I don't see anything supporting your premiss. It's pretty obvious from our quotes that it is know dialect. Paul only mentioned that the "tongues" that they were speaking were not totally understood by the people present because not evey "know" language was represented with a person present.
I think you might be missing the whole point. The Holy Spirit in us and the fruits of the Spirit and the fruit that we bare is the essential part of the edification of God and Church. If it isn't done with Love and Charity it doesn't mean a thing. An empty gong as you are want to quote in I Cr 13 about tongues of angels.
V. 1. Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass or a tinkling cymbal. V. 2. And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing. V. 3. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.
There is too much emphasis on gifts of the Spirit. Even Paul said that they should cease and then recanted and said that they should at least slow down. The jews needed signs and wonders becasue of their hard hearts and the gifts served a purpose. If unbelievers were to hear tongues Paul even said that it would be a bad witness.
1CO 14:23 So if the whole church comes together and everyone speaks in tongues, and some who do not understand or some unbelievers come in, will they not say that you are out of your mind?
just like a few years ago, I didn't see anything in the same scriptures which supported your premise
Anyway, I'm not missing the point. Its just a matter of perspective. When I'm in the charismatic forums here, I frequently argue the verses you quoted above, and argue that charismatics are misusing the idea of tongues. Because we do.
However, In the context of what you guys are saying here, your going to the opposite extreme. You're looking at what abuses have been made of tongues, and saying as a result 'lets not have anything to do with it'.
There is no indication in Paul's writings that the manifestation of the gifts should slow down or cease UNTIL that which is perfect has come. This is not a refrence to the church, or the bible, it is a refrence to our completion in Christ when we have received the hope of glory.
As long as the church exists in this age of the world, she needs the gifts, because we need the gifts.
The denial of the gifts is almost entirely based on fear of the abuse of the more "flashy" gifts. Think about what you are denying when you say that the gifts need to slow down.. wisdom, knowledge, discernment, faith, healing, prophecy (which is merely God speaking a message into a given situation, it doesn't mean fortelling the future)
Are you really ready to start having those things slow down, or cease? Do you really think the church has out grown them?
I agree 100% that all of these things are useless if they do not serve the church, and do not serve to build up the body of Christ in love.
When some guy prances around on a stage shouting in tongues.. its useless, and in many cases its disobedient, its flesh, not Spirit. Thats not what I'm talking about.
The kind of tongues most often used, and described by Paul as unknown, "your spirit speaking mysteries to God". Is a personal devotion. You can say "well then it doesn't build up the body" and thats exactly why Paul said not to do it in church. My response would be, do you only worship in Church? do you only commune with God in church.. do you only ever talk to God when it has to do with building up the church.. or do you come to him personally as well?
Tongues is a valuable manifestation of the Spirit, in which a person practices devotion through opening themselves to the Spirit and allowing him to pray through them.