I've been dating my gf for 4 1/2 years now. we always felt strongly about each other and stated we have full intentions of marrying. but about a month ago, we hit a stop. we stopped really seeing each other, and she started hanging out with her friends more..
since then, we don't talk as much, and recently she said she wants a "break" and she gave me the "I'm young" and wanna explore more. Also she stated that i "hold her back" from certain things. We had a talk after about 3weeks of not seeing each other, and told her thats crazy talk and i have supported her in everything she has ever done, even when i didn't like it. then she bring up how we have differences in beliefs..while she is a catholic, she supports gay marriage. i am a protestant, i never felt it was a big issue since i was raised catholic, but i made a long Facebook post about how christians cannot say the gay marriage ruling was ok..so she stated we have different beliefs..
I've had a few relationships before, and i know when someone wants a break, they wanna see other people. but she repeated thats not the case. she's also been telling me she can't hang out with me, yet goes out to hang out with her friends..for the past 2-3 years, I've prayed to God to help her see christ more, and use me as the instrument. to help her live for God and have him at the center of her life..but she's more of just a sunday catholic, and only goes because of her family..i would hate to give up, cuz idk if this is all of Gods way of building out relationship..but at the same time, the stuff she tells me makes it sounds like she doesn't wanna be with me anymore...what do i do? I've prayed about this, and still can't find clarity between the 2..
since then, we don't talk as much, and recently she said she wants a "break" and she gave me the "I'm young" and wanna explore more. Also she stated that i "hold her back" from certain things. We had a talk after about 3weeks of not seeing each other, and told her thats crazy talk and i have supported her in everything she has ever done, even when i didn't like it. then she bring up how we have differences in beliefs..while she is a catholic, she supports gay marriage. i am a protestant, i never felt it was a big issue since i was raised catholic, but i made a long Facebook post about how christians cannot say the gay marriage ruling was ok..so she stated we have different beliefs..
I've had a few relationships before, and i know when someone wants a break, they wanna see other people. but she repeated thats not the case. she's also been telling me she can't hang out with me, yet goes out to hang out with her friends..for the past 2-3 years, I've prayed to God to help her see christ more, and use me as the instrument. to help her live for God and have him at the center of her life..but she's more of just a sunday catholic, and only goes because of her family..i would hate to give up, cuz idk if this is all of Gods way of building out relationship..but at the same time, the stuff she tells me makes it sounds like she doesn't wanna be with me anymore...what do i do? I've prayed about this, and still can't find clarity between the 2..