I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this, especially at a time that should be filled with joyful anticipation. Even if your husband is telling the truth -where is he concern and compassion? He should be earnestly confirming his love and fidelity - not treating you so callously. Please try to keep your first and foremost focus on your little one - try not to let anyone take the tenderness from this time in your life!!
I'm sorry to say that I agree that your husband's excuses are really lame! And his reactions aren't reassuring. I went thru this too, within my first year of marriage, but I wasn't in the delicate circumstance you are. It's not exactly like you can skulk around after him.. To be honest, the way I found out was checking out the cell phone bill. I saw a particular phone number that I didn't recognize, repeated often and at odd times of the day/night. Sure enough, it was hers. I agree with the other posts that say if you ask God for revelation, He will answer you - He showed me things I never could have sleuthed out on my own. The saying "your sin will find you out" is true. And even if your spouse is being sly - he isn't fooling the Most High - he'll have to answer for what he did with the family God blessed him with. In the meantime, find someone to talk this through with - a pastor, a Christian counselor, someone who can take an outside look at what's going on. It would be ideal if your spouse joined you - but I'd go myself first. I will be praying for you and your new family. God bless you, give you peace and take you under His wing.
(ps - be safe - maybe now is the time to put those condoms to use until you know he's being truthful)
I'm sorry to say that I agree that your husband's excuses are really lame! And his reactions aren't reassuring. I went thru this too, within my first year of marriage, but I wasn't in the delicate circumstance you are. It's not exactly like you can skulk around after him.. To be honest, the way I found out was checking out the cell phone bill. I saw a particular phone number that I didn't recognize, repeated often and at odd times of the day/night. Sure enough, it was hers. I agree with the other posts that say if you ask God for revelation, He will answer you - He showed me things I never could have sleuthed out on my own. The saying "your sin will find you out" is true. And even if your spouse is being sly - he isn't fooling the Most High - he'll have to answer for what he did with the family God blessed him with. In the meantime, find someone to talk this through with - a pastor, a Christian counselor, someone who can take an outside look at what's going on. It would be ideal if your spouse joined you - but I'd go myself first. I will be praying for you and your new family. God bless you, give you peace and take you under His wing.
(ps - be safe - maybe now is the time to put those condoms to use until you know he's being truthful)
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