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Sounds good and that their observance here isnt on trial, only that MJ's hold to some sort of personal and public observance of Torah and Tradition....
 
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I will View the video again, I may have missed the end as I had to go pick up my son, I don't remember now, but the slides are from the MJAA conference even though another was presenting it....

Oh Ani,

This is the link (see below). Tell me if you recognize it.


 
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Excuse me, but the flying of a non-Trinitarian icon in and of itself is a statement against the Trinity.
No it's a required icon we provided a few years ago, it lets staff know if these members are posting in the CO areas, MJ isn't in one of these areas
 
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Dear Tishri,

...could the mods take a specific interest in the harmony of, well, the Advice board? Why does this board get special care over the battlefield that is Advice, just for example.

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Come to the MSC with your request and we can send a team over there too
http://www.christianforums.com/f883/
 
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Yes, a public confession followed by a first rate stoning!
Just move over a bit Brother, I'm too close to the edge...
Do I understand you to be a moderator? Of this forum? This posting is that of a troll, not a responsible leader.
 
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The quote below doesn't fit in with an MJ thread because it's basically saying the opposite of what MJs believe, they don't believe the Torah is no longer obligatory, they don't believe they cannot observe , like I said before there are just as many scriptures on Torah obedience as their are on grace, a post like this doesn't belong in a forum like this as it flames the whole group, telling them in a very negative way why what they are doing is wrong to do.....there has to be a change in the style of your replies in here for this to work
 
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Okay, but you've spent an inordinate amount of time in this thread telling all here to be more tolerant of differing viewpoints and, respectfully, your response to Sister Qnts2 is more like the MJ Forum according to Sister Tishri's experience and not at all accepting of the fact that there are some Messianic Jews who believe as Sister Qnts2. And Sister Tishri......there are some Messianic Jews who believe as Sister Qnts2.

It's my understanding that Deuteronomy is often treated separately from Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus and Numbers by scholars. The word Torah does not mean "law" but rather "to teach" and that is true of all five books but the Law is primarily taught in Devarim. The other four books teach the beginning, the departure, those He called to the priesthood and the laws for that priesthood and the record of the wandering; God's history lesson, so to speak. Bearing this in mind, I can understand what Sister Qnts2 is saying and I've heard it said this way in other Messianic camps. It's not out of line with Messianic Judaism at all.
 
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You're telling people they can't accept Scripture and be Messianic.
How do you account for all the Messianic Jewish camps that believe this including many in the MJAA?
 
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That's a long thread do you have specific links?

Don't worry, you can pretty much jump in anywhere and find what you're looking for. I had the links prepared but I erased them and just referenced the whole thread in defference to some folks. At this point, I'm not sure it matters.
 
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Unsubscribing. If want this level of hassle I'll call a church meeting!



Will the last person standing remember to switch off the lights and bolt the door when they leave.

At this point, I have to agree Brother. Unsubscribing as well.
 
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Who posted the video to this thread? Just for clarification, it wasn't the guy you said it was. http://www.christianforums.com/t7641369-4/#post60047944

That was me who posted the video. I said in the post to take the positive from it. This would be like me posting Wesley or the Westminster confession pertaining to the Law of God as an example to help prove a truth. Or a commentary by Matthew Henry or Adam Clarke. Doesn't mean I agree with them that the ceremonial and civil laws are abolished in the same way I said look at the positive from the video.

Was there any positive from the video in relation to the discussion whether or not he is right or wrong about we can't keep the Law of Moses anymore?

It's almost by default to dismiss anything Christian among our some Messianic brothers and sisters and this can apply to the video and especially 'the moral of the story' from the video whether it came from a Christian, a Messianic believer who believes the law of Moses is obsolete etc, etc.
 
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I don't agree they're abolished either but I see no need to dismiss all things Christian. The love of the whole Body is essential to me. I know what it's like to have family hate me. I never want anyone to experience that at my hand. People come to Messianism from different directions.
I can accept that. Others can't. Shalom Brother.
 
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This post really bothers me. I find it rather inflammatory, and in the heat of the moment, rather than left for a few minutes and come back to.

IF it is alright, I would like to reword this part.

"Again you are demanding that others within MJ who may have differing views from yours be banned from posting here? What if you were on the other end of your argument?"

