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"Of course I feel it is appropropriate for all people to see the pictures."
But it is not, however, appropriate for high schools to hand out condoms?

"If the four year old happens to see the pix and asks a question, then the parent can explain what an abortion is."

I don't feel a four year old should even know what abortion is. You accuse us of spreading a sick agenda and yet you feel it is completely appropriate to try and explain something so mature as abortion to a toddler? That, in my opinion, is sick that you want to indoctrinate children with such propaganda at a young age, and age where they aren't old enough to grasp the concept of sex, let alone abortion.

Here's an analogy: If I was protesting in support of gay rights, would you be offended if I had a poster of two men engaging in a sexual act for your children to see and just leave you to do the explaining?

"That is the parent's job, to explain things to their children."

Right...at the appropriate time, not when some radical protestor shoves a graphic picture in my child's face. It's pitiful. I have a friend who had to run to a Planned Parenthood to get a refill for her birth control pills. School was out that day and her husband was at work, so she ended up having her five year old with her when she went. As she was going inside, sidewalk protestors rushed to her and begged her to "not murder her baby" and pulled her daughter aside and told her, "please tell your mommy not to murder your baby brother or sister!" Of course, at the time the child was confused and frightened with all of these people shouting things at her and her mother and my friend was infuriated. Now we laugh about the ignorance of those protestors that day who assumed that every woman walking in there was going to have an abortion, not to get birth control or have an affordable PAP smear.

Do you really feel that is helping your cause? Scaring the living daylights out the children you claim to care so much about and hurting the women you claim you're trying to protect from abortion?
 
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KatAutumn said:
I don't feel a four year old should even know what abortion is. You accuse us of spreading a sick agenda and yet you feel it is completely appropriate to try and explain something so mature as abortion to a toddler? That, in my opinion, is sick that you want to indoctrinate children with such propaganda at a young age, and age where they aren't old enough to grasp the concept of sex, let alone abortion.

Here's an analogy: If I was protesting in support of gay rights, would you be offended if I had a poster of two men engaging in a sexual act for your children to see and just leave you to do the explaining?

"That is the parent's job, to explain things to their children."

Right...at the appropriate time, not when some radical protestor shoves a graphic picture in my child's face. It's pitiful. I have a friend who had to run to a Planned Parenthood to get a refill for her birth control pills. School was out that day and her husband was at work, so she ended up having her five year old with her when she went. As she was going inside, sidewalk protestors rushed to her and begged her to "not murder her baby" and pulled her daughter aside and told her, "please tell your mommy not to murder your baby brother or sister!" Of course, at the time the child was confused and frightened with all of these people shouting things at her and her mother and my friend was infuriated. Now we laugh about the ignorance of those protestors that day who assumed that every woman walking in there was going to have an abortion, not to get birth control or have an affordable PAP smear.

Do you really feel that is helping your cause? Scaring the living daylights out the children you claim to care so much about and hurting the women you claim you're trying to protect from abortion?
So, would you support allowing the protesters inside the abortion clinics to spread their information? That way, the target would get to hear it, and the kids would not have to see it.
 
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So, would you support allowing the protesters inside the abortion clinics to spread their information? That way, the target would get to hear it, and the kids would not have to see it.

No, I would not; in the same way I would not want anti-cosmetic surgery protestors going into medical buildings to yell at women for getting breast implants or anti-homosexuality protestors going into a clinic that treats patients with HIV. I don't have a problem with people sitting on sidewalks praying or handing out information to women who ask for it. They are well within their first amendment rights to do so. Just as I would have the right to stand outside a crisis pregnancy center with abortion information, but I wouldn't stoop to that level because I respect a woman's privacy and the delicate nature of having to make choices regarding her unplanned pregnancy.

I have a problem with the verbal harassment, obscenities yelled at women, gruesome pictures for all eyes to see and blocking clinic entrances. That is when you have crossed the line from making a point to being a disruption to the normal daily functions of a public place.
 
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Electric Sceptic said:
I would think the most obvious way to lower the number of abortions would be to increase sex education and availability of cheap contraceptives. Why are those who oppose abortion never for this option?

I am for that "option" and I oppose abortion.
 
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I would think the most obvious way to lower the number of abortions would be to increase sex education and availability of cheap contraceptives. Why are those who oppose abortion never for this option?

