Looking at the groups of believers that received in Scripture:
1- [FONT="]--[/FONT]-On the day of Pentecost in the upper room: Acts 2:4 "And they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance"
2- ---Cornelius’ house filled with friends and family who were baptized. Acts 10:44 ”While Peter yet spake these words, the Holy Ghost fell on all them which heard the word. 45 And they of the circumcision which believed were astonished, as many as came with Peter, because that on the Gentiles also was poured out the gift of the Holy Ghost. 46 For they heard them speak with tongues, and magnify God."
3- ---Disciples of Ephesus Acts 19:2 "He said unto them, Have ye received the Holy Ghost since ye believed? And they said unto him, We have not so much as heard whether there be any Holy Ghost.” 6”And when Paul had laid his hands upon them, the Holy Ghost came on them; and they spake with tongues, and prophesied. 7 And all the men were about twelve.”
JesusIsGood, I encourage you to keep praying and believing because there's different purposes for speaking in tongues and the purposes also show that they're for every believer. I Cor. 12:28 states “And God hath set some in the church, first apostles, secondarily prophets, thirdly teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, governments, diversities of tongues,”
(1) one purpose of speaking in tongues is for church edification such as I Cor 12:10 "To another the working of miracles; to another prophecy; to another discerning of spirits; to another divers kinds of tongues; to another the interpretation of tongues." This is about the gift of speaking in tongues and interpretation for the church which every believer isn't going to be given that gift; however,
(2) other purposes are for personal edification, a personal language between you and our Heavenly Father is shown in such Scriptures as I Cor 14:4 “He that speaketh in an unknown tongue edifieth himself…” Jude 1:20 "But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost, 21 Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life.” Acts 10:46 "For they heard them speak with tongues, and magnify God. …” Ephesians 6:18 "And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests." There's also singing in the Spirit Eph 5:19 "Speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord;” [FONT="].[/FONT][FONT="]”[/FONT] I Cor 14: 15 “What is it then? I will pray with the spirit, and I will pray with the understanding also: I will sing with the spirit, and I will sing with the understanding also.”
Though this is like salvation in that Yahweh isn't going to make any person become a believer nor make any believer speak in tongues. Tongues are a sign of believers - Mark 16:17 "And these signs shall follow them that believe; In my name shall they cast out devils; they shall speak with new tongues;”