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Johnnybabe

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Introverted is not the same thing as being a hermit. It just means even when we are surrounded by people we tend to keep to ourselves.

...There is such a thing as exaggeration for the sake of making a point...
 
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Kixa

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Just joining in on this... hello everyone. ;D
Single, and, for now, believing it'll be easier to follow God when I haven't got any relationship problems jumping on my shoulders. So I'm happy to be single. :)

Hello Garin! :wave:
That's good that you're happy to be single; I have friends who are desperate, and friends who are content with being single, and it's usually the ones who aren't looking for a relationship that find the most amazing one! :)
 
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IesuGristAmddiffynwr

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Hello Garin! :wave:
That's good that you're happy to be single; I have friends who are desperate, and friends who are content with being single, and it's usually the ones who aren't looking for a relationship that find the most amazing one! :)

:).

I've dated a lot of non-Christians, and I'll be honest in saying there is nothing to me more attractive than seeing someone completely on fire for God. I'm pretty certain you're right there - the ones you'll go out to find will never be up to your "potential", but if you're not looking and someone comes along, they're perfect because you weren't looking for anything in particular.... does that make sense?
 
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Kixa

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:).

I've dated a lot of non-Christians, and I'll be honest in saying there is nothing to me more attractive than seeing someone completely on fire for God. I'm pretty certain you're right there - the ones you'll go out to find will never be up to your "potential", but if you're not looking and someone comes along, they're perfect because you weren't looking for anything in particular.... does that make sense?

It does make sense indeed! And that's exactly what happened! I thought I'd never get married, until God put this amazing guy in my life, who is extremely on fire for God; the only guy I've ever liked! And when I knew he felt the same way, it was just phenomenal!! We're not together...yet, but be will; he's the only one I could ever spend my life with!! ^_^

ughh im not single and i want to break up with my boyfriend...im just really confused!!

Hmm, why are you together?
 
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Johnnybabe

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Exaggeration isn't good for making points. That's skewing the truth.

Skewing the truth sometimes helps drive in the point with people. Hence, a lot of people use it.
 
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IesuGristAmddiffynwr

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It does make sense indeed! And that's exactly what happened! I thought I'd never get married, until God put this amazing guy in my life, who is extremely on fire for God; the only guy I've ever liked! And when I knew he felt the same way, it was just phenomenal!! We're not together...yet, but be will; he's the only one I could ever spend my life with!! ^_^


Aw :) Well, I'm happy for you! Praying that God will bring you two together for a perfect relationship :pray:
 
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Kixa

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Aw :) Well, I'm happy for you! Praying that God will bring you two together for a perfect relationship :pray:

Well, thank you. ^_^
God certainly works for the good of those who love Him, (Romans 8:28) and whatever His plans are will always be for the best for all His children; and God will definitely work for your good in all the plans He has for your life! :)
 
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MasterpieceMesias

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Money's on the table boys. Money's on the table. lol

You bet bra. :cool:

As am I. But we will get better, I suppose, and no doubt we'll find that one girl God's set aside for us specifically.
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not to sound. . crude, here. . . but do you guys honestly think that God has a 'special' person set aside specifically for you?? I think that is sort of unrealistic and only happens in movies. If you've noticed, many people, Christians included, go through life thinking that there's a one special person for them. They either end up never finding that one or they find someone who they think is the one and they end up divorcing after a while. . . also if you've noticed divorce rates have been climbing up for a while now, Christian and non-Christian marriages. :confused:
 
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