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Some Questions For Youth Pastors

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For the past year, I have become involved with the teens at my church as God has lead. I first preached on a sunday morning the first time two years ago and then taught the teens a few wednesday nights. Now it's getting more serious, as I had them almost every wednesday this past summer. I treat it more than just a casual lesson, I've spent my time in prayer and feeding them spiritually to the point where I've helped them build an outreach ministry that wasn't there before. The youth hold services at nursing homes now (with me preaching) and desire to do clothing drives and food drives. We'll be doing a soup kitchen at our church in the winter months (jan.) this will be a first time ever for our church in it's entire history. They only discuss doing these things with me, not the normal teacher. But I discuss and arrange these things through our pastor and that teacher/deacon. I do nothing outside their counsel.

I believe they have sort of chosen me as their leader, but my first intention was simply to serve God and revamp a dying church, that had no local outreach. The youth became the receptive ones. I actually am in their class, I'm 22. But I also teach it when available to do so. But now I feel God had chosen me as their leader before they did. This ministry that God created and continues to build and work in, I believe He has given it to me. My goal is to continue on in this work as I'm lead. I never realized I'd be a youth leader. But ultimately the situation has it, they are not in my care all the time. It makes things difficult, but I give thanks for what God arranges.

My first question: I am not a bible college student, I was saved almost 3 years ago and never grew up in a church or christian family. I am the only one. But I feel God leads me to serve. For the time I have served where God has lead. Lately I've been feeling pulled toward a bible college focused on youth ministry. But I want to use this to serve in my church, I do not feel moved to leave the church but continue building up the youth. Would you think it wise to leave for college and return to doing it full-time? Not sure what I'm asking.

Second Question: Is it a wise decision to approach the pastor of my church and speak of going to college to return to be our church's youth pastor? Currently we haven't one. There hasn't been much of a youth ministry at the church until I began teaching and encouraging the teens and working with the missions deacon and the pastor.

Third Question: Should I remove myself (more of a present day question) from their classes as a student and only be there to teach when arranged? I don't want to disconnect with them but I'm wondering if it would be a good idea to evolve away from flip flopping from student to teacher. Not to mention for my own growth.

I know these are kind of broad questions, but any advice is appreciated.
 

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I'm not a youth pastor but I can give you my thoughts since no one is posting in here.

Q#1: You are essentially a baby Christian. You probably aren't at the point you can answer really tough questions. I highly advise you to get some Bible College education to better prepare yourself. While you may be called to be a leader, that doesn't mean you should lead without having solid scriptural knowledge (and I don't see how you can accumulate all that in one year since you started preaching one year after you were saved. I'm still learning and I grew up in a Christian family and attended church all my life and spent 10 years in a Christian school).

Q#2: Absolutely. In fact, the church may offer to help with your education. At my old church (my husband still works there), the youth leader (can't be called a pastor without graduating from seminary) is having his college paid for in order to become a youth pastor. He is still heading up the youth, but he isn't called a pastor (because he's technically not one). I do think you should withdraw from teaching at present. See #3.

Q#3: Absolutely not. As I said, you are still a baby Christian and you need discipleship (and will continue to need education throughout your life). If your call is to teach, get the training for it. Personally I always enjoyed deep theological study and discussion when I was in the youth group. There is only so much "Jesus loves you and is your savior and we can all be happy" you can take. You need more substance. Bible college will help that.
 
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It would be simply adding to what I've seen int he replies so far but my suggestion would be to continue with college. I went through Bible College and I can tell you the benefits can be well worth the time and effort it takes.

The Lord led me to college by asking me if I wanted to do ministry for Him, didnt I want to do the best I could at it? Of course my answer was yes. So then why not prepaire for it?

As for leaving the class. I would speak to the Pastor about what He thinks about the current situation. If there is a good chance of you being a consistant teacher in the class, some seperation may be a good thing. That being said, if you both decide leaving the class would be good it is imperative that you find another mature Christian to mentor and learn under. Your shipwrecked with out it.
 
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