kick a dog often enough it will bite. The pendulum has swung in both directions. Feminism and The Men’s Rights Movement are the result of oppressive extremes by each. Our digression is disheartening.

Good suggestions. I think avoidance will be hard.

~Bella

 

[Christ is Lord]

If you kick a dog often enough it will bite. The pendulum has swung in both directions. Feminism and The Men’s Rights Movement are the result of oppressive extremes by each. Our digression is disheartening.

This is so true. I see this a lot in tech for example on Twitter people will praise having more female engineers than male engineers. Of course I would like to see more female engineers, but this idea that we should have a greater percentage of women than men is part of how we got here in the first place.

 

[bèlla]

This is so true. I see this a lot in tech for example on Twitter people will praise having more female engineers than male engineers. Of course I would like to see more female engineers, but this idea that we should have a greater percentage of women than men is part of how we got here in the first place.

That is the visible face of a spiritual problem. The assault is on God’s design.

Never forget the magic trick. The left hand promotes an ideal but its the slight hand you usually miss. It slides in something different while you’re distracted.

Keep your eye on the slight. That’s the real agenda.

~Bella

 

[Rigatoni]

Tread carefully, Sir @Anthony7 . She's bringing out the sweet charm again. A weapon known to fell even the mightiest of ogres with one blow. ^-^

Thanks for the reminder SK.
I knew something was up when she tried getting me to adopt the MacGyver mullet.

 

[bèlla]

Thanks for the reminder SK.
I knew something was up when she tried getting me to adopt the MacGyver mullet.

And the custom renders for a house and bunker are wholly innocent! You knew I’d take the bait.