somewhat sensitive question need help

[PastorofMuppets]

I have tried researching this through the net but I havent found much luck, so I thought I would ask here. I will try to be as clean as possible, but this is a real situation that i am dealing with and i would like advice.

My wife and I have been trying for about 8 months to have a baby, with no luck.


I think I might know why and thats what i want your thougths on.


After we finish our intercourse, I usually stay inside her for a long time, several minutes.
However, no matter what I do, when I withdrawl from her. My entire discharge spills out like a puddle. As far as I can tell it all comes gushing back out. It seems thin and it just wont stay inside.

Can anyone help or offer insight

I really want to be a dad

thanks and I hope i wasnt to graphic

Blessings

 

[~Mrs. A2J~]

Have your wife prop her hips up on a pillow so gravity will keep all the good stuff inside.

 

[AutumnDreamer]

Chances are not everything is coming back out. Propping will help. But it could be something as simple as your timing being just a bit off, or if you have sex too often or not enough. Conception really is a miracle when you think about it.

 

[Leanna]

Although it may SEEM like your entire discharge comes out, it really doesn't. That always happens, the puddle. IMO the best thing you can do to keep from having all of it come back out is to have her go straight to sleep without getting up and going to the bathroom afterwards... or taking a shower, etc. etc.

 

[PastorofMuppets]

i guess it seems that way because its so thin
i dont have direct comparison but to me it seems really thin and wont stay in at all no matter what

oh well im sure God is in control and we will be pregnant when His timing is right

 

[~Mrs. A2J~]

i guess it seems that way because its so thin
i dont have direct comparison but to me it seems really thin and wont stay in at all no matter what

oh well im sure God is in control and we will be pregnant when His timing is right

The discharge you are seeing may not even be yours, it could be your wife's. Especially if she is very into you being together. Are you noticing this discharge all the time or only at certain times. If you are having regular intercourse over the month and it's like that all the time then it's probably you but if it varies I think it would be more likely your wife's.

 

[Leanna]

It sounds really normal... you are normal don't worry!

 

[tigercub]

Are you using any kind of fertility chart?

I know of a few free ones that have worked for some women. PM me for the link if you want.

There are so many variables..ovulation tests and charts could help

Best wishes for a pregnancy soon!

 

[giddybiscuit]

What Leanna said: sounds normal to me!

Have you looked into natural family planning to aid in your efforts to conceive? It took us seven months to get pregnant but for most people who are using NFP, it only takes four to six.