Because, sadly, the majority of people who claim they are pro-life really aren't interested in the sanctity of anyone's life - the unborn, the woman who is facing the pregnancy, the child once he or she is born. The root of the issue is the stigma some people have been taught to place upon human sexuality, that it is a disdainful act - an act that must not go un-punished when someone engages in it outside of their boundaries. It's a control issue. It may seem as if I am painting with a broad brush here, but I truly do not believe I'm too far off base with my assertions. The evidence supporting my wild generalization is glaringly apparent in the typical anti-choice talking points. For example:

"If you're going to have sex you'd better be ready to suffer the consequences."
"If you can spread your legs for sex, you can spread your legs to have a baby."
"If you have sex you must take responsibility for your actions."
"If you don't want kids, don't have sex."
"Don't murder your baby just because you were stupid and had sex."
"Why should the baby pay for your mistakes?"

See the pattern? Rarely ever have I engaged in an abortion debate where a person offers up a solid defense of the pro-life stance using an argument based upon fetal development or preserving human life. It somehow all comes back around to "women being stupid and spreading their legs and not accepting the consequences".

That is why they truly aren't interested in better access to affordable contraceptives, because it gives women even more freedom to "be stupid and have sex" and that takes the control away from them to make the decisions for other women based upon their unhealthy view of sex.
 
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DieHappy said:
Wow, so many high minded insults, so many semantical errors, and so much mis-information in one post!
Example?
DieHappy said:
Wow, so many high minded insults, so many semantical errors, and so much mis-information in one post!
Example?
DieHappy said:
Wow, so many high minded insults, so many semantical errors, and so much mis-information in one post!
Example?
DieHappy said:
gladiatrix said:
No, that is NOT what Teddy means. To miscarry means that a pregnancy has been established. However, most conceptions/early zygotes don't manage to establish a pregnancy and are simply washed away with the other menstruation detritus (conservative estimate is that +65% of conceptions FAIL to every result in a live birth).
Prove it.
I listed my references at the end of my post. What have you got in the way of evidence? (oh yeah, your one-liners...NOT!) But I'll make a single attempt to humor your "request" (even though it is simply an attempt to shift the burden of proof from yourself). Here's an expert on reproduction, stem cell research and bioethics, Dr. Arthur L. Caplan:
Caplan (during an interview on Earth and Sky):
In nature, if you have embryos made by old fashioned birds-and-bees sex, in the back seat of cars, or in bedrooms, you need to understand that only 20 percent of those embryos become babies. Most are miswired. Most don't implant. Most fail. There's a huge failure rate in embryos. If you know that, then you don't really want to hold the view, I think, that most embryos are a person, because most embryos aren't. So I would try to appeal on factual grounds to a poorly understood fact that while every life begins at conception, not every conception begins a life.

There's a reason for this kind of failure rate. Ironically evidence for just why so many fail was uncovered during in vitro fertilization (IVF). Bear in mind that doctors go to great pains to insure that the woman's body is optimally prepared to receive the zygotes generated by IVF (her temperature, uterine lining, and hormonal state are peak). However, despite their best efforts, the success rate of IVF at producing a pregnancy is only marginally better than that of getting pregnant the old-fashioned way (~25%). When one actually looks at cells from these embryos we now know why, most of them have chromosomal defects that make them non-viable. Or as the reseachers here have observed:
As researchers seek new ways to boost the success rates of in vitro fertilization (IVF), they are finding that most fertilized human eggs appear destined for the evolutionary trash heap. A surprising number of botched chromosomes in eight-day-old embryos may explain why IVF clinics often have to try and try again to start a viable pregnancy.

British scientists recently reported a new chromosome-imaging technique that may allow clinics to improve the odds for IVF success. And their findings highlight the possible reason for all-too-common failures: Only three of 12 embryos sampled from couples undergoing IVF had the proper complement of chromosomes, according to the study by Dagan Wells and colleagues at University College Medical School, in London.

IVF workers have long suspected that some human conceptions carry a number of genetic mistakes. The new approach, which involves a genome 'check-up' prior to the implantation of the embryo, reveals just how many mistakes can occur. "I don't think people suspected the error rate would be as high as 75 percent," says Harvey Stern, director of the preimplantation genetic diagnosis program at the Genetics and IVF Institute, in Virginia.

