sinking into depression....

[kathrynsa]

I kinda get into depression too very easily.....no matter how much I try praying to God, still that feeling just sinks into me very easily. Especially now, my job is not going so well and it's been so frustrating to find a new job...
Also, being a internationl in the US, it's been pretty hard staying by myself away from family....and it does get very lonely sometimes. I'm pretty conservative too in a way (at least that's what my friends think)....so it's getting hard to make new friends here.
I would really like all your prayers in keeping me from going into depression with all these thoughts.....

 

[goldenviolet]

sweetheart, such a big burden. no wonder you feel blue right now. what can help you manage your moods and missing your family/friends etc.? do you have a church family to call on? do you have hobbies to soothe you? how about here, the recreation room. somewhere to hang out. do you like the library? feeding the ducks or squirrels? what will help you until you are in the place you'd like to be? welcome to CF! glad you found us! glad i found you!

blessings and prayers to you! love dee

 

[Silver-winged Flyer]

What country are you originally from? Have you found a church that you enjoy going to and tried to meet people your age? I can imagine how difficult it is to make friends because I'm not outgoing at all and I'd have the same problem.
What interests do you have? Maybe you could find people that have similar interests by joining a club or something, at least you'd have a common interest and its easier to start a conversation when you have something in common.
God's watching over you and just trust Him to help you.
Please let us know how you're doing.
Praying for you,
T.

 

[CFpetRESCUER9]

I'll be praying for you. Depression is a chemical balance and sometimes it just isn't as easy as praying and it goes away. Talking to a therapist or a parent can really help you in your situation. I have been through it, hang in there. If you ever need to talk, just pm me. Lily00

 

[kathrynsa]

Hi,
thank you all for reaching out....appreciate it. I'm originally from India....I do go to a church here...but somehow maybe coz of cultural differences or I am not sure....it's just hard for me to get so close to someone here. I do hang out with my singles group ministry friends...but still I just don't feel that close that I can share all my feelings with them. And also as one of you were saying, I'm not outgoing either, so maybe that makes it much harder, and I'm kinda shy to really just speak out to anyone my feelings. I'm also not someone who can just call a friend and say 'u wann hang out' or somethg like that...I just hesitate thinking they might be busy or maybe I'm just not so interesting to be around coz of my being quiet and conservative....
Recreation...hmm....thought of it...trying to join a tennis class...let's see how that goes. Thank you for your prayers. I really need it during these trying times
Please also feel free to advice me on anything...I would surely like to hear from you all....and PM me
ttyl....

 

[Pasat_14]

I know the feeling. Before I became Christian I was in a large, severe depression. I tried to kill myself and everything else in between. But God pulled me out of that. I can't say I'm over it, probably far from it but God can do amazing things. So when you pray, remember to believe what you pray. If you don't believe God can do something to help you, He won't do anything. Keep praying, and don't give up, because there is a reason behind test you endure.
I will be praying for you!.

 

[trinitygrace]

kathrynsa,

I think that joining the tennis class would be great for you! You say you are originally from India, are you over here for school? If you are in school there are so many clubs you can join, on-campus counselors you can talk to, all free. I understsand how it feels to be shy and reserved. It's harder to make friends that way, but I will pray and have faith that you will be able to combat this lonliness from being a way from home in a new country. You are very strong and I admire your courage for leaving home to live in a whole other continent halfway around the world! I suffer from depresion also, and I go to a Christian therapist. What he told me, I'll never forget. He said "No matter where you go, no matter how far from home, God has people there waiting for you who will care for you and love you for who you are." So really the whole world is our extended family. We are all brothers and sisters in Christ. Please feel free to pm me anytime if you ever want to talk or need prayer! Love, Trinity

 

[bfly]

Kathrynsa, Depression is a medical illness. I would suggest you see a family doctor. They can treat you and when you get the right meds, you see the world through a completely different set of eyes.

Father, I pray your child will get the help she needs. I ask you to give her confidence in herself and give her strength to fight this depression. I pray you will be renewed and meet many good friends. In Jesus name, I pray. amen

 

[praying_hoping]

Hi Kathryn-I am praying for you right now. I understand what depression feels like and the lonely/empty and sad feelings that they bring are overwhelming. If you need a friend to talk to you can write me here or PM me anytime. I am going through much misery in my life right now due to circumstances that have occured since past September, leading up to the news that my job is being cut as of June 1st. These circumstances over the last 9 months have led me into another bought of clinical depression. But I'm never going to give up on God-even though alot of times I've wanted to give up on me. Blessings to you, Lori