Jenna
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When I was pregnant with my daughter, we told everyone what her name was. Being that I have high-risk pregnancies, we figured that it would be easier for everyone to feel more bonded with her from the beginning.
Now, I am newly pregnant with a little unknown person, and I don't know how I feel. We talk about name choices, but nothing real solid. We may just wait until the baby is born, just so we can look at him or her, and really *know* who they are.
Something that gave me pause, was that I had a relative who was very hurt by another, because she confided her choice of baby name- and the other lady (another relative) used it for her child before my relative's child was ready to be born. I think that behavior like that is just shady. I don't think that any of my close relatives would do that to me, but it is kind of there in the back of my mind.
Now, I am newly pregnant with a little unknown person, and I don't know how I feel. We talk about name choices, but nothing real solid. We may just wait until the baby is born, just so we can look at him or her, and really *know* who they are.
Something that gave me pause, was that I had a relative who was very hurt by another, because she confided her choice of baby name- and the other lady (another relative) used it for her child before my relative's child was ready to be born. I think that behavior like that is just shady. I don't think that any of my close relatives would do that to me, but it is kind of there in the back of my mind.
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How far along are you?
I have heard of situations like this, I just can't understand why someone would do something like that.
