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BoarderDave

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Because emotions over-run.., the couple could be completely in the mindset that they are positive they will be getting married, so why not enjoy the benefits now?.. They believe marriage is only a legal formality and not really any special spiritual event..

There are many reasons people do that. None of them are truly reasonable, but in their current mindset, the couple may believe thats enough justification.

Oh, also; pressure from others that ARE having sex.. people want to follow the crowd and have "sex stories" to share with their buddies so they can feel included too.
 
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Thanks. Just trying to help ya out.. :thumbsup:

In my "Critical Thinking" class I just had a month or two ago I had to write a paper and present about "Should couples have children before marriage or after?" Kind of along the lines.. slightly different.. but yeah. I mostly spoke about them waiting to have children after the marriage.. since that was my stance.
 
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