Singles Flirting Thread (4)

[Idahofroggie]

Speaking of which I'm going to be a brides maid. The bride never had a bachlorette party though.

That's not always a bad thing. I'm throwing a bachelorette party next weekend. Sometimes they really aren't that big of a deal. And sometimes you just wish you stayed home.

 

[Luther073082]

bridal shower/bachlorette game.

I won, I had the best dress!

I don't think I will ever understand women completly to understand the games they play or why they play them. . . And I don't really care to. . .

I just want to understand them well enough to make one fall in love with me.

Then I can just be like "Go then and do your woman stuff that I don't get. But as long as it doesn't affect me or our marriage, I don't have to understand!"

That's not always a bad thing. I'm throwing a bachelorette party next weekend. Sometimes they really aren't that big of a deal. And sometimes you just wish you stayed home.

What I don't understand is the way a lot of guys do with their bathelor parties. I mean I havn't been to one but its almost like they all involve getting wasted. And often they bring in strippers or something stupid like that. This isn't preparing a guy for marriage. So I guess I don't understand men then. . . or maybe I do understand men and just think 3/4 are stupid.

 

[Idahofroggie]

I don't think I will ever understand women completly to understand the games they play or why they play them. . . And I don't really care to. . .

I just want to understand them well enough to make one fall in love with me.

Then I can just be like "Go then and do your woman stuff that I don't get. But as long as it doesn't affect me or our marriage, I don't have to understand!"

Now THAT is how you get a woman to fall in love with you

 

[Idahofroggie]

okay, where are all my homies at?

Oh dear goodness I feel 15 all over again

 

[LadyOfMystery]

okay, where are all my homies at?

Oh dear goodness I feel 15 all over again

*looks around* I'm here. Lol..

 

[Luther073082]

okay, where are all my homies at?

Oh dear goodness I feel 15 all over again

I want to feel 21 all over again. . .

Actually I am still in fact 21, I've just had 4 different twenty first birthdays. . . And in about 2 months I will have my 5th-twenty first birthday.

 

[Idahofroggie]

*sigh* in two months I will have my 3 year countdown to 30... I'm actually excited though

 

[Luther073082]

*sigh* in two months I will have my 3 year countdown to 30... I'm actually excited though

sniff I'm gonna be a quarter of a century old. . .

About a third of my lifespan is gone already. . . :-(

 

[Braticus]

sniff I'm gonna be a quarter of a century old. . .

About a third of my lifespan is gone already. . . :-(

Tell me about it! I just went through that on the 10th of this month. I suddenly realise that I'm not young anymore...I'm actually getting old! But it's ok Luther, we can be old together!

 

[sweetlambofgod]

Speaking of which I'm going to be a brides maid. The bride never had a bachlorette party though.

you should throw her one, there tons of fun!

 

[Luther073082]

Tell me about it! I just went through that on the 10th of this month. I suddenly realise that I'm not young anymore...I'm actually getting old! But it's ok Luther, we can be old together!

And still single too. . . sigh.

Its ok though, I can still vienesse waltz for over 4 minutes.

(BTW if you don't know how tiring a Vienesse Waltz is, try running up hill.)

 

[sweetlambofgod]

I don't think I will ever understand women completly to understand the games they play or why they play them. . . And I don't really care to. . .

I just want to understand them well enough to make one fall in love with me.

Then I can just be like "Go then and do your woman stuff that I don't get. But as long as it doesn't affect me or our marriage, I don't have to understand!"

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What I don't understand is the way a lot of guys do with their bathelor parties. I mean I havn't been to one but its almost like they all involve getting wasted. And often they bring in strippers or something stupid like that. This isn't preparing a guy for marriage. So I guess I don't understand men then. . . or maybe I do understand men and just think 3/4 are stupid.

not all bachlor/bachlorette parties involve strippers and getting drunk you know

 

[Luther073082]

not all bachlor/bachlorette parties involve strippers and getting drunk you know

Yeah I know, I guess you just hear about the ones that do.

I'm not sure that I will want one IF I ever get married. I'm always afraid of the results of getting too many guys together in one room.

If I did have one the only guys that I would invite would be strong Christian guys.

 

[sweetlambofgod]

Yeah I know, I guess you just hear about the ones that do.

I'm not sure that I will want one IF I ever get married. I'm always afraid of the results of getting too many guys together in one room.

If I did have one the only guys that I would invite would be strong Christian guys.

ya thats a good idea. I've only been to one and she is a strong christian so I wasn't worried. If it was gunna be racy, I prob would not attend.

 

[Luther073082]

ya thats a good idea. I've only been to one and she is a strong christian so I wasn't worried. If it was gunna be racy, I prob would not attend.

Just say, 5 guys hanging out together and unless I know them real well or you stipulate that they are strong christians. I want nothing to do with it. I know from experience how these sorts of things end up. If you don't know its typically stories of either what they did the last time they where wasted or stories of all the sexual encounters they had in the past month. And I just don't have stories to contribute to the conversation, not that I would want to anyways. This usually involves much cussing and heavy use of slang terminology.

Either that or they just get wasted.

 

[sweetlambofgod]

Just say, 5 guys hanging out together and unless I know them real well or you stipulate that they are strong christians. I want nothing to do with it. I know from experience how these sorts of things end up. If you don't know its typically stories of either what they did the last time they where wasted or stories of all the sexual encounters they had in the past month. And I just don't have stories to contribute to the conversation, not that I would want to anyways. This usually involves much cussing and heavy use of slang terminology.

Either that or they just get wasted.

ya that would be lame.

 

[Keri]

I wish I was 20 again. I loved that age. Not a teen anymore, not a full adult. Sure I could smoke and buy lottery tickets if I wanted, but I couldn't drink or gamble at a casino.

Now that I'm 22 I still haven't gotten around to gambling. I like to waste my hard earned money on shopping thank you! Yeah right. I haven't gone shopping in forever.

 

[Luther073082]

I wish I was 20 again. I loved that age. Not a teen anymore, not a full adult. Sure I could smoke and buy lottery tickets if I wanted, but I couldn't drink or gamble at a casino.

Now that I'm 22 I still haven't gotten around to gambling. I like to waste my hard earned money on shopping thank you! Yeah right. I haven't gone shopping in forever.

I took some courses which we worked out gambling. I'm a finance major and you can't win over the long term gambling in a casino unless you cheat.

Besides remember that your money is also the Lord's money that he has given you to manage. This is why I swore off gambling two years ago. I won't even play my dad and my brother on pool where each ball is worth 25 cents. Its not the amount its the point of the thing.

But thats up to your own interpretation of the bible, I'm just telling you mine and imploring you not to gamble.

Oh and if you are smoking I implore you to stop that as well.

 

[Keri]

You're cute.

I have no interest in gambling. I don't have a problem with people who do gamble. It's their own choice. And I don't have a problem with people who do not believe in gambling. I just used gambling as an example of what you're "allowed" to do when you turn 21.

And I don't smoke. I've never touched a cigarette and I have no intention in ever starting in the next 100 years. That was just another example of something you're "allowed" to do when you turn 18.

But like I said, you're cute. I do appreciate your concern.

 

[AirForceTeacher]

okay, where are all my homies at?

Oh dear goodness I feel 15 all over again

Here's one!