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Yeah is that KELLY KELLY????? Barbie Blank? From the WWE?Thank you for the compliment. Its a fun look.
Looks like her!
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Yeah is that KELLY KELLY????? Barbie Blank? From the WWE?Thank you for the compliment. Its a fun look.
Yeah true.For example, while she acknowledged her lack of readiness, she was open to your attention and show of affection. Her receptiveness shows her heart isn’t closed. She just needs time.
Yeah is that KELLY KELLY????? Barbie Blank? From the WWE?
Looks like her!
it looks like her! Maybe it might not be her (all these model look a like after a while).J Daniel,
I’m not sure. Her hair reminds me of Bridget Bardot. I’m in the mood for old world beauty. A look that’s overtly feminine and glamorous.
~Bella
You know I asked her last week if she wanted to go to Paris with me (some point in next few months near x-mas) Eurostar and she was like YEAH OF COURSE WHY NOT!
Well anyway I appreciate your advice - I am just going to take it easy and see where things go! Simple as that.
But I do like her - I can't lie.
Really adorable (only 5ft1) gorgeous hands! (why I love holding them so much lol) but I agree with u maybe I shud leave off holding her hands etc etc but it is all mutual!
Cos Bella I am sure if there was a man that likes you (and you liked him too but you was not ready for RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM) but he was holding ya hands and hugging you from behind etc etc I am sure you would still like it regardless of if you are ready or not for RELATIONSHIP cos it is affection!
I think for now - continue our messages on WhatsApp - seeing how she is doing etc.
Oh yeah I remember you have a love for France!I can’t help smiling at the mention of Paris. I’m very biased.
hehe well if you like her then that tells me I am on the right track haha yeah plus I need to venture more in main land Europe and I know in our church group she says how she wants to go around etc. When we get closer to time I will ask her for the date so it can all be booked etc etc etc.No sensible creature would say no! I like her already. You have good taste. That’s a lovely suggestion.
Well she knows I like her tooThat’s fine. At least you admit it.
Yeah it will be hard for me not to hold her hands when out again with her (when ever that will be) lol but I will do my best??? looooooooooooooooooooolA little denial never hurts. You’ll treasure them when you resume the practice.
lol well everybody must have control lol for me it is just that closeness.If I desired him and his passion made him bold and intense we might have a problem.
BTW what do you suggest as a 3rd date venue? I was thinking of taking her to an amusement park - too childish? (but I could win her a big fat teddy bear: HEROIC! ) Or somewhere in the heart of London i dunno.The hard part is done. Relax and see where it leads. Have fun!
I know in our church group she says how she wants to go around etc.
OF COURSE I LIKE YOU WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THAT
Yeah it will be hard for me not to hold her hands when out again with her (when ever that will be) lol but I will do my best???
Bella I just want her to know inside *HE ALWAYS GIVES ME 100% AFFECTION* ya know?
Cos no woman would want to be with a man that doesn't show ''love''
Really feminine and traditional in her ways! Even from her upbringing it is evident.
BTW what do you suggest as a 3rd date venue? I was thinking of taking her to an amusement park - too childish? (but I could win her a big fat teddy bear: HEROIC! ) Or somewhere in the heart of London i dunno.
But because I want to ask her about prayer life (more things) maybe take her to her fav restaurant is best.
Whatever it is - I will ask her if she wants to go in 2-3 weeks time.
Yes yes you would love it! You must visit first!France and the UK have always held a special place within my heart. I think I’ll understand the reason when I’m living there. I suspect the culture and sensibilities are part of it.
Oooooooo ya used the term *couple* for us but yeah I agree defo has a feel good factor!Getting away often has a positive effect on a couple.
I hope she isn't going anywhere haha but yeah I get ya! I mean she character is good - but as one user did say earlier just cos she says to me she is not ready for a relationship could EASILY mean her saying she is just not wanting a relationship with ME: very true! Cos I have learnt from the past that people can say one thing but do something very different!She’s invested and isn’t going anywhere.
Understood!You’ll earn her esteem for your ability to wait and give her time to heal. She won’t forget and will make it up in spades.
Nobody does anything to my degreeHe was demonstrative but not to the degree you’ve shared
Agreed!!!!When you’re accustomed to frequent expressions of love and care, its absence can be difficult to handle.
Yeah exactly!I’m happy to hear that. Those are the qualities you want in a wife and mother.
ooooooooooooo (I will check ya Divas link after) but I think another idea (won't be next) but take her to a live theatre performance (stage performance) THAT WOULD BE GREAT! Very classy! Then get us a taxi home! AWESOME!Not at all. Every moment needn’t be serious. That sounds fun. You’ll relax and have a blast. Mix it up. When in doubt, Dating Divas has great ideas.
Well she was raised in Orthodox christian church from her parents - but she said after her problems with her past 'boyfriend' she needed God etc etc etc.Ask her how she came to faith. Start there and let the discussion grow organically. Share your story too. You’ll learn more by letting her talk than asking lots of questions.
Why weren't you watching a movie about Cyclops?
But seriously, you should had make a joke when she said "We haven't met that long" like "Well, 30 minutes waiting in line is long enough for me" or "We are having a Disney romance", yadda yadda.
Also don't get into an illusion with a single woman, otherwise you might become needy. Keep having dates with her and with others.