"Are you requesting that others in the community who have differing views be banned or relegated to other parts of the forum if they disagree with you? Do you realize this would result in tit-for-tat?"

"The video was not posted to be anti-Torah, it was posted to prove the differing positions held by MJ Congregations. We can not pretend that all are of one mind else we exclude many."

"The video was not intended to be anti-torah, but to prove a point that there are differing positions in relation to Torah observance within the Messianic community. We do not all see eye to eye."

"What you accuse myself and others of is ignorance, I do not believe this to be proper, fair or true. I do not see this behavior fitting of a brother in the faith...."

"I find your tone accusatory. I may be misunderstanding you however, and I have big feelings about how this was worded. Can you clarify your statement?"

"What am I to "MODERATE"? Perhaps you mean "CENSOR"?"

"What is it that you are asking me to moderate exactly? Or do you perhaps mean that I and other moderators are to censor certain posts? I'm not sure I follow your line of thinking here. Please do come back and clarify so we are all on the same page."


That might have been received much better by all of us.

Interesting and noted, except you should have also quoted the loving post this was in response to... to be fair.
It is actually quite difficult for me to post at all with the netbook I was using, so quoting was a bit out of the question, as it has a tendency to randomly erase and insert words where I am trying to type. I was rather surprised the post came out at all in one piece.

My post was not directed at one person, but everyone.

I do find that several of your posts here are reactionary and inflaming. Not intentionally, I'm sure - but they could be a little more aloof.

This for example:
Yes, a public confession followed by a first rate stoning!
Just move over a bit Brother, I'm too close to the edge...

The poster you are referencing was not "stoning" those who supported the post, but was explaining how it is inflammatory to those of us who have been here a while and are Torah observant (in all it's many flavors) and how many in the movement and outside of it tell us that all our doing is "simply in vain" or "silly" (as it was taken by some) or "not really an issue" (which is an issue to some). The person that the video is from, is not even Messianic. They are however on the "fringes" of the movement - as a Hebrew Christian organization. I put fringes in quotation marks, because some do find they are a bit fringe in their beliefs. I personally believe they are outside of the Messianic faith, and more in the Christian grouping, in that generally they line up theologically as Christian, and deny being Messianic.

He posted this with the intent it went with the group of discussions covering this, but got here a bit late in the game. By then, everyone else had moved on. This is not his fault, your fault or anyone else's. It just happened to be an unfortunate happening, and should have been taken as such.

His opinion is just as valid as those who believe the video and opinions contained therein are 100% what they believe and uphold. Neither is more right than the other, it is totally how we present that belief and communicate and fellowship together after knowing where we all stand.

This, is really very passive-agressive. I am actually very uncomfortable if this is how our forum is to be moderated. Moderation is supposed to be as impartial as possible, even when people strike a nerve.

I too was one that was driven away from the forum a long time ago. I came back. I can walk a mile, but seriously I don't see where anyone was falsely accused other than those who posted a bit later than they intended.

When there is fur flying, step back a little and watch it settle before trying to separate those who are fighting, or you too will get caught in the fray.

Again I ask you - why have we not seen you post here in the past and yet now you're taking ownership for it?
Are you being honest here or is this another snarky response? I just don't understand your approach to this dialog.

I would also like to ask this question. I'm not attacking you Templar, I just do not understand why your response has been as it has.

I'm "venomous" yet the hostility of others is unseen.
Oh, it's certainly not unseen. Certainly not. We just know others and either have attempted to address it multiple times in various ways, and likely may have already taken a "hands off" approach because nothing else is working.

I find your last couple of posts a little reactionary, about like a parent that hasn't gotten up off their butt, but told a 3 year old several times "stop it" and then just stands up out of nowhere, jerks the child up by their arm and throws them over their lap and begins laying into their hind end. The problem was not the action of the child, but how the parent reacted. Was it a teachable moment? Yep. It taught the child "if i bug mommy/daddy enough, they'll beat the tar out of me, not play with me."




