5) We are condemned to hell for our sins, using a standard of perfection that he admits we cannot achieve. But he provides a heaven for those who can. But they can't. Huh?
6) He gives us the means of salvation and the free will to choose to take it or not. If we don't, we go to hell to be tortured for eternity for sins that he knew we'd do based on something that our ancestor did thousands of years ago. We are told that just having a lustful thought condemns us. What kind of choice is that? Where is the free will in that?
Declaration of intent: A one time remark, just a thought in my head. I've been on CF for 11 years and posted fewer than 200 times. I hate forum arguments, so that's not what I'm trying to do. But I see this, and see a gap in logic that needs to be addressed. So BryanW92, take it for what you will, and leave it if you wish. I'm saying all this because I'm going to disagree with you, and some on CF don't do well with that.
The problem with what you've said in these two points is that there is no theology of the cross, and your theology of salvation is far too narrow.
I'm going to begin with your outline, comment on it, and modify it.
1) God made us to glorify him. I think that we all agree on that.
Absolutely. The Gen. 1 creation story follows the pattern of tabernacle/temple building. God built for himself a temple. Now, when you build a temple, the last thing you put in it is an image of the god or goddess to be worshiped. God placed humanity in his temple. We were created in his image, for the purpose of being a reflection of Him. Our purpose was worship. We are a worship symbol in God's holy temple (this world).
2) He knows everything. We all agree on that.
He knows everything that is knowable. There's plenty of debate about that which is unknowable, though. Is the future knowable? If it is already determined, then yes. Many Calvinists would argue that the future is determined, as is a person's salvation. There are a good number of people from different traditions, however, that believe that the future is undetermined, and therefore unknowable. This freaks some people out a bit. However, if we believe that God is all-powerful, then we should not fear that which is unknowable. He is still God. He is still able. More than able.
3) He put the Tree of Knowledge in the Garden. Adam and Eve took a bite. We all agree on that.
Yes. Adam and Eve introduced sin. For the sake of clarity, many who believe this also believe that it is metaphor or myth (which is a word used to describe a cultural story, not the opposite of a "fact").
4) They took on a sin that we are now responsible for just by being born. We agree on that.
That we are born into sin is generally accepted. It's probably a lot bigger than Adam and Eve's sin, though.
5) We are condemned to hell for our sins, using a standard of perfection that he admits we cannot achieve. But he provides a heaven for those who can. But they can't. Huh?
Here's where you lose me, as well as any serious Wesleyan. Death (hell) is the consequence of sin. We seem to agree on that. We are unable to remove ourselves from sin. But the sacrifice of Jesus is sufficient to restore us to covenant relationship with God.
We live in covenant relationship with God. The consequence for broken covenant is death. God never breaks covenant, but we all have (your 4th point). Christ acts as a covenant substitute, taking the very death we deserve upon himself, and restoring us in righteousness (covenant relationship) with God.
That "standard of perfection that he admits we cannot achieve" isn't something that we are expected to achieve. Instead, we are expected to receive. That's the gift of the cross.
6) He gives us the means of salvation and the free will to choose to take it or not. If we don't, we go to hell to be tortured for eternity for sins that he knew we'd do based on something that our ancestor did thousands of years ago. We are told that just having a lustful thought condemns us. What kind of choice is that? Where is the free will in that?
Yeah, that's pretty lousy free will. Totally agree. But thousands of years ago, the future hadn't happened. It was not determined. Free will insists upon that. If we have free will, then the future is unknowable.
Instead, free will should be understood as our ability to choose to receive the gift of salvation, or reject it. We can choose to be restored in covenant with God, through the gift of the sacrifice of Jesus, or we can reject the opportunity.
One more thing: Salvation is much bigger than "going to heaven" and "going to hell." Salvation is being freed from the patterns of death. It is using our free will to choose the way of Jesus, which is life-giving. It is about becoming a disciple of Jesus, and learning his ways. Heaven is a reality that we can begin to live into even now, and experience in full upon our death.
And so is hell. Which is part of the reason for my disclaimer above. Clearly, we disagree on a few things here. If I came and said "You are such an idiot, how can you believe these things?" (which, for what its worth, is not how I think of you or the things you have expressed - just an example) I would be practicing the way of hell. By belittling you, cutting off opportunity for meaningful relationship, etc., I would allow hell to enter into our conversation. I would be practicing the way of death rather than trying to live into the way of Jesus.
There's so much more, and I've only gone surface-deep here. But I just wanted to let you know that no serious theologian holds the logic you described, and if that is your understanding of Wesleyanism, I certainly understand why you're leaving! I would really encourage you to chase down those ideas that you have and don't just jump traditions when you find problems like that. There are people far smarter than either of us (smarter than me, especially!) who can help you resolve the tensions you're describing. Whatever tradition you land in, look for consistency and find answers to your questions and dilemmas without jumping ship to another tradition.
I think this is post 158? 159? Something like that for me. In 11 years. Ha! I probably won't respond even if you do, though when I log back in in a few months I'll be interested in reading your response, if you choose to post one. I'm just not here frequently enough to be much good for dialogue. I hope you don't mind that I've interjected a few thoughts before running away!