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fishstix

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TheIdiot said:
OK, I prepared the sunday school lesson as asked. When I went to teach it the dry erase board was "missing". I could not find it. Another person in the church found it and I was rebuked for being late. I went to teach the lesson I'd prepared and my pastor said she didn't want to hear it and to teach something else. I did my best to teach what she'd requested. I taught it as it was taught to me. She said "that's it? Tell us more". I didn't know what to say. I testified about a true life event. She said something about I had obviously judged a person, which I had not done, simply shared the gospel with her. She sighed, the sunday school students laughed and giggled and pointed at me. I was mortified. What now? Am I evil for doing my best?
No, you are not evil for doing your best. Likely the only person saying that is yourself. It sounds to me like there was some miscommunication and perhaps a lack of preparation (eg - someone should have made sure the board was there). Consider that you might be misunderstanding your pastor just like she misunderstood you. It sounds like perhaps she was trying to encourage you along in your presentation and maybe it came out sounding more like a challenge than encouragement.
 
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OKAY forgive :blush: my first post, it always helps to have the whole story, even though it still seems something is missing.

The Holy Spirit is a gentlemen, If He was involved in your correction, you would never have been embarassed like that, that was so wrong!!!
She should have taken you to the side by yourself, and rebuked you if necessary, then if you didn't recieve, talk to you again with some brothers.
Sound like she made a spectacle out of you, now you will have problems with the children respecting you after that. What was she thinking?
If your teaching is not up to her standards, then she should provide more training!!!
If this happened the way you said, then that pastor was not operating in Spirit and in Truth, and I would have a problem, being under her authority.
Look everyone makes mistakes, and we learn from them.
She should have been greatful to have someone willing to teach, that is hard to find now days. I hope you don't get too discouraged, just learn as much about the word as you can, study to show yourself approved, and I wouldn't be surprised, if you one day, are teacing her, sounds like she has more learning to do!!!!;)
 
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:crossrc: IF YOU KNOW THAT SOME PASTOR'S ARE DOING THIS TO YOU
YOU SHOULD PRAY FOR THEM BECAUSE IN THE 1ST PLACE THEY ARE
CALLED MEN OF GOD AND PLEASE DONT THINK YOU ARE NOT A CHRISTIAN
IF YOU ASKED JESUS INTO YOUR HEART KNOW THAT HE IS WITH YOU ALL AWAY'S I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD FIND I CHRUCH HOME WHERE YOU CAN
BE LEAD INTO THE THING'S OF GOD , I REALLY FEEL FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE
CALLED AND ARE IN THE WILL OF GOD, BUT CAN NOT LOVE YOU ENOUGH
TO HELP YOU OUT, THIS IS ONE OF THE REASON'S GOD PUT PASTOR'S
AND THE LIKE IN THE WORLD.. THE SPIRIT OF GOD IS SAYING KEEP HIM 1ST
IN YOUR LIFE KNOW MATTER WHAT IS GOING ON AROUND YOU, STAND UP IN GOD I KNOW IT WILL BE HARD BUT JESUS TOLD US TO PRAY FOR OTHER'S WHO DO SUCH THING'S TO YOU. EVEN I HAVE THIS PROBLEM BUT IF I WANT
TO BE BLESSED OF GOD I MUST DO WHAT HE HAS ASKED. BUILD YOURSELF
UP IN GOD'S WORD AND PROTECT YOUR FAITH FROM BEING STEPPED ON
YOU HAVE THE SPIRIT OF GOD LIVING ON THE INSIDE OF YOU
NOW!!! GO FORWRD I THE THING'S OF GOD AND KNOW THAT HE LOVE'S YOU
IN THESE DAY'S ALL BELIEVER'S OF GOD NEED HIM AND HIS SPIRIT TO MAKE
IT GIVE IT TO GOD IN PRAYER AND KNOW THAT ALL THING'S WORK TOGETHER FOR THE GOOD OF ALL THEM THAT LOVE GOD THROUGH JESUS
CHRIST WITH LOVEhttp://www.christianforums.com/newreply.php?do=newreply&noquote=1&p=14298916#

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Originally Posted by: TheIdiot
OK, I prepared the sunday school lesson as asked. When I went to teach it the dry erase board was "missing". I could not find it. Another person in the church found it and I was rebuked for being late. I went to teach the lesson I'd prepared and my pastor said she didn't want to hear it and to teach something else. I did my best to teach what she'd requested. I taught it as it was taught to me. She said "that's it? Tell us more". I didn't know what to say. I testified about a true life event. She said something about I had obviously judged a person, which I had not done, simply shared the gospel with her. She sighed, the sunday school students laughed and giggled and pointed at me. I was mortified. What now? Am I evil for doing my best?

If this is an accurate portrayal of what happened , then it appears your " pastor " is assuming a role which they're not really qualified to fill .

May The Lord grant you peace and healing .

wm
 
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