Keep in mind that "I am not ready for a relationship" might mean she is not interested in a relationship with you, I have seen how girls said that yet they get into a relationship in a couple of weeks.
but as one user did say earlier just cos she says to me she is not ready for a relationship could EASILY mean her saying she is just not wanting a relationship with ME: very true! Cos I have learnt from the past that people can say one thing but do something very different!
cos when we prayed i didn't do that and she was asking after if I was okay? Maybe she felt it was a sign I was not feeling her - though she knows I do! (cause going through a thing atm she knows about so it made sense to her all).
but I think another idea (won't be next) but take her to a live theatre performance (stage performance) THAT WOULD BE GREAT! Very classy! Then get us a taxi home! AWESOME!
Well she was raised in Orthodox christian church from her parents
I did say to her I wanted to find out more about her how she came to be the lady she is today!
Like I said SHE was the one that broke all your rules of what not to talk about on a first date
I will message her later today to propose idea of going to amusement park in 3 weeks time!
Yes hence why people love working abroad to experience that part of the world defo a good idea!Spending a lengthy period in a place brings a different perspective. The benefit of attending school across the pond is the opportunity of experiencing the culture and living like a local.
Yes true true - I just remain *cautiously optimistic*That is true for everyone. But until she gives you a reason to suspect she isn’t telling the truth, don’t introduce the notion in your head. Stay positive and grounded.
Indeed!Being unified in your focus at church will give you strength to face the challenges the week presents. Liken it to a weekly tune up.
Yeah well she gets a lot of reassurances lol especially before -during and after the film - hand holding #awwwwwwwwwwwwReassure her in other ways so you don’t feel convicted.
HAHAHAA I LOVE THAT EMOJI RESPONSE HAHAHAHA SUPER CUTE! Yes yes yes beautiful idea! I think it is classy! Musical/stage performance something like that: beautiful! (I have good taste ya know!!!!)That’s an excellent idea! You knew I’d like it.
Yes defo which is why at the same time it is wise to not RUSH things - cos ultimately if it is meant to be it will be ya know? So yeah!That explains her traditional values. It isn’t easy to find men and women who have those convictions. Take your time and encourage her stories. Since you’re family oriented, it’s ideal to meet someone with a similar mindset. A close knit family is a blessing.
I am gonna look at it an get back to you!!!!Good idea. I shared a resource you may want to look over. It gives you something to go on. No one will demonstrate each perfectly. But you’d like to see a few.
You can't make an omelette without cracking a few eggs!I’m breaking a rule as we speak. Disrupting my comfort zone is good every now and then.
Not trying to be funny (I read them all 30) I think she defo ticks all 30 boxes!Good idea. I shared a resource you may want to look over. It gives you something to go on. No one will demonstrate each perfectly. But you’d like to see a few.
Yeah though as a MAN when a MAN says she needs to work on himself it is more to do with setting up his kingdom ready! Women well meh I dunno I am not a woman lol but I am very aware about when you are given the run around! Cos if she likes you you know about it!Yep, had a woman tell me, "I need to work on myself now" some BS about working out, getting in shape, loosing some weight.
ooooooooooooo yes! yeah gotta read between the lines for sure for sure!A couple weeks later, I saw her on Match... then on Facebook with a new boyfriend and a baby in the oven. Probably unplanned since she already had 2 kids from previous marriage.
All within the course of a year.
I think it is classy! Musical/stage performance something like that: beautiful! (I have good taste ya know!!!!)
Yes defo which is why at the same time it is wise to not RUSH things - cos ultimately if it is meant to be it will be ya know? So yeah!
Especially:
Gracious - moral excellence - Honest - self-aware - gift giver (she has a big heart) - wise words (she is very against gossiping one thing she said she finds hard about this country) - Class and dignity on social media (yes she asked me if i had IG once I said NO and she was like GOOD COS SO MANY PEOPLE HAVE IT) -
Look cut to quick she is all in the list again her upbringing defo plays massive role!
She told me things she likes about me she said how I am
Which is cool - now where these characteristic falls in the men's categories you wrote I need to see LOL but yeah haha
hehe well cautious optimism is my way of not being disappointed if things don't go how I would like!Cautious optimism is a clever way of saying you’re not sure or don’t believe. But faith says otherwise. It acknowledges the inevitable when the present’s uncertain.
Miss Bella you have good things that happen for you! great character!Lo and behold, that person is in my sewing class. Out of the millions in our city, we met unexpectedly. My promotion to the advanced group is the reason it occurred.
If God can weave our paths together for His purpose. It won’t be difficult to do the same with a man. That’s how I see it.
OHHHH yes art galleries that is another idea!! Museums too of course!!I love the theater and opera. I enjoy live performances, dance, art galleries, museums, etc. Living in a cultural mecca is nice. You can feed your mind wholesome things.
Yes, you have nice taste. I hope to meet someone who enjoys the same.
Amen! Let's hope so!She will make you a better man by her presence and encourage you to stretch yourself on her behalf.
You are both reflections of each other! So very important for both parties to represent themselves well.Her behavior has an important bearing on your reputation.
True - divine intervention for some!We can educate ourselves and learn the art of ladyship and godly submission.
Yeah ego gets you nowhere after a while!Flattery feeds the ego, not the spirit.
Ye just take everything a day at a time!It sounds like you’ve met a special lady. I would fill my mind with positive things that reinforce the good you’re stepping into.
Amen!Its a new day. Its time for a new song. Leave the past behind.
Faith is beautiful - she actually speaks about her journey of faith etc etc we both agree it is hard at times.
Miss Bella you have good things that happen for you! great character!
OHHHH yes art galleries that is another idea!! Museums too of course!!
Well Bella you have your pick of men to choose from so easily will get the man that is into ya things too no doubt.
One thing I must say I love when I explain certain passages of scripture it is nice - good connection!