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ChasingADream said:
True, it's just really hard when that happens and you're left with nobody.


Once again - not to sound preachy- but you are never left with nobody. There's always someone you can count on to be there for you. And sometimes we go through these things to learn that very lesson.
 
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I just checked out that blog. I was trying to find a way to enter a comment. I would tell that girl how sorry I am for her that she is so little minded and ugly inside that she feels the need to bring someone else down to make herself feel better. How sad for her.
 
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suzybeezy said:
Once again - not to sound preachy- but you are never left with nobody. There's always someone you can count on to be there for you. And sometimes we go through these things to learn that very lesson.

not really. the only people I had in real life to count on are now dead. so...yea. I've got nobody.
 
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suzybeezy said:
I just checked out that blog. I was trying to find a way to enter a comment. I would tell that girl how sorry I am for her that she is so little minded and ugly inside that she feels the need to bring someone else down to make herself feel better. How sad for her.

you would need to join...tht would really make me feel better if you would do that! but if you don't want to join i won't push u
 
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sethad said:
not really. the only people I had in real life to count on are now dead. so...yea. I've got nobody.


My sister recently had to deal with something similiar. She lost her boyfriend of many years and then her one and only friend became brain dead after a horrible car accident. She felt like she had nobody. It was a long journey to figure out that she really did have people who wanted to extend their friendship to her, she just was resistant and didn't believe they were really there for her. She has since made it through that journey and is stronger and happier.
 
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suzybeezy said:
My sister recently had to deal with something similiar. She lost her boyfriend of many years and then her one and only friend became brain dead after a horrible car accident. She felt like she had nobody. It was a long journey to figure out that she really did have people who wanted to extend their friendship to her, she just was resistant and didn't believe they were really there for her. She has since made it through that journey and is stronger and happier.

maybe so. for her.

but I can tell you right now that there isnt anybody.
 
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sethad said:
maybe so. for her.

but I can tell you right now that there isnt anybody.


Well is it a coincidence you found CF? I don't think so. Although I can't be there physically for you, I can be here for you nonetheless. Ask almost anyone here - I am a great person to talk to and would be a ear to listen anytime you'd like.
 
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suzybeezy said:
Well is it a coincidence you found CF? I don't think so. Although I can't be there physically for you, I can be here for you nonetheless. Ask almost anyone here - I am a great person to talk to and would be a ear to listen anytime you'd like.

nothing personal but so far almost every single person that says that here on CF ends up turning whatever I say to them around and they start the good old fashioned insulting/bashing/judging party. then they call me a whiner and never talk to me again.
 
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sethad said:
nothing personal but so far almost every single person that says that here on CF ends up turning whatever I say to them around and they start the good old fashioned insulting/bashing/judging party. then they call me a whiner and never talk to me again.

There are always going to be people like that in the world, but there are also some genuinely nice, caring people who want to be there for you and help you. You can't let the negative people put you off entirely, or you'll end up missing out on some really great friendships.
 
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livingondreams said:
There are always going to be people like that in the world, but there are also some genuinely nice, caring people as well. You can't let the negative people put you off entirely, or you'll end up missing out on some really great friendships.

so tru :)
 
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sethad said:
nothing personal but so far almost every single person that says that here on CF ends up turning whatever I say to them around and they start the good old fashioned insulting/bashing/judging party. then they call me a whiner and never talk to me again.


I just heard that from someone else on here - I won't mention their name. But they had a similiar experience as you did. But you can't give up. I raise my right hand up that I would never judge you or bash you or turn your words around.

Listen, my best friend and I disagree about almost everything! I don't condemn her for not believing the way I do. I don't insult her when she has an opinion contrary to mine. I just listen and offer advise only when she asks for it.

I consider myself to be pretty accepting and understanding. Go ahead - ask some people on here.
 
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