So lost,

[mightymouse1119]

Hello, everyone first I like to thank Jesus Christ, for bringing me to this forum, like everyone we all have a story. In short I was born and raised a Pentecostal, remembering my child hood (I'm 31) my mom had to wear a shirt, we where forbidden to attend any social outlets (Movies, concerts, games ect..), around the age of 12 a big scandal broke loose at my childhood church, Pastor was accused of mishandling the Church funds, and several complaints of misconducts with certain young ladies, either way, my parents them moved to a Assemble Of God Church, it was nice but as I became older, the youth pastor along with the pastor keep pressuring myself and bigger brother into a ministry. either into music or preaching, eventually the church became one big Sunday night concert, and if you did not participate in either the music ministry, Chorus, theater and dance ministry ( yes ). you were kinda consider what they term as a Cold Christian, eventually I left to serve in the Marine Corps, and basically never came back, (joined in 1998), well fast forward I'm married for 9 yrs have a 5 yr old son, I'm currently in Law enforcement , well basically hits some bumpy roads, I want to introduce Church to my son , and here is why I'm lost, my wife was born Catholic but her parents converted to Pentecostal, ( are family are long time friends), she also left the church , I recently been researching and have a interest to give Catholicism a shot, but my wife still maintains the typical anti-Catholic views as are parents and former church has. I recently purchased "Rome sweet Home" by Scott Hahn, I loved it, I told here to read, but she refuses. Don't know what to do, for her its seems although we have not gone to church (well this Easter we visited a Presbyterian church, it was the first time my son entered a Church kinda sad.) that it must be a non-denominational or nothing, I want to go somewhere that I feel comfortable.. how can I get her to not see the Catholic church as evil, thank you all, please pray for me and my family. God bless you all..

 

[Michie]

You basically have to go where God leads you & live your faith. That usually opens people up & peaks their curiosity. Pray for her.

This might help for quick answers to questions:

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[Chrystal-J]

Welcome mightymouse!
I had a similar problem with atheist relatives. They mocked my faith and made my life difficult. I prayed for them to convert to Catholicism. Some of them have changed quite a bit and are growing toward the faith. Some have not (yet) and I'm still praying for them. Prayer helps a lot. Also, pray that you stay strong and in a calm peace during all of this. God is listening and He will help you!
Praying for you!
C J

 

[servant of Merciful Love]

Welcome to CF and OBOB
I will be praying for your spiritual journey ~ God bless you

 

[mightymouse1119]

THank Mitchie, going to look through them, Tank Chrystal-J, Its hard, I have not even touch this topic with my parents (lol), I hope God opens her heart, and keeps me going towards him, Gods knows that I need him in my life right now. thanks to all who responds.. and Prays.

 

[Romans 13:3]

Check out the Bible Christian Society, it is one of my favorites.

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[stone]

Hello, everyone first I like to thank Jesus Christ, for bringing me to this forum, like everyone we all have a story. In short I was born and raised a Pentecostal, remembering my child hood (I'm 31) my mom had to wear a shirt, we where forbidden to attend any social outlets (Movies, concerts, games ect..), around the age of 12 a big scandal broke loose at my childhood church, Pastor was accused of mishandling the Church funds, and several complaints of misconducts with certain young ladies, either way, my parents them moved to a Assemble Of God Church, it was nice but as I became older, the youth pastor along with the pastor keep pressuring myself and bigger brother into a ministry. either into music or preaching, eventually the church became one big Sunday night concert, and if you did not participate in either the music ministry, Chorus, theater and dance ministry ( yes ). you were kinda consider what they term as a Cold Christian, eventually I left to serve in the Marine Corps, and basically never came back, (joined in 1998), well fast forward I'm married for 9 yrs have a 5 yr old son, I'm currently in Law enforcement , well basically hits some bumpy roads, I want to introduce Church to my son , and here is why I'm lost, my wife was born Catholic but her parents converted to Pentecostal, ( are family are long time friends), she also left the church , I recently been researching and have a interest to give Catholicism a shot, but my wife still maintains the typical anti-Catholic views as are parents and former church has. I recently purchased "Rome sweet Home" by Scott Hahn, I loved it, I told here to read, but she refuses. Don't know what to do, for her its seems although we have not gone to church (well this Easter we visited a Presbyterian church, it was the first time my son entered a Church kinda sad.) that it must be a non-denominational or nothing, I want to go somewhere that I feel comfortable.. how can I get her to not see the Catholic church as evil, thank you all, please pray for me and my family. God bless you all..

