So Like...

[broken_one]

If I just went up to a girl I liked and talked to her....just talked to her, and then asked her out, would she say yes?

 

[TheUnforeseen]

Only one way to find out. Try it.

 

[anewday]

She might, its worked for me before in the past.

 

[GQ Chris]

If she's interested in you, yes.

 

[anewday]

If she's interested in you, yes.

This ^ .

 

[broken_one]

But how do you know that? You can't control that. She may think I'm hideous.


(Very depressed btw)

 

[GQ Chris]

Exactly, if she thinks you're Quasimodo, nothing you can do about that. Move on to a different girl.

 

[broken_one]

But you look like crap getting shut down.....how can you get rid of that humiliation but still get where you need to go?

 

[MehGuy]

If I just went up to a girl I liked and talked to her....just talked to her, and then asked her out, would she say yes?

Well that would depend on the women, there isn't a man on the planet who will get a yes every time.

As long as you stick around your league you should be fine for the most part.

 

[broken_one]

But then what league should I be playing a round in?

 

[GQ Chris]

But you look like crap getting shut down.....how can you get rid of that humiliation but still get where you need to go?

It depends on how you take it, you don't have to look like crap. Just hold your head high after she says no and just move on.

 

[broken_one]

It depends on how you take it, you don't have to look like crap. Just hold your head high after she says no and just move on.

But you were just rejected....people will find out, and your position will be lowered.

 

[GQ Chris]

What? No way. Only losers are the wallflowers, those guys who know neither victory nor defeat.

 

[Obzocky]

But you look like crap getting shut down.....how can you get rid of that humiliation but still get where you need to go?

Only if you make it into a big deal. If you work on not caring if other people find out you'll find you really don't look like crap whenever someone rejects you. The only reason most people care is if you make a big enough deal out of it that your reaction makes caring worth it.

 

[broken_one]

The losers are the ones who lose. If I got rejected by a lesserly attractive girl, you'd better believe people would look lower upon me. If she was hot, the yeah it would be less of a deal.

But that doesn't mean it's still not a deal.

 

[MehGuy]

But then what league should I be playing a round in?

I really wouldn't have an idea, it's hard to judge someone's attractiveness through the internet.

I would say you would be safe to pursue the attractive, but the ones in the 9-10 league may be a little shaky. You might want to wait until you have a better paying job to go after those ones, if you're worried about rejection.

That's just my personal opinion, I don't really know too much about the dating scene though. My advice would be to be content with those who are marginally attractive, and not torture yourself with the perfect angels. Least for now....

 

[GQ Chris]

I thought you didn't like less attractive girls, why ask them in the first place.

 

[MehGuy]

The losers are the ones who lose. If I got rejected by a lesserly attractive girl, you'd better believe people would look lower upon me. If she was hot, the yeah it would be less of a deal.

But that doesn't mean it's still not a deal.

Grow thicker skin, and stop worrying about what other people think.

If you can't do that, then ask women out where you know no one else will find out about the consequences.

 

[broken_one]

I care what others think about me, and I doubt it's ever going to stop.

 

[MehGuy]

I care what others think about me, and I doubt it's ever going to stop.

Do you enjoy caring about what others think of you deep down?

If you can admit that, perhaps it might be easier to rid yourself of this plight than you may think.