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Sleeping together, quite literally

NoodlesNoodlesNoodles

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Is it wrong to have a sleepover with your boyfriend, if the two of you fall asleep to a movie while sharing a blanket on the couch instead of a bed and the only pajamas involved are t-shirts and windpants? There's nothing sexual at all, its just that we don't get to see each other every day and we have a hard time saying good-bye at the end of the night.
If only you could see into the mind of men, you would think very differently about that situation.


You would probably also be tempted towards either joining a convent or becoming a lesbian.
 
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PASTOR'S WIFE

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...I think its a movie and if your that convicted about it then sit at opposite ends of the couch.

Anyway, i have a different view on the whole situation and live with my boyfriend so I see nothing wrong with it.

You see nothing wrong with it? May I ask you what does the BIBLE say about it?

B BASIC
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B BEFORE
L LEAVING
E EARTH
 
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PixieSunbelle

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You see nothing wrong with it? May I ask you what does the BIBLE say about it?

B BASIC
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E EARTH
Then you would have more than just that problem with my relationship...
However, I know he is the one I want to spend my life with. I don't know when or if we'll actually marry, but we will spend our life together. We aren't financially well off to get married- or at least at this point... and we live with his parents- mostly for financial reasons...
 
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