can anyone give me any tips on good smoochin? and how to be a good smoocher? ive never smooched so.... ya know.... 
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wow, one reply and counting.
thanx by the way.
now all i gotta do is find a friend who will let me practice on her.
thanx by the way.
now all i gotta do is find a friend who will let me practice on her.
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Eat plenty of garlic and onions, be sure to have oozing cold sores and you won't need to worry about it
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But You Guys Im Serious! I Really Need Help With The Ladies! I Know If Im A Really Good Smoocher One Will Finally Go Out With Me!
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Are you really being serious? The kind of girl who wants to go out with you just because you're a good kisser is the kind of girl you want to keep clear of IMHO.Endure2 said:
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What a double standard. A man is appealing to ladies because word gets 'round that he has "mad skills". If a woman has that sort of reputation preceding her, she is labeled a harlot. Endure, you don't have to go around making out with everyone hoping that you'll find "the one" if enough girls spread the word you're a good kisser. Here are two scenarios:
Scenario 1: A sister in Christ approaches me at church and says, "see that guy over there? Woooooweeee he and I made out last month and let me tell you...he is tha bomb!"
Scenario 2: A sister in Christ approaches me at church and says, "see that guy over there? When my mother was in the hospital with cancer, he came to the hospital to pray with my family."
Now, let's say I had to pick one of those two men to be my partner for life. I would hands down, no questions asked go with guy #2. Why? Because I want a man who has a reputation for being godly and then even if he wasn't "experienced" I would at least know we could learn together about those sort of things, but I would at least have the assurance that I could look to him as a spiritual leader in our home.
Scenario 1: A sister in Christ approaches me at church and says, "see that guy over there? Woooooweeee he and I made out last month and let me tell you...he is tha bomb!"
Scenario 2: A sister in Christ approaches me at church and says, "see that guy over there? When my mother was in the hospital with cancer, he came to the hospital to pray with my family."
Now, let's say I had to pick one of those two men to be my partner for life. I would hands down, no questions asked go with guy #2. Why? Because I want a man who has a reputation for being godly and then even if he wasn't "experienced" I would at least know we could learn together about those sort of things, but I would at least have the assurance that I could look to him as a spiritual leader in our home.
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Spicy McHaggis
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Try refraining from over use of the caps button for a start. I'm about to have a seizure from my eyes bouncing up and down trying to read this.Endure2 said:
Kissing isn't as important as you're thinking. It's not hard. First thing you want to do is find a girl worth kissing, and no doubt if she's worth it she'll be the kind of girl that won't judge you for your lack of experience. Then just do it and you'll figure it out as you go.
It's not rocket surgery.
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or thisSam the Record Man said:close your eyes, stick out your tongue and do this
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I actually agree with TripTych. I always felt it was more romantic and chivalrous when a man asked my permission before kissing me. When a guy just "goes for the gold", it's awkward.
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Cool, you guys should hook up then. (j/k)
like I said though, just my opinion but I wouldn't want to stop mid moment to get a status report.
Of course, I'm not afraid of failing or looking stupid, so I fall into the "go for it" frame of mind when answering just about any question.
Usually I just sock'em in the jaw and yell "Pop goes the weasle". (also j/k)
like I said though, just my opinion but I wouldn't want to stop mid moment to get a status report.
Of course, I'm not afraid of failing or looking stupid, so I fall into the "go for it" frame of mind when answering just about any question.
Usually I just sock'em in the jaw and yell "Pop goes the weasle". (also j/k)
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fluffy_rainbow
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*blushes* I'm just gonne leave that one alone.
You may have the right idea. Today my sister tried to hug her boyfriend and apparently his arm caught her in the face. Of course, she's walking around telling everyone (in jest, of course) that her boyfriend punched her in the face before hugging her. She seemed to like it.
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From my point of view, the experience the guy has as a kisser isn't anywhere near my list of what I look for in a guy! Any girl that dates guys based on their performance is really shallow and isn't looking for anything more than action.
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FaithfulServant
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I agree with iklepac13, most girls I know wouldn't want a guy to tell her the "play by play" before proceeding. However, if she is obviously not responding , then don't passionately kiss her.
As to the other things you said - I would MUCH rather date a guy who didn't know how to kiss than one who was Mr. experienced. In fact if a girl found out you didn't have your old dance card full of past ladies, she would probably feel a lot less pressure to "measure up" to how they had kissed.
I'm just blabbering on now.....:o
, then don't passionately kiss her.As to the other things you said - I would MUCH rather date a guy who didn't know how to kiss than one who was Mr. experienced. In fact if a girl found out you didn't have your old dance card full of past ladies, she would probably feel a lot less pressure to "measure up" to how they had kissed.
I'm just blabbering on now.....:o
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