"I think we have a great many apostles (see the below post) that don't yet realize they are apostles. We need teachers and pastors to feed these spiritual infants and grow them along the way, not abortionists who are unconcerned for the lambs and kill them before they have a chance.
Paul's farewell to the Ephesians.
"Keep watch over yourselves and the entire flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers. Be shepherds of the church of God, which He purchased with His own blood. I know that after my departure, savage wolves will come in among you and will not spare the flock. Even from your own number, men will rise up and distort the truth to draw away disciples after them" Acts 20:28-30
Something I've been thinking on/reminded of is the general maturity of my audience contrasted with my own. Perhaps sometimes we don't realize, or we lose track of how far along we've matured in faith. You will hardly ever be led to speak incredibly abrasive things to a new believer or to someone who has shown interest in what God has to offer them. If you are, you have likely been deceived by your mind (been there) and they re-acted with hostility/scorn/unrest.
Feed lambs, feed Sheep, Watch Sheep (Christ's charge to Peter, to show Christ that Peter really loved Him, even after thrice denied, John 21:15-19). We all stumble in many ways but it's God's grace that is able to make us stand and go even higher, until we can no longer see our past failures, rather the future success promised by God to those who love Him/them.
"We have much to say about this, but it is hard to explain, because you are dull of hearing. Although by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to reteach you the basic principles of God’s word. You need milk, not solid food! Everyone who lives on milk is still an infant, inexperienced in the message of righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained their sensibilities to distinguish good from evil." Hebrews 5:11-14
"Some signs of true apostles:
Signs, wonders, and miracles
Supernatural revelation and insight
Correcting false doctrine
Raising and releasing other five fold ministers
Traveling to establish churches and ministries
Patiently enduring hatred and persecution
Being set apart and sent to grow the universal church (not focused entirely on the local church)"
Excerpt taken from
Jonathan Welton.