Embryos whose chromosomes all appear healthy have an increased potential of making a baby, says Stern, who contrasts this with the "horrendously chaotic chromosome patterns" seen in some embryos. The abundant errors probably cannot be attributed to the practice of fertilizing in a dish. Although the embryos were donated by couples undergoing IVF, who may have included older women with inferior eggs, or men with problems producing sperm, the fact that three of the embryos were normal suggests to Stern that biology rather than technology is to blame.

Why is there such an "error rate" ("bad" eggs/conceptions)?
1. Upon ovulation eggs have a very short "shelf life", i.e., they start to deteriorate after 24 hours. An egg can't "wait" in the Fallopian tube indefinitely, for the right sperm to come along (so to speak). Now suppose that the egg is fertilized after 24 hours, the odds of this conception forming a viable pregnancy have just plummeted because the egg is damaged (timing of fertilization is critical).

Sperm are hearter cells, but after 72 hours, they also start to undergo the same kind of deterioration. So let's say a woman had sex 3 days before ovulation and a number of sperm have made it to the Fallopian tube where they "lay in wait' for an egg (as it were). Upon ovulation,that egg, while still prime is unlikely to be fertilized by a viable sperm.

The fertilized egg may be of poor quality, but that doesn't mean that it won't start to divide and begin it's migration to the uterus (many don't make it). It may even have the "right stuff" to accomplish an implantation and become a pregnancy, BUT, somewhere down the developmental pike, the damage catches up with the developing embryo and a spontaneous abortion occurs before the end of the 1st trimester.

2. Not all fertilizations occur when there's an endometrial lining in good enough condition to house the zygote IF it gets to the uterus. Zygotes usually don't implant in a the muscle of the uterus, they need a warm, cushy lining (nutrients, blood vessels, etc.) to house them. Again timing is everything. The blastocyst may get there too soon (no mature lining) or too late (menstruation is in progress). Either way, it passes out of the woman who never has a clue that she had conceived (a conception does NOT a pregnancy make).

3. Couple this with the fact that meiosis (the reduction division that creates gametes--ANIMATED TUTORIAL) is prone to error (whole, duplicated chromosomes must segregate, not always done correctly). It seems that females don't have the same "checkpoint" during the process that male sperm undergo, so if there's a screw-up and the chromosomes don't segregate properly (non-disjunction), meiosis for the egg continues (despite the genetic damage that would send most dividing cells into programmed cell death or apoptosis). This is the most likely reason why the IVF professionals observe so much genetic carnage when they look at the embryos they create. Here are articles that addresses this issue of nondisjunction directly:

From Lack of Checkpoint Control at the Metaphase/Anaphase Transition: A Mechanism of Meiotic Nondisjunction in Mammalian Females

A checkpoint mechanism operates at the metaphase/anaphase transition to ensure that a bipolar spindle is formed and that all the chromosomes are aligned at the spindle equator before anaphase is initiated. Since mistakes in the segregation of chromosomes during meiosis have particularly disastrous consequences, it seems likely that the meiotic cell division would be characterized by a stringent metaphase/ anaphase checkpoint. To determine if the presence of an unaligned chromosome activates the checkpoint and delays anaphase onset during mammalian female meiosis, we investigated meiotic cell cycle progression in murine oocytes from XO females and control siblings. Despite the fact that the X chromosome failed to align at metaphase in a significant proportion of cells, we were unable to detect a delay in anaphase onset. Based on studies of cell cycle kinetics, the behavior and segregation of the X chromosome, and the aberrant behavior and segregation of autosomal chromosomes in oocytes from XO females, we conclude that mammalian female meiosis lacks chromosome-mediated checkpoint control. The lack of this control mechanism provides a biological explanation for the high incidence of meiotic nondisjunction in the human female. Furthermore, since available evidence suggests that a stringent checkpoint mechanism operates during male meiosis, the lack of a comparable checkpoint in females provides a reason for the difference in the error rate between oogenesis and spermatogenesis.

This lack of discrimination in female meiosis (genetically damaged eggs not sent off into apoptosis) will occur no matter what the woman's age. What one can expect is that this kind of genetic screw-up will only increase as she ages (why the incidence of Down's syndrome increases dramatically with age).

