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I agree. We are all created in the image of God, and one thing God has not given us is the capability to delete His image from ourselves. IOW it is simply impossible to be absolutely depraved as Calvanists would have it where everything we do is "filthy rags"

What if the Calvinists are right? Wouldn't this mean you hate God and worship idols instead?

What if the Calvinists are right? Wouldn't this mean you hate God and worship idols instead?

Except that the description given of Calvinism wasn't correct. The concept of "total depravity" is often misrepresented as meaning that humans are monsters, etc. whereas the term refers to our being estranged from Him by sin, which is the consequence of our first parents' Fall, and that we are therefore incapable of doing anything meritorious in His sight without Him.
 
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Except that the description given of Calvinism wasn't correct. The concept of "total depravity" is often misrepresented as meaning that humans are monsters, etc. whereas the term refers only to our being estranged from Him by sin, which is the consequence of our first parents' Fall.
Yes, not only estranged, but at enmity (Romans 5:10) with him. ..the concept of total depravity is that being estranged from God by sin means man wants to be his own governor, and does not want God to govern him in all matters.
 
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Yes, not only estranged, but at enmity (Romans 5:10) with him.
Yes. By comparison, people who misunderstand think it's a matter of us humans being incapable of performing an act that most of us would think "good" in itself. A person who is "on the outs" with God can still help an old lady cross the street, but that doesn't mean he's found favor with God in so doing.
 
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I agree. We are all created in the image of God, and one thing God has not given us is the capability to delete His image from ourselves. IOW it is simply impossible to be absolutely depraved as Calvanists would have it where everything we do is "filthy rags".
In terms of merit in God's eyes, everything unregenerate man does is filthy rags.

Depravity is measured by merit.
 
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I agree. We are all created in the image of God, and one thing God has not given us is the capability to delete His image from ourselves. IOW it is simply impossible to be absolutely depraved as Calvanists would have it where everything we do is "filthy rags".
Yes. And Jesus showed us the way to do it. Even he couldn't do it under his own power. We are even promised to do greater works that he did. Wow. (still waiting for that)

John 5:19 NRSV
Jesus said to them, “Very truly, I tell you, the Son can do nothing on his own, but only what he sees the Father doing; for whatever the Father does, the Son does likewise.

John 14:12 NRSV
Very truly, I tell you, the one who believes in me will also do the works that I do and, in fact, will do greater works than these, because I am going to the Father.
 
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Except that the description given of Calvinism wasn't correct. The concept of "total depravity" is often misrepresented as meaning that humans are monsters, etc. whereas the term refers to our being estranged from Him by sin, which is the consequence of our first parents' Fall, and that we are therefore incapable of doing anything meritorious in His sight without Him.
I'm referring to the way I present Calvinism. They have no excuse for their misunderstandings.
 
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Yes. And Jesus showed us the way to do it. Even he couldn't do it under his own power. We are even promised to do greater works that he did. Wow. (still waiting for that)
See Pentecost.

Did Jesus ever convert 3,000 at one sermon, as was done on Pentecost?
 
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Except that the description given of Calvinism wasn't correct. The concept of "total depravity" is often misrepresented as meaning that humans are monsters, etc. whereas the term refers to our being estranged from Him by sin, which is the consequence of our first parents' Fall, and that we are therefore incapable of doing anything meritorious in His sight without Him.

I didn't say that Calvinism says we are monsters. I was merely disagreeing that we are snow covered dung heaps or whatever the Calvanist phrase is and that everything we do is like "filthy rags" in His sight.

I do believe we are estranged from God by sin. It's hard to comment on your point that that we can't do anything meritorious in His sight without him because I don't think we can know when we do something good whether He is involved in it too. I think He probably always is but I don't know scripture says on the subject. I believe it pleases God when we do do good though, and He grieves if we do wrong, so it matters what we do - it's not all filthy rags.
 
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I didn't say that Calvinism says we are monsters. I was merely disagreeing that we are snow covered dung heaps or whatever the Calvanist phrase is and that everything we do is like "filthy rags" in His sight.
I do believe we are estranged from God by sin. It's hard to comment on your point that that we can't do anything meritorious in His sight without him because I don't think we can know when we do something good whether He is involved in it too. I think He probably always is but I don't know scripture says on the subject. I believe it pleases God when we do do good though, and He grieves if we do wrong, so it matters what we do - it's not all filthy rags.
If we aren't born again, it matters not, because we are still his enemy and not reconciled to him (Romans 5:10) until we believe in and trust on the person and atoning sacrifice (blood--Romans 3:25) of his Son for the remission of our sin and right standing with his justice; i.e., "not guilty," justified.
 
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If tiy aren't born again, it matters not, because you are still his enemy (Romans 5:10)

He told us to love our enemies so I'm sure He loves His. I believe Calvanism teaches that God hates the Reprobates, no?
 