There is a reason it is not in the SoF. It was not agreed upon to be in there, because it was either considered controversial, or it did not line up with the MJAA and UMJC. There are more Messianic groups out there than lined up with those two, including a few that are a little koo-koo-ka-choo. There are others that someone in the MJAA/UMJC that might find a little "fringe", but that does not make those people fringe if their doctrine does agree with the majority of scripture, even if that means they look 100% orthodox and would blend in with the crowd in Mea Sherim in Jerusalem, or if they are J4J.

Problem is, there are Hebrew Christian groups, and they are not represented in the SoF. We have "Nazarene" groups that are not represented in the SoF and we have one poster here that aligns with much of that line of thinking. There are groups between MJ and HC that are not represented in the SoF There are Messianic groups that are all over the board that are not represented in the SoF - yet we have people from all of those groups that are posting here.

Short of posting every SoF and group websites who believe in those SoF's - we will not have everyone here happily and fully represented.

Of course we cannot even begin to try and do that either, because many Messianics do not believe in putting up a SoF, because that is not a Jewish mode of recognition at all. It just serves to engender more questions as to what they believe. It's easier to just call up/email the rabbi or elder board and find out what is going on there.
 
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1. No one is called to observe exactly the same way all the time as someone else in the rest of the world. There are different flavors of Judaism the world over due to the various places Jews live. Someone in Yemen isn't going to observe Torah or the Talmud in the same way as someone in Scandinavia. Someone in South Australia won't be observing as someone in America.
We need to recognise a healthy difference in observation where this is concerned. No one is to be condemned for difference in observation, as even in America, differences are observed from shuk to shuk. No?

2. There are different interpretations of what "The law"/"the Torah" is. We need to have definable ways of understanding where everyone is posting from, and possibly which organization they align with. This would create less confusion as to where we are posting from. It is not to ghettoize anyone, but to create a level playing field where our scrolls are not giving us this.
We have individuals that say they obey Torah and are observant, and those of us who are are wondering what level of kashrut they hold to, when WHAM a post comes up by that poster that aligns more along the line of a Hebrew Christian organization that teaches against keeping Kosher on any level, and that it's silly to celebrate anything other than major Jewish holidays - we have a problem. This is where MUCH of the arguing is coming from, and no I've not participated because it has been quite difficult to suss out the different flavors of people without it ending in a tar and feathering.

3. We need everyone to respect each other and approach arguments POSITIVELY. IF we keep addressing posts in the negative, we're just going to see more and more fur fly.

I believe if we did a book series together as a study, perhaps starting with the Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse, and then moving on to something like "Boundaries" By Townsend and Cloud - we might get somewhere. We might better understand the other posters, their backgrounds and the abuse that has gone on in their past, and we might figure out some better boundaries for each other without having to have the moderators and administration step in.
I like G's suggestion of Skype, but the reality is that we live in vastly different time zones and continents, so this will be difficult. I can't imagine a time where I could catch Contra for example, in that he's around 9 hours difference from me. I might catch you or Ani in the wee hours of the morning, because you're in California. I could catch anyone here in Europe rather easily, because our time difference is probably plus or minus 2 hours vs the vast difference of -5 to -9 hours.

We do need fellowship threads, but those are not going to happen with the break down we currently have. It's like trying to thrust two opposing football fan groups together. It's going to end in riot and much damage.
We need clear rules so we can work together. Until those rules and protections are in place, no one will feel completely at ease opening up their hearts again, when they've been stomped all over with spiked shoes.


Please do not take this the wrong way, but haven't you seen the same behavior on several Jewish forums where people suss out what someone else believes and practices and then takes a "hands off" approach when they find out that the other poster's observance level is not the same, nor are their beliefs?

I sure have.

There will be different views and opinions depending on the level of one's orthodoxy as to how they feel and interact with other Orthodox Jews, with Conservative, Conservadox, Reform, Reconstructionist and any other flavor there can possibly be of other Jews.

Shoot, you walk in the door of a Synagogue and once someone knows your name, they want to know who you're related to, where you're from, if you were raised Jewish or not, and how you came to be there, in the first 5 minutes. It's enough to give the uninitiated a panic attack - but it happens!

I mean are people wanting to be orthodox Messianic Judaism?

Yes, some are!!

Exactly, so we have to find out our healthy balance.


And no one has argued against this. But, we have different levels of observance here, and those of us who believe like others here, wish to discuss that level of observance unhindered. This is not something out of the ordinary.

