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If I just went up to a girl I liked and talked to her....just talked to her, and then asked her out, would she say yes?

Yes.









And if not, mmeh. Try asking someone else you like. Rinse and repeat until it's right.
 
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iamauthentic said:
to be honest, you sound really insecure from reading your posts. girls do not like that. so, if you were to approach this girl with the same attitude that you are expressing on this thread, chances are she is gonna say no.

This is absolutely the best advice given here. I'm a 26-year-old single woman and can vouch that, if a guy seems comfortable with who he is and his happiness isn't dependent on me agreeing to hang out with him, I'll give him a chance.

Also, you may find that the older you get, the less scary this scene gets. That's mostly because everyone calms down and realizes that going to dinner isn't a marriage commitment. Dating is just a way of getting to know people. And along the way you may find someone you truly connect with.

Chin up, mate! Find out and get comfortable with who you are when no one's looking and then be that person when everyone is. :)
 
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