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I didn't say that Calvinism says we are monsters.
That's right, and I wasn't pointing at you or any other particular person when I said that "total depravity" is often understood as meaning that men are naturally monsters (or beastly or completely vicious or thoroughly committed to hateful and destructive acts, etc. etc.). There are many people who do take the expression to mean just that, however.
 
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I was pondering whether free will (self-determination) and Universal Redemption are compatible.

Having been resisting the Calvinist idea that we have no free will, mostly because I disagree with Calvinism. But from whence comes the idea of free will and does it coexist with universal salvation?

One of the key complaints against UR is that it violates free will (self-determination) in relation to salvation.

So, why do I argue in favor of free will when salvation has little if anything to do with us and our self-determination? (rhetorical question)

Can we in fact be saved by our own free will? (self-determination)
 
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Total depravity houses the doctrine of inability to believe in and trust God for our salvation, and as a result there’s no hope for anyone unless God first reorients that persons will by an act of divine intervention.

The fact that people mischaracterise total depravity is more often caused by Calvinists, who gear their style of communication towards word games and pithy trick questions.

If they cared more to explain their beliefs than to obscure them they would receive less inaccurate critiques, though in that case they’d most likely receive less converts too. To the thinking man accurately explaining Calvinism is as good as refuting Calvinism, so it’s best for the Calvinist that their views aren’t explained accurately.

@Hmm The triad’s useful and goes into exploring our presuppositions really well, which is why many people don’t enjoy it. Other won’t enjoy the triad because it’s an exercise in “logic,” which they publicly denounce and privately despise, that’s okay, but, sadly they also want to enlist the Bible into their campaign against reason and being reasoned with.

It’s a shame because I’ve always considered God the source of reason and the Bible a very reasonable collection of books.
 
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Total depravity houses the doctrine of inability to believe in and trust God for our salvation, and as a result there’s no hope for anyone unless God first reorients that persons will by an act of divine intervention.

The fact that people mischaracterise total depravity is more often caused by Calvinists, who gear their style of communication towards word games and pithy trick questions.

If they cared more to explain their beliefs than to obscure them they would receive less inaccurate critiques, though in that case they’d most likely receive less converts too. To the thinking man accurately explaining Calvinism is as good as refuting Calvinism, so it’s best for the Calvinist that their views aren’t explained accurately.

@Hmm The triad’s useful and goes into exploring our presuppositions really well, which is why many people don’t enjoy it. Other won’t enjoy the triad because it’s an exercise in “logic,” which they publicly denounce and privately despise, that’s okay, but, sadly they also want to enlist the Bible into their campaign against reason and being reasoned with.

It’s a shame because I’ve always considered God the source of reason and the Bible a very reasonable collection of books.

That's a great explanation of what total depravity means, thanks. I realise that the Calvanists had got me there!
 
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That's a great explanation of what total depravity means, thanks. I realise that the Calvanists had got me there!

Understandable though, total depravity is as bad a tool for communicating what the doctrine means as any name I’ve ever heard. An unbelievers acts of charity or goodwill are as good as filthy rags when we consider that God (according to Calvinists) has withheld from them the will to believe and trust in him for their salvation. He’s withheld the one thing they need to live a complete life with him in eternity, faith in Jesus.

They can’t love God until God loves them first, and he will never love them first, they’re doomed to hell, “doomed from the womb.” He’s hated them before the world began and will continue to hate them forever, since we know God never changes.
 
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Understandable though, total depravity is as bad a tool for communicating what the doctrine means as any name I’ve ever heard. An unbelievers acts of charity or goodwill are as good as filthy rags when we consider that God (according to Calvinists) has withheld from them the will to believe and trust in him for their salvation. He’s withheld the one thing they need to live a complete life with him in eternity, faith in Jesus.

They can’t love God until God loves them first, and he will never love them first, they’re doomed to hell, “doomed from the womb.” He’s hated them before the world began and will continue to hate them forever, since we know God never changes.

It reads like a horror story, something Edgar Allan Poe would have written if he had bad indigestion and was feeling particularly unfriendly towards humanity.
 
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Well, to the garden variety Calvinists credit, they’re expertly apt when it comes to avoiding the consequences of their own theology. They don’t ordinarily hang out with Calvinists in the “God hates sinners” crowd, while the Calvinists who do insist upon God hating sinners can be commended for their greater degree of logical consistency, though they’re just as easily chided for their loose grasp of empathy and sound moral reasoning.

IMHO they’re too often removed from Christ’s example to the world.
 
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Sorry @Cormack, in all the excitement I quoted one of your comments when I meant to quote this comment from @Saint Steven:

"I was pondering whether free will (self-determination) and Universal Redemption are compatible"

It's a very good question. Can God guarantee to save everyone if we have free will and therefore some of us may choose to resist Him forever? I hope that's the question you're asking.

I'd ike some kind of answer to this too. I'm reading a book by Thomas Talbott at the moment, which where I got the three propositions in the OP from, and he discusses this. I'll try to give an idea of what's he says, at least as far as I understand it.

