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I just got out of a relationship with a non-christian

A few days beforehand i felt like god was telling me to end it, but i couldn't do it, even though I felt such a strong feeling that I should
Fast forward 2 days the relationship basically failed without any problems and i cant help but know God had a part in it. Hopefully He replaces her. I don't mind having a gf
 
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I just got out of a relationship with a non-christian

A few days beforehand i felt like god was telling me to end it, but i couldn't do it, even though I felt such a strong feeling that I should
Fast forward 2 days the relationship basically failed without any problems and i cant help but know God had a part in it. Hopefully He replaces her. I don't mind having a gf

Well it sounds like you didn't like her, even before the relationship started. Its like when you go eat something that in your mind you already started hating. Then you eat it, and you hate it.

Just giving a rational explanation ;)
 
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Well it sounds like you didn't like her, even before the relationship started. Its like when you go eat something that in your mind you already started hating. Then you eat it, and you hate it.

Just giving a rational explanation ;)

Well, it doesn't mean that he didn't like her

For my first girlfriend, there was a time in which she started talking to me less and less. So, one day I asked God to do whatever he needed to help me understand why she was talking to me less, or to take me out of the relationship if that's what he wanted. So, 20 minutes later, I got a call and she broke up with me. After that, I had a great sense of peace.. and I wasn't as sad as I thought I'd be.

That doesn't mean I didn't like her.. God just helped me get through it easier, and it sounds like sort of the same thing happened to Jamie
 
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Well, it doesn't mean that he didn't like her

For my first girlfriend, there was a time in which she started talking to me less and less. So, one day I asked God to do whatever he needed to help me understand why she was talking to me less, or to take me out of the relationship if that's what he wanted. So, 20 minutes later, I got a call and she broke up with me. After that, I had a great sense of peace.. and I wasn't as sad as I thought I'd be.

That doesn't mean I didn't like her.. God just helped me get through it easier, and it sounds like sort of the same thing happened to Jamie

Well similar experience happened to me. Well it was weird for me, because I did't feel anything at first. I was pretty surprised that I didn't cry or anything. After 2 weeks, it really set into me. Me and my ex-gf went out for about 6 months. In the last month, she started talking to me less, seemed that she was ignoring me, and then shortly after we broke up. Later I found out that a few 'friends' were convincing her to brake up with me, she had other interests, and I was caught in between her and her best friend fighting. So ya, things happen, but you have to move foward, and leave the past in the past.
 
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Well, it doesn't mean that he didn't like her

For my first girlfriend, there was a time in which she started talking to me less and less. So, one day I asked God to do whatever he needed to help me understand why she was talking to me less, or to take me out of the relationship if that's what he wanted. So, 20 minutes later, I got a call and she broke up with me. After that, I had a great sense of peace.. and I wasn't as sad as I thought I'd be.

That doesn't mean I didn't like her.. God just helped me get through it easier, and it sounds like sort of the same thing happened to Jamie

Yeah this. I love it when you get responses like that from prayer :)
 
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