Other primary journal articles on the above topic of female non-disjunction:
1. Meiotic and mitotic nondisjunction: lessons from preimplantation genetic diagnosis

2. Sex matters in meiosis

More References on the topic of conception loss:
3. Goldstein SR. Embryonic death in early pregnancy: a new look at the first trimester. Obstet Gynecol. 1994;84:294.

4. Jauniaux E, Gavriil P, Nicolaides KH. Ultrasonographic assessment of early pregnancy complications. In: Jurkovic D, Jauniaux E, eds. Ultrasound and Early Pregnancy. Carnforth, United Kingdom: Parthenon Publishing; 1996:53.

5. Gary Cunningham et al., Williams Obstetrics, 21st Ed. Chapter 2-Pregnancy: Overview, Organization, and Diagnosis pp 3-15 (*this text is one of the most used in the field, over 20 editions)

6. Gary Cunningham et al., Williams Obstetrics, 21st Ed. Chapter 4-The Endometrium and Decidua: Menstruation and Pregnancy pp. 65-84

7. Moore, G., Essentials of Obstetrics and Gynecology, 3rd. ed., Chapter 7-The Menstrual Cycle, Ovulation, Fertilization, Implantation and the Placenta pp 59-75

Furthermore, it is antichoicers like you and livingproofGM who assert that human BEING is present from conception. The burden of proof is on YOU (the one with the affirmative claim has the burden of proof). However, the scientific evidence (gestational development, so many conceptions "expendable") is disproof of such a claim which is why the vast majority of embryologists, ob/gyns, and biologists (myself included) don't hue to the bogus notion that a human being is present at conception (also in my references).
DieHappy said:
gladiatrix said:
IOW, just because a woman has conceived, i.e., a egg is fertilized (in the Fallopian tube), starts dividing (now a zygote), doesn't mean that she is pregnant.
That zygote still has to migrate from the Fallopian tube to the uterus and implant itself in the uterine lining (provided there is one).
The fact is that most zygotes don't manage this instead end up on a sanitary napkin/tampon or swirling down the toilet upon urination during the woman's period.
Prove it.
It? (a number of statements above...to which do you refer with the indefinite pronoun "it"?)
Fertilization in the Fallopian tube? Migration to the uterus? Definition of a pregnancy (implantation in the uterine lining of the blastocyst , i.e., stage of the zygote)?
From Kimball's Biology Pages
Pregnancy (Excerpt)
Development begins while the fertilized egg is still within the fallopian tube. Repeated mitotic divisions produces a solid ball of cells called a morula. Further mitosis and some migration of cells converts this into a hollow ball of cells called the blastocyst. Approximately one week after fertilization, the blastocyst embeds itself in the thickened wall of the uterus, a process called implantation, and pregnancy is established.

Most zygotes don't make it to the implantation stage? Consult references above (yes, you may actually have to open a real textbook or peer-reviewed journal)

DieHappy said:
gladiatrix said:
She may have conceived, but never actually gotten pregnant (that zygote failed to establish a pregnancy or the uterus wasn't ready...any number of reasons for failure).Does life really begin at conception? Is there any kind of scientific basis for that assertion?
Yes.
And your evidence is? Wow from one-liners to one-worders as an argument. I am totally underwhelmed.

continued in Part 2. . . .
 
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DieHappy said:
gladiatrix said:
Why your notion of fertilized egg = human being is bogus.....

WHAT BIOLOGISTS MEAN WHEN THEY DEFINE "LIFE"../snip/(link to post #112)

So you agree that the fertalized egg is a human life?
No, I don't agree that it's a human "life". Don't twist my words. The fertilized egg is "alive", biochemically, like ANY other cell. What you mean by "life" is a whole other concept in that you imply that there is a human BEING there, which is NOT the case.

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It is fully human, accoding to it's DNA, and it's fully alive according to definitions of life.
If you go by the DNA, the every nucleated cell in your body meets EXACTLY the same criterion. That means that a surgeon who chucks an appendix into the trash has just committed mass murder (by your definition). Again, the fertilized egg is "alive", but it is NOT a human "life" aka human BEING.

