I've been struggling with extreme depression and lack of self-confidence for years. I just feel hopeless a lot of the time. Please pray that I can break out of this. I've been trying so hard for years. Thank you.
Hi
I read your prayer request and I really related to everything you said. I also know it’s really difficult when you just get advice on what you ought to do to get out of it. It never helped me really. It’s like you then strive again to try harder some more. I just wanted to let you know I’ll pray for you. For me I realised that this world is always going to be hard. But my hope is in Christ. That’s what I cling on to.
A couple of verses I’ve looked at:
I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world."
John 16:33 ESV
It’s like first of all Jesus says “in me you may have peace” so basically remain/abide in Christ. It then says there will be trouble in this world. But remaining in Christ is the place to abide.
Then:
I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.
Galatians 2:20 ESV
It’s therefore, I die. My sinful self, I confess my sins and am forgiven because by faith in Christ I am a new creation. My life is hidden in Christ.
But it’s simply then: first and foremost to love God. To please God.
And he said to him, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbour as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets."
Matthew 22:37-40 ESV
Bearing fruit is I think to love God, do as He has taught. Love others. But it’s not in our strength. It’s remaining in Christ. Being guided by the Holy Spirit. Being convicted of sin when we sin. Forgiving others. Doing as Christ had taught us.
Then it’s not earthly strivings. Trying to achieve earthly things. As:
I have seen everything that is done under the sun, and behold, all is vanity and a striving after wind.
Ecclesiastes 1:14 ESV
But it’s keeping our eyes on the eternal. Our future hope. True life is only in Christ.
Sorry! I’ve gone on a bit there. But these are things that I have struggled with too, and it’s still hard, but I need to keep looking to the Lord Jesus Christ. Remain in Him. I just hope some of this can maybe encourage you.