And yes, I have met many Jews who have had absolutely no level of Jewish upbringing come into the movement and not know what to do. They come in to learn how to have a healthy balance in their belief and observance.

"To those not familiar with being Jewish, it might appear we are keeping the law, but actually we are just being Jewish. "

To those not familiar with Messianic Judaism, it may seem as if we're picking at nits, but truth be told, we're working out issues together with individuals in a way that a home group or cell group might not allow.


I don't see the AMC as being anti-Torah and when certain individuals here led Brother Sacerdote down the rosy path to that conclusion in another thread, I thought it grossly unfair to the AMC.

See, here is some of the problem though. It is not so much the stance of the AMC, which is aligned with many protestant denominations who are against Messianic observance of Torah, but how they react when you ask if they are Messianic. "No, we are not."

I do find their reaction, and the teaching of others such as Arnold Fruchtenbaum as "Anti-Torah" as I am sure several others in this forum do as well. However, that does not have to be a bad thing, IF we have clear lines of the differences of beliefs, how those beliefs are interpreted and how they are carried out, for others to see and understand prior to posting in the forum.

How the AMC/J4J and a Messianic congregation that is aligned with a mainline protestant denomination will see and teach Torah will be entirely different from how someone in the MJAA, UMJC and any other denominational Messianic movement around the world will. In fact, our level of observance here in Germany is vastly different than the majority who are in the Beit Sar Shalom umbrella. We align more with the local Jewish community in our beliefs and practices, because we do not worship on Sun/Wed, do not keep the Christian festivals (there are many more than are observed in the USA), and how we dress. You could pick us out as different in the crowd every time.

It is not a bad thing. It is just "different". We are all at our different levels and walks, hopefully because G-d led us there and we have a job to do where we are. If not, we need to do some serious soul searching and find out what we should be doing.

In the meantime, we are here together, and need to work out how to respond to each other in a constructive way, without making more fur fly, or call on helpers to tar and feather someone.
 
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Unsubscribing. If want this level of hassle I'll call a church meeting!
Will the last person standing remember to switch off the lights and bolt the door when they leave.

At this point, I have to agree Brother. Unsubscribing as well.

Alright Brother Avodat and Sister Jerushabelle, if you don't want to work together with the rest of us then I agree wholeheartedly with your decision to unsubscribe.

But let's make it one or the other please. You have a lot to contribute but if you're fighting the process it doesn't help.

We're trying to do something good here - positive - proactive - helpful. We haven't reached our goals yet but working together we well. And of course that is a better MJ Forum and improved human relations within it. Thank you.

Shalom
 
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I see that video caused an uproar. I'm not sure if it was a Sticky before I posted it or not. But want to re-iterate my intentions why suggested it. My intentions weren't to show whether or the Law of Moses is defunct. Not to show whether or not there's different 'flavors' of Messianic Judaism. What else? I think that's it. The intention of the person who made the video wasn't that either as he said 'I always thought we were miles apart'. The purpose of the video was just that, not any doctrinal implications.

What's more interesting and correct me if I'm wrong Tishri that notes or the video was shown at Messiah conference?
 
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...We need everyone to respect each other and approach arguments POSITIVELY. IF we keep addressing posts in the negative, we're just going to see more and more fur fly.

Amen! There's a lot of meat in this thread but unless we proceed from a solid base of respect and kindness, all the other words have little meaning. ...

We need clear rules so we can work together. Until those rules and protections are in place, no one will feel completely at ease opening up their hearts again, when they've been stomped all over with spiked shoes.

If we don't have them we'll make them. Good point!


Of course.

Some of the members have difficulty getting along with people who have doctrine or outlooks that are different. That is a problem and it's also intolerance. God did not call any of us to bludgeon each other with the Torah. We really can do better in the getting along area, not taking offense area, and reading the positive into someone's statements rather than jumping to negative conclusions.

So we have to find out our healthy balance.



Shalom to all.
 
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I appreciate you calling me by my name, Chaplain and acknowledging me as your Sister. Thank you.
I've been "handled" a lot over the last 2 years, 4 months and 19 days. I hope you understand that my inability to take anymore handling has nothing to do with me wanting or not wanting to "work together" with the rest of you.
 
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