DieHappy said:
If you don't want to protect human life based on it's percieved cost to society, then why can't we just kill handicapped children. What about 3 year olds that develop autism? They are going to cost us a lot of money and can't survive on their own. Shall we do away with them?
Oh pulleeze! A handicapped child is NOT the equivalent of a fertilized egg (can you even come close to demonstrating that?). Such a child, no matter how handicapped is a person (no doubt here), BUT the scientific evidence does NOT support your claim that a fertilized egg (or an embryo/fetus below 23 weeks) deserves such a classification. Till you show that what is being aborted IS a person, your pious mulling about "protecting life" is just that, mulling.

Diehappy said:
gladiatrix said:
1.The "ICM" (inner cell mass) are the source of stem cells. The ICM develops into an embryo IF blastocyst or zygote implants. In 8 weeks, post-implantation, the embryo is known as a fetus.
2. The blastocoel cavity in the center is marked as "C"
3. The trophectoderm cells that will form the placenta surround the cavity - one is marked with a "T"
4. The blastocyst (stage of the zygote) is smaller that the dot of this "i".' (stage that usually implants in the uterine lining)
So size matters? I;m betting you are smaller than I am, do you have fewer rights than I do?
More equivocation from you. You are an acknowledged person. It doesn't matter what your size was. The point is that this blastocyst is NOT a human BEING, like you are now. Again, WHERE are your arguments for considering a conception like this blastocyst to be equivalent of yourself or any other born human being? Do realize that I will not let you get away with your lamentable pretense that this blastocyst is your "equal" when it comes to being defined as a human "BEING" (a person deserving protection under the law).

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gladiatrix said:
Also realize that the vast majority of conceptions (~65%) DO NOT result in a successful pregnancy. (NOTE: A pregnancy is defined as the successful implantation of a zygote in the endometrium or uterine lining---it takes 3 to 7 days after fertilization for the dividing egg to reach the uterus). They are simply washed out as part of the endometrial detritus when a woman has her period (many women have conceived, but the zygote never manages to establish itself in the endometrium).
Prove it.
The failure rate of conceptions already addressed in Post #167. And you evidence that a conception is a human being would be what? You're the one claiming that it's a human being, not I. Too bad the embryological/developmental data disproves your claim (that you somehow never get around to offering any evidence for).

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gladiatrix said:
If the zygote manages to establish itself, the lucky resident (the embryo) is still not out of the woods because 30-40% of these 1st trimester pregnancies are spontaneously ABORTED (70% show gross chromosomal abnormalities incompatible with life). The bottom-line is that +65% of all conceptions fail (a conception does not a successful pregnancy make!)
Guess what I'm going to say here....
Nothing of consequence, as per usual with everything you have "said" thus far (unsupported one-lines and assertions...worth exactly zero, zip, and ziltch in a debate)

DieHappy said:
gladiatrix said:
Anti-choicers are always saying that "life" begins at conception??? What do they really mean by that? /snip/
. . . .
The question of just when a fetus gets this all-important soul arises. What many anti-choicers are ignorant of is that according to the early Church fathers, life did NOT "begin at conception". Aquinas and Augustine, following Aristotle's lead, declared that a male embryo acquired a soul at 40 days and the female embryo did so at 90 days. The "ensoulment" argument leads to one big philosophical problem, namely the logical impossibility of precisely defining the "ensoulment line" (the "bald-hairy" distinction problem). For instance, how can one PRECISELY draw a line between day and night? The "hairy-bald" problem with the fetus, is how could one draw the line as to when the fetus gets a soul (not to mention the FACT that there is no evidence that such a thing as a soul exists)? Such a determination is impossible because the fetus is continually growing.
The child is continually growing, too. You're point is either not being made or is ludicrous.
Again with your attempt to force us to accept that a conception and every stage of a pregnancy is a "child" (a human BEING). Of course conception will EVENTUALLY become a child, but ONLY at the expense of the woman.

DieHappy said:
gladiatrix said:
If God really endows each and every conception (fertilized egg) with a soul (what theists REALLY mean when they say the conceptus is "alive" and a "person", not merely biologically alive), that makes GOD AN ABORTIONIST, and the biggest mass murderer of all time. (If one believes that personhood begins at fertilization)....
What about basic human rights? I don't have to argue from the theistic side of when a soul is present. We have agreed that the embryo is human life. When does it deserve the protection of human rights?
No we don't agree that an embryo is a human "life" (a human BEING). The scientific data supports my argument that a human BEING is NOT present till a certain stage of gestation (+23 weeks MINIMUM). Human rights don't apply to the embryo because it's NOT a human BEING. Your evidence that it is would be WHAT?

