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So lets be grown up & talk about OBOB, articles, etc.

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Michie

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It bothers me only because others have mentioned that it bothered them, some enough so that they left. There are only a dozen or so regular posters, plus the two or three trolls who keep getting banned and coming back with new names (Hi AS!). I figure for united should seriously consider the criticism they're given. Michie will do what Michie will do, she has demonstrated over the years that she is incapable of change. She is AMDG, she is WA, she is Fantine, she is TLF. She has become a charicature of herself. This is the 5th or 6th time she's pretended to ask for suggestions and criticism, only to react with deflections and state her intent to continue as she always has. It's the same discussion, every year....only with less people here to observe it as the years go on. I rely don't care, but I'd like to see a place for seekers or new Catholics to come without having to sift through garbage from so-and-so's blog or Lifesite, CNA, CA, etc. There are a handful of posters here who seemingly exist only to correct false statements and poor logic that others spam the board with, and that shouldn't be. To be honest, it's embarrassing.
The only reason things have not changed because is of you & others refusal to get together & hash things out. I've asked repeatedly in MSC. You can point the finger at others all you want & predict outcomes like you are some kind of oracle. But it speaks more of your character than those that you predictably insist on berating every chance you get.

Charitable people act otherwise when people make an effort. You are either in need of a target & fear losing one or you are just a person that likes to dictate even when things are obviously swinging your way.

We've all heard this before. I think the true test is seeing your reaction to all of this. You are coming across as actually being disappointed if you do turn out to be wrong. What will you do then?

Everyone is to blame here Mike. You have caused as much problems or more than the people you use as your scapegoats for all that is wrong with OBOB.
 
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Your "compromise" is 10 new threads a day. That's business as usual...which is your prerogative, but don't pretend otherwise. You're not making an effort, you're looking for excuses to continue relatively unabated. At 5 and 5, it is clear that you intend to make no substantial changes. If you adopt the 2 and 2 suggestion, I'll be impressed and buy you flowers after a year is up.
 
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Your "compromise" is 10 new threads a day. That's business as usual...which is your prerogative, but don't pretend otherwise. You're not making an effort, you're looking for excuses to continue relatively unabated. At 5 and 5, it is clear that you intend to make no substantial changes. If you adopt the 2 and 2 suggestion, I'll be impressed and buy you flowers after a year is up.
If you have read this thread... & I assume you have, the 5&5 is just for now till there is a poll. And I have not come close to posting 5&5. So calm down.
 
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People will take pity on you in a poll and indicate that you shouldn't change anything. If you think I'm to blame for something, I appreciate your feedback and I have a wonderful solution for that.
You don't have much faith. Regardless of how the poll turns out I'm not going to go beyond the 5&5. And I don't think I'll come close to it. As far as your other comments. I'm not spoiling for a fight with you. But I do think you are to blame for a lot of bad feelings that could had been easily fixed if it were not for your stubbornness & fatalistic attitude when it comes to other people. I think that has been displayed nicely by you in this thread.

I'll tell you what, I'll work on me & you work on you. It's easier than trying to point out faults in others & mold them to your liking.

So why don't you enjoy your Easter & we'll see what happens & pray for the best for all concerned.
 
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It bothers me only because others have mentioned that it bothered them, some enough so that they left. There are only a dozen or so regular posters, plus the two or three trolls who keep getting banned and coming back with new names (Hi AS!). I figure for united should seriously consider the criticism they're given. Michie will do what Michie will do, she has demonstrated over the years that she is incapable of change. She is AMDG, she is WA, she is Fantine, she is TLF. She has become a charicature of herself. This is the 5th or 6th time she's pretended to ask for suggestions and criticism, only to react with deflections and state her intent to continue as she always has. It's the same discussion, every year....only with less people here to observe it as the years go on. I rely don't care, but I'd like to see a place for seekers or new Catholics to come without having to sift through garbage from so-and-so's blog or Lifesite, CNA, CA, etc. There are a handful of posters here who seemingly exist only to correct false statements and poor logic that others spam the board with, and that shouldn't be. To be honest, it's embarrassing.

As far as your question as to whether nefarious stuff is still going on behind the scenes, I don't know. Michie's spam seems random as best I can tell, and more often than not I don't think she reads the articles she links to. On the other hand, she hinted that there are back door shenanigans going on, so I hope she'll bring that into the light. I don't know of or suspect any conspiracies.

wait, whoa, hold up... she's who? Is she really all those sock posters or do you mean they are just the same tired posters we always had here?

But when you put it like that, I can see your point. So we want to attract new people who aren't the same old, same old. I was wondering with all these new posters if its just someone recycling him or herself.
 
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Unless one of y'all want to catch me up to speed. I don't know whats this really about.

I'm really not up for rehashing the whole thing again. Read the first page or two of this thread. That should cover it...
 
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Ya know, this thread is like a train accident. Ya want leave it snd not read it but it pulls you back here. And then what? Really - stuff.

I don't think anyone should be asked, compelled, dictated to bout how many threads they post. Now what and all ya all mesage one another about should stay private. I don't really wanna know if Judy, Bob or Tim (made up names) said whatever about whoever. There is no need to bring it public. If ya wanna keep fighten - fine- do so in private. Why on earth bring it here so I can think bad about so an so? Insane - but this thread keeps draggen me back to see what happens next. And to my shame, on Easter. Mea culpa.
 
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Unless one of y'all want to catch me up to speed. I don't know whats this really about.
Bene, it stated with the thread I linked you to. Simple as that. I seized the opportunity. Nothing more as far as I know.
 
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S. ilvo, I did and I'm trying to figure out if anything new has been discoverd about our usual cast of characters or is this the same old stuff we been arguing over?
Same old stuff Bene.
 
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That Americans are hogging the forum?
Yeah, it's been said before. Then of course it turns into a Michie thread as it always does when there is a OBOB complaint so I took the opportunity to try to correct things that have been needing corrected for so long.
 
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I just want to know what Mike means by this... surly you are not these people.
I'm the bad things he perceives in all those people I guess. All wrapped up into one.
 
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