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staying out of a relationship

rach

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Ok, so there's this guy...and he's really nice, and lately we've been hanging out a lot and getting to know each other a little better. The thing is, I don't want to be more than friends, and I feel like he might be thinking other things. Is there a way that I can act around him, that shows that I want to become close friends, without taking the relationship any further than that? I don't want to just ignore him, etc. because he's really awesome, but I am not ready to be thinking about a relationship right now...help!
 

desi

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Yeah, you should probably tell him. Although he may just change your mind about it. Friendship is a funny thing between the sexes. Its like you can be a close platonic friend with someone then one day he does something that slightly changes how you look at him. Its like you see him in a different shade of light that is a bit softer and more inviting. When you ponder back on how things changed in the relationship you're not sure exactly what happened but you feel warm and glad it did.
 
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