Ok, I am a born again Christian. Grew up attending a non denominational, biblical based church. I was saved in my early teens...however distanced myself from that group of believers at about 16 or 17. The reason for this was they were so legalistic. Very few even had televisions in their homes. (my family did and that was something that was frowned upon.) But they taught that distancing ourselves from all non believers is what God wants. I was disturbed by this, because I know that from an outside view that we appeared to be exclusive, better then everyone else types...and how do we attract lost souls to Christ like that??
Anyway.. I am now 25 and I am sorry to say that I have wondered from god in the past years. Now I am rebuilding my relationship with Him (its amazing to see that He never left my side) But I miss the companionship of other Christians.
I am scared though.. I live across the country now and I am afraid to find that they will be the same here as they were back home. And Im afraid to look for a new group of believers because I guess I dont know what to expect. Can anyone else relate to my feelings? I mean I all this legalism is really stressing me out. I mean I know there is a lot of trash on tv but am I displeasing God by owning and watching one? Is it wrong to have close friends who arent Christians? Is it wrong to work hard for success in non spiritual aspects of our lives?? Like a career or athletecism? Am I out to lunch to question these kinds of attitudes?
Help people!
John
Anyway.. I am now 25 and I am sorry to say that I have wondered from god in the past years. Now I am rebuilding my relationship with Him (its amazing to see that He never left my side) But I miss the companionship of other Christians.
I am scared though.. I live across the country now and I am afraid to find that they will be the same here as they were back home. And Im afraid to look for a new group of believers because I guess I dont know what to expect. Can anyone else relate to my feelings? I mean I all this legalism is really stressing me out. I mean I know there is a lot of trash on tv but am I displeasing God by owning and watching one? Is it wrong to have close friends who arent Christians? Is it wrong to work hard for success in non spiritual aspects of our lives?? Like a career or athletecism? Am I out to lunch to question these kinds of attitudes?
Help people!
John