Hey guys, so I just turned 21 and even a few years beforehand there's been a lot of pressure from most of my friends to get drunk. It seems like that's all anyone does in college, or maybe I'm just hanging out with the wrong crowd. I've had a history of drinking [fairly] often and ironically now I'm trying to slow down. Everyone keeps saying "now you can go to wineries with us!" and "now you can go on drunk limo tours with us!" or "now we can go to bars!" which I don't mind having a little to drink, but that's never how it ends up. I hate hangovers, and I hate feeling out of control of myself, the dizzy feeling, etc... I feel like the best way to avoid drinking so much is to just remove myself from the situation altogether. I also have ADHD which makes it a bit harder to control impulses because I don't have much time to think things through (short attention span), which is why I'm thinking it'd be better to just avoid situations where there is drinking going on. What do you guys think? Does it bother anyone else that drinking is so big in college life culture? I feel like we have so many better things to do.