Talbott believes that we do have free will and that it plays an essential role in God creating us as rational and self-aware beings and then perfecting us as his children. As a universalist, he also accepts two additional Pauline claims: (1) that the very same “all” who died in Adam will most assuredly be made alive in Christ (I Corinthians 15:22), and (2) that our destiny “depends not on human will or exertion, but upon God who shows mercy” (Romans 9:16).

So how does he put these seemingly disparate ideas - that of free will and universal salvation - together? He says that Paul himself shows us how to do this. Because although Paul rejects the idea that we choose freely between different possible eternal destinies (heaven, hell or annihilation), arguing instead that our destiny is wholly a matter of grace, he nonetheless stressed the importance of choice. “Note then,” he wrote in the eleventh chapter of his letter to the Romans, “the kindness and the severity of God: severity toward those who have fallen, but God’s kindness toward you, provided you continue in his kindness; otherwise, you also will be cut off.”

So how we encounter God’s love in the future, whether that's as kindness or as severity, is, Paul implied, up to us–a matter of free choice. But our ultimate destiny is not up to us, because God’s severity, no less than his kindness, is itself a means of his saving grace. In particular, His severity towards the unbelieving Jews–even his willingness to blind them, to harden their hearts, and to cut them off for a season–was according to Paul just one of the means by which God saves all of Israel in the end. In Paul’s own words, “a hardening has come upon part of Israel . . … And so all Israel will be saved” (Romans 11:25-26).

So what our free choices determine is not our eternal destiny, which is secure from the beginning, but the means by which it is to achieved. Because the more we cling to our illusions and selfish desires–to the flesh, as Paul called it–the more severe will be the means and the more painful the process whereby God shatters our illusions, destroys the flesh, and finally separates us from our sin.

We don't take credit for our own redemption or even for a virtuous character (where such exists). This credit goes to God. But Christianity also stresses the importance of free choice, of choosing who we serve. But there's no tension between these two emphases as long as we see our free choices as determining not our eternal destiny but the means of grace available to us. Exercising our moral freedom is essential – not so much that we choose rightly rather than wrongly, but that we choose freely one way or the other. We can choose to live selfishly or unselfishly, faithfully or unfaithfully. But our choices, especially the bad ones, will also have unintended consequences in our lives; as the proverb says, “The human mind plans the way, but the Lord directs the steps” (16:9).

Talbott gives some examples to illustrate this: a man who commits robbery may set off a chain of events that, unintentionally, lands him in prison; and a woman who has an affair may discover that, even though her husband doesn't know about it, the affair has lots of unforeseen and destructive consequences in her life.

So our bad choices almost never get us what we really want and that is part of what makes them objectively bad and also one reason why God is able to bring redemption out of them. When we make a mess of our lives and become more and more miserable, this hell we create for ourselves will in the end resolve the ambiguity and shatter the very illusions that made the bad choices possible in the first place. That's how God works with us as rational and morally free beings. He allows us to make choices and He then requires us to learn the hard lessons we sometimes need to learn.

So bad choices can be just as useful to God in correcting us and in teaching us about love as good choices can be. So why should we do good rather than bad? Paul himself raised the question: “Should we continue in sin in order that grace may abound?” (Romans 6:1). After all, “where sin increased, grace abounded all the more” (Romans 5:20). But Paul’s answer is an emphatic: “By no means!” That the pain we experience if we thrust our hand into a flame may serve a beneficial purpose–because it enables us to avoid an even greater injury in the future–hardly means that we have a good reason to thrust our hand into the flame again and again. And similarly, that the misery and unhappiness that sin brings into a life can serve a redemptive purpose–because it can provide a compelling motive to repent–hardly implies that one has a good reason to keep on sinning and to continue making oneself more and more miserable.

Talbott notes that universalists are often accused of being sentimental about God’s love - and we see this on this forum. But the idea that God will in the end destroy sin rests upon a more balanced view of God’s love than does the idea that He will keep sin alive in an eternity of hell. Because God will not permit any of us to cling forever to our illusions or to remain forever ignorant of the true nature of our selfish choices. We are free to sin and perhaps even to get away with it for a while, but we are not free to sin with impunity forever.

Talbott concludes: "So unless we first repent of our sin and step into the life that Christ brings to us, God will sooner or later–in the next life, if not in this one–permit our illusions to shatter against the hard rock of reality. In that respect, God’s holy love is like a consuming fire (see Hebrews 12:29); it will continue to burn us until it finally purges us of all that is false within us. The more we freely rebel against it and try to defeat it, the more deeply and inexorably it will burn, until every conceivable motive for disobedience is consumed and we are finally transformed from the inside out. And so God will eventually destroy sin in the only way possible short of annihilation: by redeeming the sinners themselves."

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while the Calvinists who do insist upon God hating sinners can be commended for their greater degree of logical consistency

Yes, I do at least appreciate their honesty.
 
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