No it wasn't an accusation Sunlover, sorry !
As I said, it was an observation qualified by "it seems" - and based on discussions (and non-discussions

) here on GT.
Maybe examples will help ...
There is the apparently consistent view per the posts in the past week that "not Sola Scriptura" means "not valuing Scripture".
There seems to also be an emphasis among SS adherents that what is said (in the Scriptures) is more important than what is done. Laws are statements, and Scripture seems to be treated almost wholly as a set of statements which are treated as laws.
For example:
"Call no man father" is typically treated as a commandment (covering the address of presbyters and sometimes the biological parent) , yet several times men are called, addressed, and referred to as "father" in the NT.
"Vain repetition" is often treated as a command against repetition, yet repetition occurs throughout the Scriptures.
"...There is none righteous,no, not one" is used repeatedly in reference to individuals, yet the Scriptures attest of many who were righteous.
In this way - isolating verses as an instructive finality where counterexamples exist, honoring statement without considering demonstration which also teaches - per my discussions here, it seems there is a focus on "letter" without also considering "spirit".
The examples I mentioned above may instead draw us into a fuller understanding of the Scriptures, to find as it were the
heart of the Scriptures.
As a concomitant of this approach, there seems to be a tendency to ignore the overarching purpose and instructive approach of the OT and NT. To some extent, some SS adherents seem to interpret the NT through the OT, instead of interpreting the OT through the NT - through the person of Christ if you will. As well, the approach to instruction in the NT seems to be missed - the loving acknowledgment of God that we are human, and thus learn in part through our God created/given humanness.
For example, although "vain repetition" seems to be wantonly attached to
any repetition, this legalistic interpretation ignores counterexamples in Scripture, and also that humans learn through repetition. Something repeated is never in fact a repetition when one is prayerfully, spiritually acutely "present". And repetition can have the effect of eventually "cracking through" an atrophied human heart, spilling into it a great wealth as a gift from God.
That Christ lived among us, the manner and method of His teaching (its wholeness, not only what is spoken), the manner and method that God wills for our salvation, all point to a love towards mankind, and serve man's way of understanding, his way of learning, and indeed also man's (eventual) wholeness; all of God's actions honor His desire that we are to become
whole. He ministers to us through body, heart, spirit -- to the complete man, to man as "soul" (in the Hebraic sense).
The dominant definition/description given for Sola Scriptura of late seems to be also symptomatic of this - the Scripture was given for man and thus is not Scripture unless it is used
by man. To say that interpretation of Scripture is not part of Sola Scriptura makes of Scripture something above us instead of for our use -- Christ walked among (not over) us, God interacts with us, Scripture (and
everything God provides for us) is for our use and benefit.
This definition of Sola Scriptura makes of Scripture something not in use - as something alien from the human experience, and not even God is 'alien' from us in the way SS has been described. As the sole norm, again it seems to me that the true and only norm - Christ - is removed from His place as norm; His wholeness and interaction with us recedes to be replaced by the text as the "firmest" most objective thing. Christ was
never objective - He ministered to us as human beings; He was merciful not "objective".
Scripture is not a "rule" per se; there is only One Ruler, and He alone is the Rule. I understand that California Josiah's definition may be an attempt at guarding against misinterpretation as well as seeking a commonality for a "rule"; interpretation
is in part product of the health (or not) of our spiritual heart. Of course we read it, study it, repeatedly (and if we are prayerful, patient, humble and alert it will never be "the same" Scripture twice).
And in humility, recognizing whether or not our calling is to teach, and the reality of our own spiritual state, and the method God has chosen to work through the ages, we can recognize that some have heard God's teaching more fully and accurately than we have. That someone else may "show us", may teach in a way that "lays open" the heart of the Scriptures. This is the way God has
always worked - through the various callings, through others set aside, as well as to the whole person, and 'developmentally'.
Sorry this was so long in responding - it's been another "mom-bus" day