I use to curse a great deal with the same point you made. and I find a struggle with cursing still. Although, I do not do it as much as I used to. I have learned that cursing is usually done with regard to emotion and disregard to thought. It is very easy to throw an F word in as an adjective or the S word as a proclamation. But are they truyl necessary to make the statements we need to make?
Psalm 19:14 - Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart
Be acceptable in Your sight,
O LORD, my strength and my Redeemer.
Matthew 5:37 - But let your "Yes' be "Yes,' and your "No,' "No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.
Colosians 3:8-10 - But now you yourselves are to put off...filthy language out of your mouth... since you have put off the old man with his deeds, and have put on the new man who is renewed in knowledge according to the image of Him who created him.
Jesus taught in the Bible that when a man curses or uses profanity it is a sign of evil that was in that man's heart. If swearing and cursing have been a problem in your life ask the Lord to forgive you and deliver you so that your words may be good and loving words full of grace and truth. He will help you overcome this problem through His power.
I understand that you may not have wanted this to be very serious....but here's how serious it is:
Matthew 12:34-36 -
Brood of vipers! How can you, being evil, speak good things? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth evil things. But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment.
Test yourself to see if you are in the faith to put your desire to please God above your desire to curse:
Would you consider yourself to be a good person? Then read on to find out if you really are good. This is a test of self-
examination to see if you have upheld goodness by the only true standard as given by God The Ten Commandments of
Exodus 20 found in the Old Testament of the Bible.
Have you ever told a lie? What does that make you?
The Ninth of the Ten Commandments is "You shall not lie." Telling even just one lie, even a little, white fib, according to
God's standards, makes you a "liar."
Revelation 21:8 says, "
all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone
Have you ever stolen anything
.no matter how small or how long ago? What does that make you?
The Eighth of the Ten Commandments is "You shall not steal." The value is irrelevant. Taking something that doesnt
belong to you makes you a thief.
In 1 Corinthians 6:10, God says, [Neither] thieves
nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.
Have you ever committed adultery? Before you answer to this one, read on.
The Seventh of the Ten Commandments is "You shall not commit adultery." One definition of adultery means marital
infidelity. Another states: Lewdness or unchastity of thought as well as act. And another describes it as: Faithlessness in
religion.
In Mathew 5:27-28, Jesus says "You have heard that it was said to those of old, you shall not commit adultery.' But I
say to you that whoever looks [with]
lust
has already committed adultery
in his [or her] heart.
Have you ever murdered anyone? Again, read further before you give your final answer.
The Sixth of the Ten Commandments is You shall not kill." To kill is to murder. Murder is defined as willfully putting an
end to life. Another definition means to mutilate or mangle.
In Matthew 5:21-22, Jesus says, "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not kill; and whoever
kills shall be liable to judgment.' But I say to you that every one who is angry with his brother [has murdered and]
shall be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother [has murdered and] shall be liable to the council, and
whoever says, 'You fool!' [has murdered and] shall be liable to the hell of fire.
Have you ever blasphemed? Have you ever used any of the names of the one who gave you precious life in a manner that
was anything but respectful or appreciative?
The Third of the Ten Commandments is "You shall not take the name of the Lord in vain." If you've ever used the name
"God," "Jesus," or "Christ" as a curse word, what you've done is commit "blasphemy," and according to God's standards,
you are a "blasphemer."
In Luke 12:10, Jesus says,
he who blasphemes against the Holy Spirit, it will not be forgiven him.
Do you love God with all your heart, mind, soul and strength? Do you let anything in life interfere with your worship of
God?
The First AND MOST IMPORTANT of the Ten Commandments is Exodus 20:3: "You shall have no other gods before
me." That means that we should love God with all of our heart, mind, soul and strength. Even our love for family and
friends should seem like pure hatred in comparison. And to put other things in life above God is a horrible sin.
