1. God on many occasions withdraws Himself and His blessings and ignores His bride/church for a time.
2. God is perfect love (1 John 4:8), thus this can not be unloving discipline.
3. Jesus and the Father are one (John 10:30) and the same yesterday, today and tomorrow (Hebrews 13:8). The God of the OT and NT is the same.
4. A man is designed and assigned to image God/Christ, representing Him to his wife (Ephesians 5:22-29, 1 Corinthians 11:3-9).
5. Christ disciplines those He loves (Revelation 3:19) and this discipline has included temporary withdrawals to draw us back to proper union (verses listed several times above, et al.).
6. Therefore, a man aptly represents God be practicing such discipline.
While this is amusing, you have been misled if some particular person here has convinced you pretending to agree with me has any value to myself. I'm concerned about propagating God's doctrines relentlessly for any spectator of the conversation who would believe God's word on account of hearing/seeing it, because this is what we are commanded to do and warned will not be endured (2 timothy 4:2-3).
As I said, this is not about you or myself, but upholding Scripture for God's people as a whole (2 Timothy 3:16-17) and remaining unspotted by the world (James 1:27, Colossians 2:8) because this is what Christ finds beautiful (Ephesians 5:27).
I know with 100% confidence that God Himself would never condone a husband ignoring a wife when he has an issue with her, rather than communicating verbally with her. I know that. If you look at the Bible, did Jesus ignore people, or did He draw close to them? Loving your wife as you love yourself does not equate to ignoring someone or emotionally withdrawing from a relationship. Your premise is that men are God, but Satan wanted to become like God, that's why he was cast away. Seeing yourself as God is blasphemy. Men are not God. We are all made in God's image, but trying to say that, God left people in wilderness, so therefore, because you are a man (and like God) that you should do the same isn't biblical doctrine. It's a gross oversimiplification of the Bible.
I found an article by someone who knows the Greek languages and translated the submission verse step by step.
"We read it and hear something rather like: Wives, do what your husband says, much as you would if God were speaking.
But: this ancient letter to a church in Ephesus wasn’t written in modern English, and much of what we assume when we translate it is quite a bit off. And this is sad – not only because we translate this verse in ways that reinforce traditional gender hierarchies in our culture, but also because what we are losing in translation is really a lovely idea about spousal relationships that came with a shock to the Greco-Roman culture and that might potentially come with a bit of a shock to our modern American culture, too.
Specifically, I suggested that rather than submit, “in context, υποτασσομαι (hupotassomai) probably means to deploy yourself in support of your spouse against the enemy.”
In fact, I would suggest that a better translation might be something like one of these:
“Wives, support your husbands.”
“Wives, deploy yourselves in support of your husbands.”
“Wives, arrange yourselves for battle for your husbands.”
Or even, less literally:
“Wives, go to battle for your husbands.”
“Wives, defend your husbands.”
The Misleading Translation of "Wives, Submit," ... and a Tale of Battle-Ready Women - STANT LITORE
We can see how much effort is required to actually understand the true meaning of the Bible. Your 'extrapolation' of husbands disciplining wives isn't even in the Bible. I've looked all over, I could not find even one verse that said, "Husbands, discipline your wives." And not even one that spoke of how to go about disciplining your wife....
On a very practical level, if you ignore your wife and cancel dates instead of communicating, you won't get the result you want. Trust me. No married couple who doesn't end up divorced does that. I think divorced couples or couples who are on the verge of divorce ignore each other though....and they definitely don't go on dates or do nice things for one another....
But you'll learn soon enough. xD