Anyone have any suggestions on how to overcome social anxiety? This might sound stupid to some of ya, but I have a real hard time going somewhere that i'm not comfortable. I have a hard time going to the grocery store because I might have to actually say something to someone. I'm having a hard time going to church even because I have to talk to people. I have passed up a good job opportunity because i'm afraid of going to the place to get an application and scared to death of the interview. I design webpages on the side, and I passed a recent opportunity up because I have to meet with someone... What is it with me? I have been quiet and shy my entire life, not sure why, but it is now getting to me because it is affecting my everyday life and I don't know how to get control of it. It's a miracle that i'm even writing this, sometimes i'm too shy to write anything over the internet. That's why i'm not as active as i'd like to be here on this message board. Any suggestions on how to overcome this? Or has anyone been like this that can relate? I'd like to know i'm not the only person like this.