So I

[dabro]

think I have found the one. I have waited twelve yrs on selfish desires. Thinking I need to look perfect and so does she so I can be happy. My last relationship before Kali I was dating a very good looking woman. She drilled it into my head when she broke up with me that I either have to have some pone equal to her or higher.

This left me very shallow and with high expectations. Then I started to gain weight and said I'll never find what I'm looking for so I shrugged off dating and said it's not for me. I can say the desire died within me.

Then I gave a chance to someone who is attractive and sincere. I stuck out the moments I thought I was going to say it's not enough to come to compassion for someone who has been through a lot of the same things I have. I've grown to care about this person. I'm not modest about it either.

Is this what true love feels like? To look on the inner being of a person and not the outside even tho there is something attractive there. I mean I want to be all God set me out to be. I also never wanted a unequal relationship and she's a Christian.

So I'm going with what the Lord has told me and say this is a good thing that is happening.

 

[PropheticTimes]

Is this what true love feels like? To look on the inner being of a person and not the outside even tho there is something attractive there.

I met someone under similar circumstances and I have to say it is a very different feeling than a "crush"or "puppy love". It is rooted in depth, in the heart, in the soul. It is a slow burn instead of woosh of fire. It feels good. Is that what true love is? I think so. We will all age and gravity will take over and we will lose our looks, but the heart will always be.

 

[dabro]

THX> it is slow but slow wins the race. No more shallowness.