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And then for some reason they don't. Maybe they face pressure from their families; maybe the adoption process is excessively laborious.livingproofGM said:What they should do is carry the baby to full term and then put them up for adoption.
If it is of natural cause, it's not an abortion. Am I incorrect in saying that at an early stage such as that, we have no control?Sycophant said:No, most zygotes never become embryos.
Economical problems give us no right to kill the child.TeddyKGB said:And then for some reason they don't. Maybe they face pressure from their families; maybe the adoption process is excessively laborious.
I see no justification to take away a legitimate option based on what we think they should do.
Sure it is, just not of the deliberate variety.livingproofGM said:If it is of natural cause, it's not an abortion.
No. It might be the case that a woman who is a few days pregnant goes to a party and gets drunk, poisoning the zygote/blastocyst in the process.Am I incorrect in saying that at an early stage such as that, we have no control?
livingproofGM said:If it is of natural cause, it's not an abortion. Am I incorrect in saying that at an early stage such as that, we have no control?
I was gonna add that...I meant that there is no way to perform a clinical abortion that early.No. It might be the case that a woman who is a few days pregnant goes to a party and gets drunk, poisoning the zygote/blastocyst in the process.
Just because a child does not form doesn't mean that God doesn't care about children...If a child does not form, that's the natural process. A miscarriage is not an abortion, not an intentional killing.In any case, this all goes to contravene your claim that a zygote is fully human. Else, God does not seem to think all that much of the recently conceived after all.
Prove it.TeddyKGB said:Does God agree? One of the more oft-cited studies suggested that up to 78% of all conceptions - humans all by your standard - will spontaneously abort (even the most conservative numbers are still around 40%).
How do you reconcile those two positions?
The studies are what they are. If you have a problem with the numbers, take it up with the authors.DieHappy said:Prove it.
It's all a guess. Those kinds of numbers are speculation becasue they assume a greater number of pregnancies fail before the first two weeks are up than in the rest of the first tri. The problem is that it's an assumption because very few women take a pregnacy test after every sexual encounter. The most conservative numbers are far less than 40% and even if it was 78% that doesn't justify the killing of the child. There are the pregancies we can control and the ones we can't.
Because the LAW makes it so.livingproofGM said:Because society has made it so.
Oh, going back on the definition YOU cited because it shows your point is false? Sad.livingproofGM said:A few other definitions of murder are: To kill brutally or inhumanly, and To put an end to; destroy.
Yes, it does. If it's legal, it's NOT murder. That's what the word means. The state executing someone isn't murder; killing in war isn't murder; aborting a fetus isn't murder. As morally bad as you might find any or all of these actions, none of them are murder, and calling them such just shows that you are less concerned about honesty in your arguments than in using inflammatory terminology.livingproofGM said:Just because society says it's legal does not make it NOT murder.
Completely irrelevant. It's not illegal. That makes it not murder. WHY it's not illegal is beside the point as to whether ot not it IS legal.livingproofGM said:It's not illegal because the baby is not viewed as a human.
livingproofGM said:Do you mean that the woman will miscarry?TeddyKGB said:Does God agree? One of the more oft-cited studies suggested that up to 78% of all conceptions - humans all by your standard - will spontaneously abort (even the most conservative numbers are still around 40%).
How do you reconcile those two positions?
The 'biological' argument that a human being is created at conception...comes as a surprise to most embryologists...for it contradicts all that we have learned in the past decades.
In humans when two sibling fertilized embryos combine into one (as sometimes happens) the resultant person may be completely normal. It the two original {fertalized} embryos were determined to become particular individuals, such a thing could not happen. The embryos would recognize themselves to be different...and would not unite. But here the cells seem unaware of any distinction between themselves...The only explanation is that the indivdual is not fixed or determined at this stage (fertilization).
The fertilized egg is not a prepackaged human being...Our genes give us the propensity for certain characteristics, but it is the ennactment of the complex process of development that gives us our individual characteristics. So how can an embryo be a human being?.... The information required to make an eye or a finger does not exist in the fertilized egg. It exists in the positions and interactions of cells and molecules that will be formed at a later time
Fertilization, the injection of sperm DNA into the egg, is just one of the many small steps toward full human potential. It seems arbitrary to invest this particular event with any special moral significance...It would be a great tragedy if, in ignorance that the embryo, state legislatures pass laws restricting individual freedom of choice and press them on the people. The embryo is not a child. It is not a baby. It is not yet a human being
Those who claim a person is present at fertilization and thus denounce all abortion as murder. If every human egg is immediately a 'fetus', 'baby' and 'person' then God and nature play a big trick on us, Scientists estimate that in the five-six days following union and sperm, between 1/3 and 1/2 of all 'persons' spontaneously degenerate and are reabsorbed or expelled. In the second week, 42% of the implanted 'persons' abort. Thus out of every 1000 'persons' conceived, only 120-160 survive to be reborn! How do the anti-abortionists and theologians who denouce abortion as murder account for the prodigious waste of human life on the divine plan?