DieHappy said:
gladiatrix said:
If you want to go with the "life begins at conception" route, then realize that this comes as big news to most eminent biologists and embryologists such as Dr. Charles Gardner (research at the University of Michigan Medical School's Department of Anatomy and Cell Biology):

Robert Francoeur,a Catholic embryologist trained also in Roman Catholic theology, has observed:

The National Academy of Sciences has stated:
I'm not sure why I should two turds from the bowl what these 3 clowns say. Are they posting on this forum?
These are the scientific experts in the field of embryological development. The fact that you would dismiss expert testimony with this pitiful bit of handwaving is yet another demonstration of the poverty of your argument. If you have something other than one-liners and unevidenced assertion, now's the time to present your evidence that completely gainsays what these experts in the fields of embryology, development physiology and medicine have to say.

To whom should we listen?
So far all we've gotten in the way of an argument from you are one-liners, one-worders, handwaving, and unsupported assertions.

DieHappy said:
gladiatrix said:
The point is that "fertilized egg = human being" is a very flawed argument.


As of now, I haven't seen any fertilized eggs functioning as CEOs of companies, driving Junior to band practice, watching television, or even taking a breath.The fact is that we don't celebrate "conception day", we celebrate the BIRTHday.This is a good thing too when you consider that the vast majority of conceptions (+65%) never result in a birth.Obviously to both God (is there really any supernatural entity involved at all?) and nature(the only obvious thing is that natural processes are at work), these conceptions (human beings?) are highly expendable commodities.....
I have yet to see an 11 month old drive, celebrate a birthday, or hold a job. Are they as expendable as the unborn?
No one would disagree that a 11 month old is a human BEING (despite not having attain a first birthday, etc.). What YOU have yet to demonstrate is that a conception (most of which fail to generate a live birth) and ALL stages of a pregnancy are the equivalent of this 11 month old. The fact is that they are NOT (only when a pregnancy has progressed past 23 weeks can one even hope to make such a claim).

BTW, how would you plan on caring for all those millions you want to force women to have? Here is why the adoption argument is such a none-starter.. LivingproofGM doesn't seem to have any ideas (not saying that either of you should be wholy responsible for solving the problem on your lonesome...just what kind of plans would you propose?)
 
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DieHappy said:
The truth is for us, the law is against us. There's no denying the gruesomeness of an abortion or the physical and psychological effects it has on the mother. Lobbyists with a twisted agenda and spineless politicians have made it nearly impossible to actually try to protect the mother and her baby.

First, are you suggesting there are no pro-life lobbyists? Or that the pro-life movement never lies?

More importantly, though, perhaps it isn't that the politicians are spineless on abortion. Instead, I think it's that they respect the will of the majority.
 
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DieHappy said:
So, would you support allowing the protesters inside the abortion clinics to spread their information? That way, the target would get to hear it, and the kids would not have to see it.

Personally I would support the protestors minding their own business and staying away from the abortion clinics altogether.
 
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Monica02 said:
It sure does accomplish alot. At the clinic where we counsel we average about one turnaround every day we are out there. I also do alot of street demonstrations and we always hear from people who did not realise what abortion was or how widespread it is. Pro-aborts HATE the picures of both fetal development and abortions because the pictures tell the truth. You can verbal engineer and discuss lies all you want but a dismembered human is a dismembered human.
I just can't help but think that even more could be stopped if the pro-life groups were as vocal about other options and available support as they are at getting across the abortion is murder message. I have on numerous occasions heard pro-life people actually rubbish the suggestion that those options should be persued!
 
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So, would you support allowing the protesters inside the abortion clinics to spread their information? That way, the target would get to hear it, and the kids would not have to see it.

:eek:

Who would allow that? You can oppose abortion until the cows come home but that doesn't mean you can harrass... practically stalk women to get your point across.

I swear one of these days I'll see somebody advocate having an anti-abortion advocate in every OB/GYN exam room to make sure that the point is hammered home.

I think it's safe to assume that if a woman is getting an abortion she's getting it after considering all the options, including dozens anti-abortion advocates haven't thought of.
 
