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Is anyone else here feeling very satisified as a single? or are you constantly feeling you need the cure? a relationship!

I tried the dating game again recently only to realize, I'm really satisfied to be who I am with myself right now. I certainly don't want to seek some one else out.
 

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Pats said:
Is anyone else here feeling very satisified as a single? or are you constantly feeling you need the cure? a relationship!

I tried the dating game again recently only to realize, I'm really satisfied to be who I am with myself right now. I certainly don't want to seek some one else out.

You and me are ---->here<----

Not that I'm all "anti-dating" but I've decided to just enjoy where I am right now. :)
 
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BeautyForAshes said:
You and me are ---->here<----

Not that I'm all "anti-dating" but I've decided to just enjoy where I am right now. :)

Right on! ;)

I am not anti-dating, or anti-men, or anti-anthing like it. :)

There was a time about a year after my seperation that I thought I wanted to date and tried a net based dating service.

After talking with a lot of single guys... I've decided to back out of the dating scene for a while. There's a lot of things I want to do for myself as a single person. Maybe God has just blessed me with this satisfaction.

But for once, I'm not miserably single. :clap: I am perfectly happy just raising my kids and being with myself.
 
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Oh, I'm very satisfied being single. Of course, I've been married, so I can more accurately compare the two. Realistically taking into account the pros and cons of each, I'd have to say I'd rather be single.

Looking at things as stereotypes, or fantasies, I'd much rather be married!! :D
 
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