Singles Fellowship Thread

[Blessed-one]

who knows, sometimes when we rush in, we may end up sticking our heads in the barrel.

Maybe we shouldn't be as concerned about it, it'll come when it comes, if not, then there's nothing to be done about it.

*give thrive a hug*

i know a girl from church who's about your age, she's told me the feeling she has too for being a single. She has faith in God, so right now.. she's put all her energy into church ministry. um..... if you didn't think about it, then it wouldn't be that big a problem. (well, that's how i look at things anyway).

 

[thrive]

*hugs blessed-one right back*

if you didn't think about it, then it wouldn't be that big a problem

That's just it, I don't think about it that much. But when it's brought up, or I do happen to think about it, it raises all these questions. I'm probably thinking more about my relationship w/ God than any other kind of relationship & I just don't want those thoughts & questions to be things that hinder it. I do agree that focusing on ministry IS a wonderful thing!

 

[Blessed-one]

good on ya. um, what's that saying? giving is better than receiving. To love, is to give. (oh, i'm talking about ministry)
and no doubt God will open opportunties up in terms of ministry, opportunities other than that.

 

[thrive]

yes true!

gracias

 

[bootsierae96]

I have been singe all my 20 years of life. I have some ideas of why this may be, but mostly it's due to my non-personable side.

I am very close with my friends and friends that are woman, but when I comes to guys I just don't feel comfortable. And NO I'm not gay.

I just find it very hard to become close friends with a guy. With all the guys I have known that I've found myself attracted to I end up doing something that will terminate the relationship.

The closeness scares me I guess.

I also get stupid around guys. That's my biggest weakness, at this point in time. I am a confident, intelligent, and beautiful woman, but when I'm around a guy that I like, I become a moron!!!

You know I get the clinginess, stupid giggles, and unintelligent conversations started.

And, the main issue I have with this is that instead of overcoming this I just avoid relationships with guys, at least the ones that I find attractive.

So annoying.

 

[GuacaMolly]

Wow, I've never met any of you. Yay for bringing people out of the woodwork! I'm Molly, and I just prayed for each of you. Just PM me if you want to talk or if I can pray more specifically for you.

 

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