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I just cant get the thoughts to go away i know that God loves me the way i am
Some times i think me wanting to be thin is me being vain you know like am wishing for it pray for it
maybe God is punishing me by making me fat but i don't think God would do that would he ?

God isn't punishing you, sweetie... it's a disease, and it isn't anyone's fault.
Jesus took the punishment for all we have done or will do wrong, God loves you as you are, and always will.
 
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I just cant get the thoughts to go away i know that God loves me the way i am
Some times i think me wanting to be thin is me being vain you know like am wishing for it pray for it
maybe God is punishing me by making me fat but i don't think God would do that would he ?

the thoughts are hard and can be so soul destroying hun. but please try fight them, try find scripture verses that help.

Keep thinking that God wont do it because thats true, it can be easy to put the blame on God (and im not saying there is anyone to blame.) and he can handle us getting angry with him etc. but your not being punished at all hun. sometimes we see ourselves differently to how we actually are, and how others see us. and like Craida said its not punishement its a disease. and one that feeds of our negativity. :hug:
 
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Thank you both it really helps to talk about this with some one who understands

anytime. :hug: I understand that one completly, it makes it a little easier to talk about when you know that there are other people who can see where your coming from and understand things.
 
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:hug:Its not you that you hate hun its the thoughts, and actions that come with those thoughts and feelings. its complicated and really hard to make any sense of. Like Criada said in an earlier post its a disease. do you have n e one around you that you can talk to about how your feeling? x
 
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Atomic, it sounds like you have a binge eating problem. A lot of people who confess to eating disorders usually have conditions in which they deprive themselves, not overindulge but I'm here to tell you that I also have a problem of wanting to eat lots. I am very overweight. I think however my problem is that although my diet is not that high in fat, it is high in calories.
 
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i went through a really bad binge stage after being very restrictive. Maybe if your able to spread your eating out, find foods that you fel ok eating and just spreadd it out. it might help. i'm sorry not the best person to be giving advice, but i try be helpful.

are there n e local support groups or maybe you gp that would be helpful. its good that your husband tries to understadn but it can be difficult i know that one. Its hard for friends and relatives to come near to understanding ed's


I'm not supposed to be online at the minute ( but staff are little bit busy so hey, keeping myself occupied till theyre free and can talk to them) so not sure how long im going to be on
 
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I go from hardly eating any thing to eating far too much
i can talk to my husband about it but he really doesn't understand eating disorders but he dose try to

wow I'm the exact same way Atomic. I try to starve myself sometimes thinking that my body will get used to it but uh uh. :|
 
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Am good how are you ?
Hey good, glad to hear. have you got the sun?

Hi folks :hug:s
I'm ok.. pretty spaced out on meds, but getting by.
How are you, Katey? Are things any easier?

Getting by is good start, its better than not getting by (or summit like that any way)
I was bit spaced out earlier, had bit of a rough morning, and had to have extra meds but yeah im not too bad now, just been out in garden for sum sun.

me..... i'm a bit all over the place at the miniute, very up and down. still got tube in :( that gets reviewed wednesday when docs here. but hey see what happens. guess just doing a day at time a minute that all i can do.
 
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Glad that you managed to get out and enjoy the sun, it always helps a little. :hug:

yeah, so do i, but its a bit of a confusing feeling with it all not too sure how im feeling around it coming out, and staying in for that matter i hate it, yet its the lesser of two eveils!!!!!!!! bleurgh :(

Todays been a really really bad day, following a rough night :cry: hopefully the extra meds im getting tonight (if theyve been written up that is!) will really help me sleep, as im desperatly needing it!!!!!!
 
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