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Stuck in a rut

cloudstrife007

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To be honest, I'm scared of having a tiny hope that eventuates to being a stumbling block that eats into my faith inside out :(


Since realising I've had a interest in her, I've been questioning my every intent as to whether I'm doing things for her or for God. And I really pray and hope it has been for God. Me and my pastor have been telling her to be more careful when inviting guys to church to hear the gospel (in case of giving off the wrong idea of having interest), I stupidly suggested that I didn't mind being a middle man for her male friends to get to know guys from church first.

She finished up placement at a school recently, and one of the male colleagues she's been wanting to share the gospel with invited her to watch the football finals with another colleague. Might I add she told me that previously he also tried to ask her out for lunch and hang out. Long story short, I'm now going to end up going with her to watch the footy finals at the guys house so we can try share the gospel with him.

If I were to read all of this from someone else, I'd call him a fool for not knowing how to let go. Lord guide me with your Spirit and keep your Word close to my heart.
 
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