Moreover if the 'right to lifers insist on their idea of personhood in a fertalized egg it is unenforceable in law. Legal pronouncements about personhood from the moment of conception could be translated into a Brave New World with pregnancy police to make certain that all fertile women have their monthly pregnancy test, and all pregnancies are monitored to assure the Constitutional, God-given inalienable right of every fertalized egg to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness
The point is that "fertilized egg = human being" is a very flawed argument.The proposal that the term 'person' shall include 'all human life' has no basis within out scientific understanding. Defining the time at which the developing embryo becomes a person must remain a moral or religoius value
Why is it not murder in your eyes? The law of the government is not the law of God. Many things have been made legal in this world that are not morally correct. The fetus is a person, a human, a life. Just because the law doesn't acknowledge that doesn't give us the right to kill (To put to death. , To deprive of life ) anyone. Once again, there is more than the one definition of murder, which is to kill in a brutal fashion. Nothing about the law. To kill brutally or inhumanly...Just because it's not murder in the eyes of the authority of this country does not make it so.Yes, it does. If it's legal, it's NOT murder. That's what the word means. The state executing someone isn't murder; killing in war isn't murder; aborting a fetus isn't murder. As morally bad as you might find any or all of these actions, none of them are murder, and calling them such just shows that you are less concerned about honesty in your arguments than in using inflammatory terminology.
livingproofGM said:What they should do is carry the baby to full term and then put them up for adoption.
brighid said:Adoption versus abortion is one area where we can work with some actual statistics and numbers. Please indulge me, as this is a bit off the top of my head math wise.
Okay, if abortion were suddenly illegal, it is the assertion of some that all or most of those babies that would have been aborted will now be adopted, citing shortages of adoptable babies. I do not think this is the case at all if you look at the numbers.
According to the Guttmacher Institute , there are approximately 1.1-1.4 million abortions in the US per year
According the 1988 National Survey on Family Growth, about 2 million women had ever sought to adopt a child. Of these, 1.3 million did not adopt and are no longer seeking. 620,000 have adopted one or more children. 204,000 are currently seeking to adopt.
Adoption.com states that about 500,000 people are currently interested in adopting and half of that take concrete steps toward adoption. This is not per year, this is TOTAL.
So, even if every woman/couple hoping to adopt at the present time, adopted every baby born to a woman who would have had an abortion, there would be approximately 900,000 unadopted babies in the first year alone.
If you take into account the number of those babies that would be undesirable for adoption due to various special needs such as birth defects and illness, you have what, over a million? Who is going to pay to care for them? Where will the additional adoptive parents come from for next year, and the year after, and the year after that?
Now that's a short-fall in the parents department! A question to anti-choicers: Any recommendations on what to do with all the tens of millions of unadopted infants you plan on enslaving women to produce?
You have no idea what's going to happen! How can you sit here and predict the future for these kids? You think we live in some slummy, under-educated society, when, in reality, there are plenty of people that would love to have children and raise them properly. You're pointing out the obvious that, yes, a a child is a responsibility, but that gives us no excuse to murder.Remember a "life" means more than just getting born, there are at least 72-79 years of AFTER the birth bit (education, food, health care, a job, and last but not least LOVE that goes with that 3 score and ten!!)
I have no control over the decision of that woman. God will provide for all His children. You cannot use possible poverty as a reason to kill the baby. Nothing justifies murder.Do tell us, livingproofGM, what plans do you have for providing for all these babies you are so hellbent on forcing women to have? Now consider this:
livingproofGM said:God will provide for all His children
why not?livingproofGM said:You cannot use possible poverty as a reason to kill the baby.
except in self defense.livingproofGM said:Nothing justifies murder.
I disagree. If some guy is holding a knife to my wife's throat and I have a gun, I am damn well going to put a slug in his brain. Same goes if he's comming at me with a knife and I have a gun. THAT is justifiable homicide, both legally and morallyNothing justifies murder.
Because it's not unlawful. How many times do you have to be told this?livingproofGM said:Why is it not murder in your eyes?
That's nice. What makes 'the law of god' pretty unworkable is that even committed christians disagree on what it is.livingproofGM said:The law of the government is not the law of God.
Once again, completely irrelevant to the issue of whether or not abortion is murder. Admitting the fact that it's not murder doesn't mean you approve of it; it just means you're being honest and accurate.livingproofGM said:Many things have been made legal in this world that are not morally correct.
False. The law DOES give us the LEGAL right to do so. It (the law) says nothing whatever about the moral right, but to say we have no right to do it is simply false.livingproofGM said:The fetus is a person, a human, a life. Just because the law doesn't acknowledge that doesn't give us the right to kill (To put to death. , To deprive of life ) anyone.
It DOES make it so in that country. It is not unlawful; it is not murder. I know you'd desparately like to continue using the term 'murder' for abortion, even though it's been demonstrated that it's inaccurate, and I've no doubt you will continue to so do, which shows a lot about your honesty and sincerity. But know that most of us will discard your attempt to poison the well.livingproofGM said:Once again, there is more than the one definition of murder, which is to kill in a brutal fashion. Nothing about the law. To kill brutally or inhumanly...Just because it's not murder in the eyes of the authority of this country does not make it so.
This post demonstrates, again, that raised in the OP. It points out that the poster it's talking about thinks abortion is wrong and is prepared to do absolutely nothing to stop it, except preach. Her own moral view that people shouldn't have sex is far more important to her than actually helping people to prevent unwanted pregnancies.KinderBee said:You are agaisnt abortion yet you don't believe in birth control and you are not willing to help out a poor pregnant woman or adopt one of the unwanted children. Supporting education on birth control and financial and emotional support for those who need help is the better choice then wagging your finger with a smirk on your face and saying you will not help. If you are so passionate about abortion then why don't you put your money where you mouth is and help out those who feel they have no other choice? If god provides for all his children then why are there so many homeless and starving people?
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