Singles Flirting Thread (4)

[HolyOne87]

yikes..i could never do that

 

[BoarderDave]

Yeah.. it's been rough. But I started it in Jan 2005, and I will be done this December. I can't wait to finally have my nights back for myself! It will be sooo awesome.

 

[eugeneandbobo]

morning cats

 

[BoarderDave]

Hey man..

I left ya a nice list to read in your music thread.

 

[eugeneandbobo]

thanks, i'll go check it out...

 

[HolyOne87]

morning cats

morning! How are you today?

 

[Luther073082]

Sex Before Marriage..i have to give why people choose to have sex before marriage and why people wait until after they are married.

I got the why people wait down well, lol..now its just the other side I got to worry about. haha

This is a struggle for me and recently I've began to question if I want to continue to remain celibate til marriage. A lot of it has to do with social pressure but there is more to it.

At this point its difficult for me to feel like it is worth it. Even on CF you can find like 5 people over the age of 20 who are virgins. The rest can't relate but "admire" us. Its not easy to feel like it is worth it when all the odds say that your spouse will not have waited.

But I think the biggest thing for me is that I've become acutly aware that I may not live to see tomorrow. I'm not afraid of death but I really really don't want to die a virgin as shallow and stupid as that sounds.

If you are doing a debate I'm not sure what arguments other people will use but these are the arguments and difficulties I have within myself.

 

[eugeneandbobo]

morning! How are you today?

im fine thanks, and you?

 

[Laurie919]

This is a struggle for me and recently I've began to question if I want to continue to remain celibate til marriage. A lot of it has to do with social pressure but there is more to it.

At this point its difficult for me to feel like it is worth it. Even on CF you can find like 5 people over the age of 20 who are virgins. The rest can't relate but "admire" us. Its not easy to feel like it is worth it when all the odds say that your spouse will not have waited.

But I think the biggest thing for me is that I've become acutly aware that I may not live to see tomorrow. I'm not afraid of death but I really really don't want to die a virgin as shallow and stupid as that sounds.

If you are doing a debate I'm not sure what arguments other people will use but these are the arguments and difficulties I have within myself.

I think this is very difficult for everyone.

 

[Laurie919]

How is everyone today?

 

[Laurie919]

It is Friday, thank goodness.

 

[Laurie919]

We were supposed to boil crawfish tonight, but now I am not sure what we are doing.

 

[BoarderDave]

Hey Laurie,

Im doing well.. I am in dire need of chocolate though. Im considering going down to the little employee store here and grabbin a Snickers and something to drink.

 

[eugeneandbobo]

Hey man..

I left ya a nice list to read in your music thread.

you definitely failed to mention the length and awesomeness of that list...

 

[BoarderDave]

haha, I didn't want to give it away. I figured I'd let ya get there and for yourself.

 

[eugeneandbobo]

haha, I didn't want to give it away. I figured I'd let ya get there and for yourself.

i did...i was scrolling through the posts on the current page...little posts...little posts...


that pretty much sums up my reaction

 

[BoarderDave]

Nice. Yeah, I was sitting here typing the stuff out and then Im like.. wow I have a lot and then noticed I was only HALF through the list on the iPod, and almost bailed on the idea.. Then I said, "No way.. this list will be AWESOME once it's done." And sure enough.. it turned out nice. hehe.

 

[eugeneandbobo]

yeah, i definitely turned out nice...great idea

 

[Luther073082]

has it ever occured to anyone to turn the flirting thread into a chat room. It would be easier and thats pretty much what its become anyways.

 

[HolyOne87]

^never thought of that. hmm..