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Father we pray for Your Holy Spirit to enter these matters and meet all needs.
We know nothing is impossible for You and we pray for Your divine intervention.
As Your children we know to expect a miracle. It is in Jesus Beloved, Holy, Gentle and Mighty Name we pray.
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Do this Tom.
When you start to feel the hurt and your at home. Pray of course. But do some push ups. Go jogging.
Out of the blue one day i was feeling down because of my situation which is much like yours, so I jumped up, turned on some of my favorite music and blasted it. And i went to work. I did so many push ups and sit ups that I thought I was going to fall apart.
I HAVE NEVER EVER BEEN THE EXERCISE TYPE!
It just came to me out of the blue. And guess what. ITS AN AWSOME WAY TO WORK OUT THE SORROW AND ANGER!
Gods helping you. You must keep that in mind and DO NOT allow yourself to be convinced that he is punishing you or not hearing you. Its all about trust. Once you have acheived this trust.....GET PUMPED ABOUT IT!
Scream out "YOU ARE NOT GOING TO WIN SATAN!"
Because those devils are doing there hardest to keep you down.

Im a lazy person. but I just had this odd feeling to workout. And let me tell you, it helped get the hurt out. It replaced it with a physical hurt....But that physical hurt felt good. It was a healthy hurt.
Its just a suggestion.
As for me tom....me and my girl talked. She decided she wants to continue her realtionship with this new guy.
It hurt. but i was calm and understanding. It got me down really bad last night.
but i wrote myself a note and sat it front of me while I was at work. A reminder...
"Trust God, he hears your prayers. Jesus Loves you. Dont give up. Be strong"

And you know, it helped. To just have a visual reminder to give my problems to god. To let her see this guy, but to trust in god that this will all work out in some way.
theres always the future. And that sucks. it hurts. ALOT!
But god hears you. Perhaps its a test of faith?
you know deep down god hears you. And in some way he is helping you. But god dosent jump through hoops on our command. I have to keep reminding myself that everynow and then.
Things have gotten better, but there are rough times still ahead unfortunatly.
You and I both have to remain respectful, thankful ,and hopeful to our father.
Be strong....
try working out to get rid of some of those emotions that pop in and out. It helps.
 
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