I have to agree with what most of these people had to say:
1.) The shape and formation of your abs are all genetics or your body type.
2.) Get lots of rest. Change is around the corner if you sleep alot. Aim for 8-10 hours of sleep a day. Trust me, sleep really does work and you feel much better and more energized the next day.
3.) Exercise. Cross country is awesome cardio. Don't skip cardio. Cardio is exercise for your heart. Your heart's a muscle and shouldn't be overlooked like all weightlifters with legs.
Andrew
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Yes, good post, we need a balanced strength program, great healthy eating plan and CARDIO! Then we will have a strong core. I only have a 2 pack, and I have a strong core, do lots of cardio and strength and yoga too, and yet no 6 pack

Such is the reality of a normal and healthy female body that is 41! I am in a great BMI, and my BF% is healthy.
God Bless,J