Dear Pure760. I believe you are right in thinking as you do, but the wonderful truth is: " God sees our hearts, and He knows our thoughts and efforts." God will know whether we try to overcome sinning, or whether we are just complacent enough to believe that it is impossible. Jesus gave us these two Commandments to always remember: " Love God with all our hearts, with all our souls, and with all our minds, AND: Love our neighbour as ourselves." God wants our Love freely given, and absolutely selfless. And Jesus states the fact: " On these two Commadments hang all the Law and the Prophets." Paul tells us in 1) Corinthians, chapter 13, verses 4-8, what to love really is, not just a good feeling, but also a Verb, ( doing-word.) We have to change from being selfish to become loving and caring. God will see our sincere efforts to follow His Commandments to love our neighbour, ( all others, friends or not friends) and God will approve and bless us. God will also know that we love Him, because we are following His Commandments to love. Yes, Jesus died that we might live and we are truly grateful and love our Saviour, but to show it by loving selflessy and with all our beings, is to show our Love to our Heavenly Father and each other. I say this with love, Pure. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.