In Psalm 14:2-3 The Bible tells us that no one has kept this commandment The LORD has looked down from
heaven upon the sons of men to see if there are any who understand, who seek after God. They have all turned aside,
together they have become corrupt; there is no one who does good, not even one. Therefore, even if we obey all of
the nine other commandments, there is no one who is not guilty of this commandment.
Your deeds will NOT guarantee salvation:
In Isaiah 64:6, the Bible says, For all of us have become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous deeds are
like a filthy garment; and all of us wither like a leaf, and our iniquities, like the wind, take us away. Therefore, no
matter what good you do in this world, you WILL NOT get into Heaven. Forget what good deeds you have done, as
they dont matter in front of a judge. Think about it. If a mass murderer were found guilty in a court of law, but
pleaded for the judge to let him go free because he gave to charity and volunteered at a soup kitchen, the judge would
pretty much laugh in his face and send him up the river anyway.
From the above, we have only covered six of the Ten Commandments and there is no way you could have answered no to
all of them. It is pretty certain that you have pleaded guilty to all six and would have to plead guilty to the rest as well.
Therefore, by those standards, are you innocent or guilty? Would you go to Heaven or Hell? Do you feel like you are in
trouble? Does this have you thinking and concerned about your eternal fate?
And while it may seem that God's goodness will cause Him to overlook your sins in forgiveness, the opposite is actually
true. The very thing you are counting on to save you on the Day of Judgment -- namely God's goodness -- is going to be the
very thing that will see to it that justice is done. Because God is so good He will make sure that every murderer, rapist and
thief receives justice... but He won't stop there. He will also make sure every liar, blasphemer, and adulterer is punished.
While this is something that is extremely tragic and far from God's ultimate desire for any person, the Bible is clear that the
place of punishment for those who do not turn from their sins is Hell. The Bible refers to the fate of the unsaved (HELL)
with such fearful words as the following:
* Shame and everlasting contempt (Daniel 12:2)
* Everlasting punishment (Matthew 25:46)
* Weeping and gnashing of teeth (Matthew 24:51)
* Fire unquenchable (Luke 3:17)
* Indignation and wrath, tribulation and anguish (Romans 2:8,9)
* Everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord (2 Thessalonians 1:9)
* Eternal fire...the blackness of darkness for ever (Jude 7,13)
* He shall be tormented with fire and brimstone...the smoke of their torment ascended up for ever and ever: and they
have no rest day or night." (Revelation 14:10,11)
Does the possibility of going to hell concern you? It should!
Do you know what God did for you so that you wouldn't have to be punished for your sins and spend
eternity in Hell?
God does have a wonderful plan for your life. But because you are a sinful person and separated from God, you CANNOT
know Gods love and plan for your life until you accept Jesus Christ as God's ONLY provision for your sin. Through
BELIEVING in Jesus, and individually RECEIVING Jesus Christ as your personal Savior and Lord; then you can
BECOME a child of God and know and experience His love and plan for you life.
In John 14:6, Jesus said, I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father, but through Me."
God loves you so much that He sent His son for you so that He would pay the price for your sins and be punished in your
place. All you have to do is confess and forsake your sins and Trust in Jesus with Faith as your personal Lord and Savior.
John 3:16-17 says, "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him
shall not perish, but have eternal life. For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the
world might be saved through Him.
The life, suffering, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ are told in the Gospels of Matthew, Mark, Luke & John in the
New Testament of the Bible. Jesus was accurately prophesied in verses of the Old Testament, written from c. 1500-400B.C.!
If concern over your eternal fate is weighing heavy on your heart, it is now time to ask God to forgive you and accept Jesus
into your heart. You can pray something like this
"Dear God, I repent of all my sins, I have (name your sins) against you. I now and forever put my trust in Jesus
Christ as Lord (to say Jesus is your Lord means you are now making Jesus the master over your life) and Savior.
Forgive me and grant me your gift of everlasting life. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen." (God knows your heart
better than you, so please be honest with Him in praying)
SK