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AcadiaMoon said:
I think it's safe to assume that if a woman is getting an abortion she's getting it after considering all the options, including dozens anti-abortion advocates haven't thought of.

I must disagree, at least with the case of teenage girls. For so many, it is a matter of not knowing the options, only thinking of an abortion. They are not educated enough on the alternitives, and in this I agree with the OPer.

So many girls/women who get abortions don't know. I think it is safe to assume that some know of the other choices, but so many don't. Maybe not a pro-life in every abortion clinic, but a list/poster/pamplet of all other choices that are out there, including up and down sides. Abortion would be on this pamplet, and this pamplet (or poster, ect.) would be approved by rationally thinking members of both sides, so the pamplet would not be baised.

Also, concerning that OPer, I don't agree with abortions partly becuase they degrade sex. So giving out free controceptives would not appease some of us. Just a note.
 
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TeddyKGB said:
I hope you do not expect me to believe for one moment that your intentions are noble and dispassionate.

I do not expect you to believe anything in particular. People's perceptions of my intentions are irrelevent to the point of showing what an aborted baby looks like. Think about me or the abortion pictures anyway you wish.
 
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I must disagree, at least with the case of teenage girls. For so many, it is a matter of not knowing the options, only thinking of an abortion. They are not educated enough on the alternitives, and in this I agree with the OPer.

So many girls/women who get abortions don't know. I think it is safe to assume that some know of the other choices, but so many don't. Maybe not a pro-life in every abortion clinic, but a list/poster/pamplet of all other choices that are out there, including up and down sides. Abortion would be on this pamplet, and this pamplet (or poster, ect.) would be approved by rationally thinking members of both sides, so the pamplet would not be baised.

Also, concerning that OPer, I don't agree with abortions partly becuase they degrade sex. So giving out free controceptives would not appease some of us. Just a note.

When it comes to pregnancy there are only a small number of outcomes. Birth and keeping the baby, abortion, adoption, and natural termination of pregnancy. I can promise you that not one woman who gets an abortion regardless of her age is unaware that adoption is a choice or keeping the child is a choice.

The list that you talk about that weighs out the options of abortion and adoption and keeping the child is readily available at Planned Parenthood. I've been there dozens of times and it's always been there and easy to get. I've even read it over it's very good. Planned Parenthood is a wonderful resource for information on pregnancies and abortion and adoption.

I think reducing the cost of contraceptives or making them available to low income people is a brilliant idea. I really can't think of any downside to it really. It'd really put a large dent in the abortion rates.
 
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Monica02 said:
I do not expect you to believe anything in particular. People's perceptions of my intentions are irrelevent to the point of showing what an aborted baby looks like. Think about me or the abortion pictures anyway you wish.
You are going to some length to avoid explaining why you think pictures of aborted fetuses are necessary to your cause in the first place.
 
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Electric Sceptic said:
Something has struck me recently about the 'pro-life' crowd. We all know they oppose abortion. They don't want it to take place. Fair enough.

But I have to believe that they're not stupid. They must realise that illegalising it will do very little or nothing to actually reduce the number of abortions that happen. After all, abortion has happened, on large scales, always, whether it was legal or not. So they must realise that illegalising it won't stop it. So while illegalising it might make them feel a little better, it won't really help in the battle they are fighting (ie., to stop/limit abortions).

So...what WOULD stop it? I would think the most obvious way to lower the number of abortions would be to increase sex education and availability of cheap contraceptives. Why are those who oppose abortion never for this option?

The only conclusion I can come to is that while they might be against abortion, that's not really the issue. What they oppose is what they see as sexual immorality, and abortion is one consequence of that.

So they don't WANT to make sex safer...because that'll just mean people are more likely to have sex. They want to keep sex 'dangerous' (ie., more likely to have adverse consequences such as disease/unwanted pregnancy) in an effort to persuade people not to have it.

Otherwise, if they really were so concerned about preventing abortions, they'd be handing out free condoms instead of picketing clinics.

And that sucks.

I think that one of the problems with many of the pro-lifers is that they don't offer any solution. Like you said, abortions have been going on since forever. I'm sure we don't want to go back to performing coat hanger abortions with all of the negative consequences there. Infection, scarring, and real permanant injury. Forget that. I just don't understand it. Plus, show me a pro-lifer who wouldn't allow her daughter to have an abortion if she were a victim of rape.
 
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