I would say let her agree to go to a church once of her choice, if in turn, she will agree to go to a church of your choice. Ask her to choose which has the Holy Spirit. The Catholic Church is the only one that has the combination of 2000 years of history, apostolic succession, real presence and a history of a great variety of saints.

 

[ComradeAgopian]

I had similar things take place when I became Eastern Orthodox . All you can really do is pray , live you're faith , and I would urge speak with the Priest or Deacon .

 

[MikeK]

Welcome, MM. You've received some good advice. Te only think I'd add is to pray for your wife, and pray with your wife. Read everything you can on the topic. Show her that you are committed to doing all you can do to determine the Truth to the best of your ability. Be a leader, and hopefully she'll see the Holy Spirit working in you, see the joy that you posses, and want what you've got. Also, be patient. This may take months, it may take decades.

 

[isshinwhat]

Prayers for you and your family. We dealt with similar issues surrounding my in-laws; they are all now Catholic. There is always hope...

 

[eastcoast_bsc]

Lord I pray for MightyMouse and his family. I pray Lord that you will lead them to your son and in your truth.

 

[Michie]

THank Mitchie, going to look through them, Tank Chrystal-J, Its hard, I have not even touch this topic with my parents (lol), I hope God opens her heart, and keeps me going towards him, Gods knows that I need him in my life right now. thanks to all who responds.. and Prays.

It seems we always expect our spouses to be on the same page spiritually. But in reality, most aren't. Even if they go to the same church. Just do what you need to spiritually for yourself as God leads you. Pray for your wife. No pressure unless she brings it up. Just work on what you need to do for you at this point & be patient with your wife. God has a way of working these things out in His time. Not ours.

 

[mightymouse1119]

Thanks alot of good advice, it seems she been so on edge, lately hopefully we both get the spiritual guidance, I know I've been praying I keep telling her to do the same.

 

[WarriorAngel]

Hello, everyone first I like to thank Jesus Christ, for bringing me to this forum, like everyone we all have a story. In short I was born and raised a Pentecostal, remembering my child hood (I'm 31) my mom had to wear a shirt, we where forbidden to attend any social outlets (Movies, concerts, games ect..), around the age of 12 a big scandal broke loose at my childhood church, Pastor was accused of mishandling the Church funds, and several complaints of misconducts with certain young ladies, either way, my parents them moved to a Assemble Of God Church, it was nice but as I became older, the youth pastor along with the pastor keep pressuring myself and bigger brother into a ministry. either into music or preaching, eventually the church became one big Sunday night concert, and if you did not participate in either the music ministry, Chorus, theater and dance ministry ( yes ). you were kinda consider what they term as a Cold Christian, eventually I left to serve in the Marine Corps, and basically never came back, (joined in 1998), well fast forward I'm married for 9 yrs have a 5 yr old son, I'm currently in Law enforcement , well basically hits some bumpy roads, I want to introduce Church to my son , and here is why I'm lost, my wife was born Catholic but her parents converted to Pentecostal, ( are family are long time friends), she also left the church , I recently been researching and have a interest to give Catholicism a shot, but my wife still maintains the typical anti-Catholic views as are parents and former church has. I recently purchased "Rome sweet Home" by Scott Hahn, I loved it, I told here to read, but she refuses. Don't know what to do, for her its seems although we have not gone to church (well this Easter we visited a Presbyterian church, it was the first time my son entered a Church kinda sad.) that it must be a non-denominational or nothing, I want to go somewhere that I feel comfortable.. how can I get her to not see the Catholic church as evil, thank you all, please pray for me and my family. God bless you all..

I will pray.
I would also keep attending Mass and ask her to join in. Eventually she might want to just because you are?

I have no other suggestions - except we sanctify our spouses [and hopefully eventually get them to see]

Really - leading by example is the only thing one can do. Keep reading Scott Hahn, he is excellent and a convert from Methodist, i believe. A convert from that or Presbyterian. I think Methodist.

 

[mightymouse1119]

Well, talking to my wife, I told her that I would like to attend Mass this weekend, she said " go ahead but alone", that kinda hurt, but going to pray and go! thanks for the research sites, and the prayers.

 

[Michie]

Well, talking to my wife, I told her that I would like to attend Mass this weekend, she said " go ahead but alone", that kinda hurt, but going to pray and go! thanks for the research sites, and the prayers.

I know it hurts but it is common sadly. Just hang tough. If you feel God is leading you to the RCC then just cling to that. No pressure on the wife. The rest will follow in God's time.

Continued prayers for you.